Anonymous1996

I think my fiance might have some weird disorder.

When we go to sleep he turns on the A/C right above our bed. It constantly blows freezing cold air on our faces and I always wake up and don't get a good night's sleep. When I try to turn it off he freaks out and gets angry at me, even though it's 30 degrees outside at night. He says he can't sleep without it.

I think he needs help. Any advice?

There's this guy I can't get over, even though I have a fiance. But it needs to stop.

I'm really attached to him because he was the only friend who would actually hang out with me outside of school. I fell in love because we had a lot in common and he is attractive.

But anyways, not only is he conceited and rude, I need to move on because of my relationship. Any advice?

There's this guy I like and I get awkward around him because I like him and I don't want to be awkward around him because I like him but I think he might like me but Im not sure but even if he does I stil get awkward and he gets awkward and then everything is awkward and then its quiet and then its not cause he makes weird jokes and its still reakllly wakrx orihtjpweojf

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K so theres this one guy I really like. He does nice stuff for me sometimes like he brushes my hair, gives me compliments, laughs with me about stupid ****..he even told me he likes me.

But sometimes he's a total dick. Like on facebook we were talking about something and he teased me about being fat and then put a heart sign.

And he's insensitive, like really mean with the teasing to the point it's just mean. Sorry Im kinda drunk. Anyway, why are guys mean in they like a girl? Please tell me.

My friend got arrested because he was on probation and got a bad drug test for smoking and drinking. I was the one who shared with him.

Long story short we were both on probation together as minors, but I recently got off probation and his was extended.

I'm 18 now so I'm worried I could go to jail..he said he slipped and told his guardian and p.o. I shared alcohol with him before he went home and smoked weed. They already know who I am because I'm in the system. Should I be worried or am I just being paranoid?

I've known him long enough to say he's shown a lot of narcissistic traits.

Lack of empathy is one of them. Sometimes it gets better or worse. Sometimes it's subtle, you can tell he responds but doesn't really care about what you're saying. Other times it's not so subtle. Like the time I told him my kidney infection could have killed me and he started laughing.

He loves turning attention back on himself. I could be talking about some pervert who harassed me and he will complain about how guys never hit on him.

He also acts really shallow. He puts on this nice, fake act with certain people but if you really know him you can tell he's acting overly nice to get positive attention.

He has a sense of entitlement. He thinks he can use my stuff without asking. And when he couldn't use his friend's shower at 4 in the morning when we spent the night, he talked to me about her behind her back and said she was being inconsiderate. Lol.

The people he acts nicest to (at that moment in time) are the people who give him compliments and tell him what he wants to hear.

He doesn't really remember important things about me and we've been friends for over a year.

I read somewhere that just because someone has narcissistic traits doesn't mean they're a true narcissist. Is there any way to tell? I want to know just to be safe.

Also, he has gone to counseling and didn't get diagnosed. But then again counselors don't see how he acts in the real world.

I have this friend who says he's a feminist. Overall he seems to treat most women with respect. Except for me.

He's not a total ***, I really like him he's just rude sometimes and it's hard to believe he's a feminist.

Like this one time I told him my boyfriend punched me in the t*t (which really hurt by the way) and he just laughed and said I probably deserved it. Even though he knows I'm in an abusive relationship.

He also asks what my bra size is every few months (he "forgets" which is bullsh*t) and when I tell him he makes fun of me because I'm a 36B.

I told him about how this older guy gave me a ride to town and asked to see my boobs for the free ride and he wasn't really listening. His response was "That's why it sucks being gay. If you're a girl you get attention from guys even if you're not that hot. To be gay you have to actually be attractive."

Totally f*cking rude. And that was a few days after he called me pretty. I don't understand. He comes across as this nice, women's rights supporting gay guy but he acts sexist to me. No one else. Would you believe he's actuallly a feminist?

I really like this guy, and sometimes he acts like he likes me back. He always wants to hang out, but almost every time I'm with him and things get calm or quiet he complains about being bored. It makes me think I'm boring him.

Also, one day he can be acting happy to see me and the next he's all quiet and nervous, even though we're close friends.

Is this a guy thing?

Whenever I'm out with my guy friend and we meet people they assume we're dating. They refer to me as his girlfriend. Why is this?

There's this guy I really like, and I think he likes me back. I know him really well, we're close friends, and I can be myself but at the same time I'm a naturally shy and awkward person so I can't think of what to say. There's moments we can both have a good conversation or laugh over the stupidest things but sometimes it gets all awkward and quiet..and I just don't want him to think I'm boring.

