tiredofthis

I started having some mild pain a while ago on my right side. Didn't think much of it. Now, its become a constant, sometimes mild, sometimes severe pain. It's not my gallbladder. I had that removed about 4 years ago but it's so close to that area! It hurts, not on the front part of my stomach but on my SIDE, almost straight down from my arm pit but at my waist line. COULD this be appendicitis? My kidneys are abnormally higher than most peoples so could my appendix be as well? Its getting worse and I've started vomiting after eating but not every time. This is screwed up!

Here's the info. 7 years ago, had a "decompression" surgery on 2 benign tumors-called facial schwannoma's. They can't be removed because they are intertwined with my facial nerves, acoustic nerves and going up into the canal opening in my skull. The deal was, decompression was supposed to buy me 10, maybe 15 years. It's now been 7 years and I have started having the same symptoms as before but worse. I go back to the neurologist (about a 6hr drive away so I need to know what to ask/talk about while I'm there!!) next week. Here's my question. I think I'm experiencing seizures now and wondered if anyone could help that has experience...give me advice, what to tell the doctor, etc.

**The first time it happened, I felt funny, then I could literally feel my left side becoming different than my right and I couldn't move the left side much at all. This lasted for about 2-3 min's then got better. The 2nd time, my body was jerking and it woke me up from sleep but I stopped jerking.... I laid there but it felt like an out of body experience, if that makes sense. I could move my entire body but it was like I wasn't really conscious. And after each of these episodes, my eyes hurt to move them ...up or down, side to side. Doesn't matter how. They just hurt for days....

**Has anyone ever experienced anything like this? Are these seizures? I will be facing radiation treatments soon but this seizure thing scares me, especially when sleeping....help please!

Here's the deal:: we've been married for 10 years, no children. Recently, we moved to another state. He was able to get a position in a factory right before they put a freeze on hiring...me, I'm running myself ragged trying to find a job but in this economy, no luck so far.

Now his job is laying their people off, rotating every other week. So, we've already got money worries but we honestly never fight about that. In fact, we hardly ever fight at all. But, and I know this may sound crazy, but the apartment we moved into is tiny so we got 2 recliners instead of a big sofa. It seems like now, we not only aren't able to sit and be close to each other, but now we hardly ever talk, laugh, nothing. Then tonight, I had a horrible horrible toothache. I was in tears and laying down with a hot cloth on my cheek...and he starts mouthing off about how all I've got is a prissy little toothache, HE'S the one that's sore from working so hard all the time, HE'S the one bringing in the money, putting a roof over MY head, blah blah. I usually just get pissed but because I was feeling so bad, I was crying asking why he was being this way. That set him off all over again. Now, to add a little background::for the 10 yrs we've been together, he's always used his "job" as an excuse for saying mean things to me, being in a bad mood, sore, whatever. He doesn't cuss me, hit me, and he's basically always good to me. But the constant "He's doing this, doing that" crap has almost destroyed my feelings for him. So, I need help and I truly don't know who to ask for it. We can't afford a therapist/marriage counselor...I do love him but I look at him and it's like I'm just blank...empty inside. I'm so torn, hurt and confused. For those ppl that's been married for a while, can you please give me some advice? He's such a good man and I don't want to hurt him but I'm breaking into pieces inside and I can't stop crying.

I've been swishing with warm salt water and it usually helps but not tonight. Plus, the more it hurts, the more I catch myself gritting my teeth in pain...and the cycle continues. We don't have insurance yet because my husband just started a new job and we moved to a new state. Any other ideas besides saltwater? (And for the people wanting to be hateful, just move on, please.)

