Suzi

My husband's ex-wife keeps dragging him to court over $8,000.00 in arrears for child support. The kids are both grown, she is remarried and I have helped him time and time again to pay his payments since he is in construction and not always working. He expects me to help him because I'm his wife. I just paid $1,800.00 for him to make a required payment and get his license back, yet he is upset with me for not going to court with him. I would have had to miss two night shifts of work and didn't think it was necessary, yet his attorney made a comment about me not being there and he's upset that I wasn't. Also, I'm expecting a distribution from my pension and he thinks I should use the bulk of it to pay the balance. I don't know what to think and feeling confused.

We are separated, but supposedly working on reconciliation and he does this, tells me he'll call me when he gets home, but never calls. Says he fell asleep when he got home watching the game.