What's the best way to fill in awkward silences? I'm not the kind of person that can just come up with something random or funny to get a conversation going again. I just get more quiet because I don't want to embarrass myself..

I'm terrified of going to the dentist. I almost had a panic attack just from getting xrays the last time I went. The dentist told me I could wait a month to get my 2 cavities filled since I was going camping, but it's been about 2 months and I haven't made another appointment because I'm too scared.

I can tell the biggest one, on my bottom right molar, is getting bigger. There's a black hole going down the middle on the top, I can easily see it in the mirror. The black is even more noticable, and the other cavity on my bottom left is getting worse too.

Surprisingly there is no pain. But that's what I'm afraid of. If I don't go it will get worse and hurt really bad. I can't deal with pain, needles, or drills. They are all disgusting and want nothing to do with them. How can I get over this fear? There's too many stories about dentists hitting nerves with drills or painful injections. Eww :'(

I know it's a lot to read, sorry.

I've been really attracted to this guy who I'm close friends with for the past year. My feelings for him get stronger the more time goes by. He's admitted to being in love with me, I'm not sure if he meant it but I think I'm in love with him.

At first it was a crush but then as we got to know each other better it was more than just his looks and personality. Now it's different. I feel happy around him, I love seeing him happy, I can't stop thinking about memories of us, I would do anything for him.

About 6 months ago I ran away with him (it only lasted like a day, lol) but I went to another city and slept under a bridge just so he wouldn't be alone because he was running away. I didn't mind being homeless.

Is that real love? Or obsession?

When your boyfriend and best friend tell you you're boring, it's time to change something.

What are some ways to be interesting and fun to be around?

I've been close friends with this guy for about a year. We know basically everything about each other and seemed to connect really quickly from the beginning. We've had feelings for each other that went up and down, we both liked each other a lot in the past and at the moment I think it's turning into love, at least on my side.

For the past few months I just can't. I can't even. He's so perfect. It's not just his looks, or his personality..it's something about him. His soul is beautiful. Even when I get mad at him I can't stay mad. When I'm not with him he's constantly on my mind. I wish I could give him everything that would make him happy. When I used to fall for him it was like "Oh sh*t here we go again" but now it's like I'm falling off a cliff. It's really scary. My feelings for him got stronger as time went by and now I want to say I love him..could infatuation be this strong or is it love?

I'm seeing a dentist on June 6th to get an xray.

I have a hole on my molar, it's right on the top where I chew my food. It looks like a black crack going down the middle in the crevice. I've had it for weeks but it doesn't hurt. I also have some small holes on 2 other molars.

Will these probably be fixed with drilling and filling? Or does it sound more serious than a cavity?

I wish I could say I could work on standing up for myself but I can't. It's impossible. When I get angry I'm never intimidating. People just feel sorry for me because my voice gets all whiny and sad sounding. Even when I'm legitimately furious and p*ssed off to the point I could kill someone.

I try to be assertive in a nice way, and still get walked all over. Nothing helps.

My voice is really low and boring. And I'm a girl. It's kinda shocking because whenever I see recordings of myself and I'm supposed to be happy I sound either emotionless or depressed. I don't know why because I'm not always depressed.

I've told my therapist about how I perceive myself and she doesn't have any answers. I know it's true.

Could I have a social disorder like Asperger's Syndrome?

My voice sounds weird and boring. Whenever I talk I sound quiet and emotionless, even if I'm happy.

I hate this. I want to sound like an attractive girl, not a boring loser. How can I change my voice?

When I was talking to my friend he came super close to my face, I started talking, and he said "That smells terrible." That was after I oil pulled and brushed my teeth in the morning.

That was only one time but I'm kinda worried because a few weeks ago I saw a couple of my old friends from school in town and when I was talking one of them held his hand in front of his nose.

Another time I met another old friend from school in town and she kept coughing when I was talking to her. When I turned around to say goodbye she gave me a really dirty look.

How can I tell if I still have bad breath? Will there be other signs?

Also, why would I have it if I brush my teeth twice a day, floss, and use mouthwash? Plus I oil pull and make sure to drink water and eat healthy.

I just got my hair cut and it looks great. I have side swept bangs and layers which compliments my face. What are some good ways to style layers? My hair is naturally wavy on the bottom.