Here goes. About 6yrs ago, my husband and I became friends with a guy I worked with and his wife. They later split up and we did everything we could for him during this time. We were told she wanted nothing to do with us. Okay. Fast forward. 3yrs ago, this "friend" joined the Nat'l Guard. We were so proud of him. We went to his basic training to visit during family time, rented a car, paid for hotel, went back down during his graduation. We've tried to be a good friend. I'm not saying the friendship was perfect. We had our fusses but we always got back on track. Well, he lost his job, had no where to go. We told him he could move in with us until he got his bonus money from the Army. He got his money, ate all our food, got caught masturbating ON OUR BED to gay porn, blew all his money, quit his job, got his car repo'd, lied to us, and more. We tried to forgive and move on. Stupid, stupid, stupid. I know. Then, he started going around wearing his Nat'l Guard uniform all the time. Started telling people he'd just came back from Iraq, that he'd been wounded, that he was scheduled to be deployed again, that his wife "died" while he was gone..(she lived @3 miles away!). Just all kind of made up stories. Had people buying him food, trying to give him money, etc. This was it for us. We told him he'd have to move. He wouldn't so we finally moved ourselves. Wouldn't tell him where, give him our phone number, nothing. He's told his new girlfriend and a LOT of other people that HE kicked us out of HIS apartment, that I was in love with him, that my husband was jealous because HE was a REAL soldier, that we owed him over $3000, that he had to use all of his bonus money to pay our bills, (he didn't pay a dime while he was ther!). We threatened a lawsuit against him (don't know if we could've even done anything but we said we could, anyway) so he backed off. Now, 3 months later, we just found out he's doing it again. He's telling lies, told some girl he was getting a job at the Pentagon and that we'd "pay"! WTF>>We just want away from him> This guy is crazy and I'm terrified of him. Has anyone ever had a situation with a stalker, liar, etc, etc? How do we get him out of our lives completely? My hubby works 3rd shift and the fake soldier has found out where we live now. I'm scared he's going to show up here. I know this is a long explaination but I had to give some details so you'd know just how crazy he is!! Can't file a police report against him-already asked--they said there had to be more harmful acts against us, or some kinda bull like that! Help! Any suggestions?

And please keep all rude/smartbutt comments to yourself. This is a serious situation and frankly, I am a little scared.

My hubby...snoring like a freight train and only 34 years old. He is overweight and he does work a hard job but geez...I can't stand to be in the bedroom with him and I'm about to knock him upside the head!!! I know, I know, he can't help it but we have to do something. We can't even snuggle or hardly sleep together it's gotten so bad. I want my hubby back!!!

From actual intercourse, not just touching and stimulation. Occassionally, I might get lucky but now, after finally losing weight and looking good (I was HUGE), now...it hurts. No matter what position, no matter how much lube, foreplay, the intercourse part hurts and if I am lucky enough to stop hurting, I still can't "get mine"...what's up with 'dat???

I recently met back up with a girl I went to school with. We didn't really know each other then and she tends to remember more about me than I do her. Anyway, she's a wonderful, good Christian person and we get along great. But here's the problem, well, a couple of problems. My husband and I have been together over 10 years. He's my best friend and we go and do everything together. We don't have kids and spend lots of time with our families, as well. She is married, has 2 kids, husband works 2 jobs, plus they live with her parents and she cares for her mother who has recently had a stroke. Completely different lifestyles. Here's the thing. She invites herself over and calls me CONSTANTLY. I mean, on my cell 5-10 times a day. If she can't get me there, she calls my home number at least 3-5 times A DAY!!! When I do talk to her, she complains constantly about her life, family, husband, blah blah. Whenever I try and talk about something, she interrupts and says she's got to go, her mom needs her, etc, etc. EVERY TIME. It's gotten to the point where I have ignored her calls for weeks and I feel guilty but still. I love having her for a friend but how do I get her to back off a little without hurting her? My husband and I enjoy doing things together and I hate having someone invite THEMSELVES and I hate talking on the phone (yeah, a GIRL that hates talking on the phone) even more. I wouldn't hurt her for anything but I'm afraid I'm gonna explode!!! Any suggestions? And please don't be rude and hateful. If that's all you got, go to another question.

I have been so sick and because I was 2wks LATE starting my period, I was thinking I could be pregnant. But I started my period last night and this morning, the nausea is still there and strong as ever. What on earth could this be? Or can you have a period and STILL be prego?