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i have a friend , and we have known each other for about 4 years now. before last year things were cool between us, we were in the same class and i really liked him as a friend. last year he started telling me that he wanted us to be more than friends, at first i thought he was just joking only to find out later that he was dead serious. i told him no, that i was not interested. he stopped for a while, then this year he brought it up again and i turned him down. i told him that i did not like his suggestions and if he continued we will have to stop being friends...

he got mad at me and we argued over that. he is such a bully sometimes, like sometimes when he feels like talking he calls me to go to him, he doesn't even care if i am busy with something else. one day he called me and i told him i was busy, he got so angry and started shouting at me. i was so pissed off and i told him to go to hell. we have not talked since then.

last night he sent me a text that he still wants to be friends, he sent me another one saying he still feels the same about me. i do not know how to deal with such a person. what should i do? should i cut all ties with him?

my cousin and i stay together with my younger brother and uncle who is the same age as my cousin. i am 22 and she is 27 years old. well, my parents pay for the both of us ( we are all at university), and treat us the same way, or so they did before she started cancelling her modules and destroying the money without my parents' knowledge. she is supposed to be in her final year now , but all she does is drink, she does not care anymore, she does not attend her lectures and her grades are dropping.

exams are coming up but still she doesn't stay at home and try to catch up. i was worried and today i sat her down and told her to think about her future, instead of taking my advice she started crying . saying that the reason she is like that is because my parents do not give her what she wants but always give me when i ask (which is not true by the way). she said i am lucky to have both my parents taking care of me. because she has no one since her mother died ( our mothers are sisters) and her father does not care about her... i was really surprised when i heard all this. i look at this person like my own sister. and now she left home, and do not know when she will come back. what can i do about this girl? should i just let her be? please help.