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I'm 23 and never had a GF, I'm not a virgin though. But, the last girl I was seeing, I thought me and her had something until a few months she told me she had a BF, granted it was my f999ing fault I didn't say anything until she broke the news. I thought it was either now or never and decided to tell her how I felt, and of course from then I was automatically placed in the friend zone. Even though I have a ton of good memories with her and I know she did too (Girls fuuuuKKing lie, cause I know she did otherwise she wouldn'tve around me the whole time) Anyway, eventually there comes a point (at least for me) that is just annoying and painful, it gets hard to look at her knowing she'll never be yours, but, some other vato who thinks he's a bad boy. From then she starts creeping out and you start an unhealthy obsession. Hell I've even come to a point that althogh we had our good laughs, I hate her now and from then I just don't care for friendship, I'm only human and cant help but to feel attracted. The only positive this has had on me is that I been getting pretty ripped and am trying to pick up on mma and noticed that this experience has also helped me in my drawing skills I guess much to express I'm majoring in animation. But as far as the friendship goes it's not worth it, Hell I even come to a point where I don't have anything to talk to her about. Is it worth it? at least for me it aint, but all those with similar experiences post your thoughts and how you managed with it?

I'm 23 and never had a gf, I go to school and have a lame part time job that hasn't been enough to pay for a car. so there's that problem, My whole life I grew in a poor latino family, so yeah, I still live with my parents. I don't know whether women care about that but thats truth. I'm majoring in animation which a lot of my money goes into this, since I'm passionate about it it's do or die, and am learning some mma style fighting just cause lately my home situation and all these personal issues have gotten to me, also the fact that I was recently placed in the "FrIEnd ZoNe"and rather than to seek therapy, I rather just let my rage out on a punching bag or an opponent, I've been on therapy before and hate anti-depressants. I'm not scronny, pretty built and have been told I'm good looking but never had a girlfriend, it is as if everygirl I meet out there is taken, or else like lately I'm put in the friend zone and when that happens there's no point cause I feel that once I'm in the friend zone I feel that I start creeping the girl out so that ***** with my self esteem, so I rather just forget them and their friendship. I'm not a virgin but ain't happy the way I lost it. bjut, lately I've just been asking myself is it worth being a nice guy?

I'm 21 about to turn 22 and I feel so different for my age. I don't want to put myself down but, for a 21 year old I've never had a gf, a job (even though I've been looking for one with no luck, and I don't have a car even though I can drive (I have some kind of phobia . I'm not as depressed as I use to be because I love life but, I kind of just hope I was more of a risk taker at times I feel like I can be strong but there are times when even the stupidest thoughts make me feel very insecure. I'm currently in college majoring in Animation, I think I'm a pretty kick *** guitar player as I have a very strong 80's Metal influence but, there are times I feel that the aforementioned insecurities take the best of me. For the most part I think I'm a pretty nice guy, I've never done drugs or gotten drunk. My mother's been sick since I was 10 my dad jobless the same amount of time. One day I hope to make them proud even if I'm not all that great. BTW is 5'7 a bad height for a guy

I've recently met her, in my animation 1 class and she is drop dead, hammer face smashing gorgeous. after a week I met her had lunch with her after fininshing a class. and I would really like to take that other step. But what should I get her or tell her on that day. BTW on valentine's day we would most likely stay in class for our lab hours so the only options I have to take her to eat are the school restaurants.

I know there's a risk of getting rejected but, I'm willing to take it, if we don't take risks then one can never know for sure. at least that's my motivation.

The thing is I was at a mall and while I was paying I put my other bags down and while I was leaning down a bit the guy with price scanner lowered it down, and I felt a flash although I didn't look at it directly could this damage my eye? cause the bad thing is I don't have health insurance.