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Me and my fiancée. Have been having a rough time . We have bewn fighting a lot and I feel like we are together too much...... I need space. We livw together and work together. We do nit work the same shifts. But are around eachother throughout. The day. We got into. A huge fight two days ago because he was being an asshole . I havnt talked to him much and honestly do not wanna be around him. I told him I need a lityle space and that tomarrow. I am gonna go spend the night at my grandmas....... just for one night.I never do this because we also have a daughter ...... so I don't just leave or yank her out of her routine, however ahe will be qith his mom out of town foe the wwkwnd and so I figured. One night away could do some good. Now he is saying I just wanna cheat or that I don't love him....... I do love him . But being with some one 12 hrs a day 5 days a week, plus 48 on weekends for over 3 yrs gets old I juat want a small break. You know hang with my grama who btw will nee home alone cuz my grampa is having surgey. So am I wrong?

How do you fast the most effective and safe way?

If i fast thursday& friday this week, only taking in either very low calorie drinks or no calorie drinks. And eat very light sat &sun, then fast again mon-fri how long will it take to loose wieght? I need to loose70 lbs as fast as possible. My relatio ship is on the roxks and i know my wight is a factor because its been brought up because i act like a ***** when i feel so heavy. I weigh about 200 lbs. Also want to loose weight because if i do end up single i want to feel good about my self. Btw i am 23 female .please do not act stupid i know this isnt tje best way but i am not able to execise daily , i will not expalin this i am just not able.

Have you ever loved somebody but it always seems like they are mean to you all the time?

Okay , so every morning for about the past year I wake up extremely nauseated. I don't their up but I deluge it for at last an hour or two.I an female, however I know for 100% fact I am not pregnant.what could be wrong? Or is this just normal?

Okay , so every morning for about the past year I wake up extremely nauseated. I don't their up but I deluge it for at last an hour or two.I an female, however I know for 100% fact I am not pregnant.what could be wrong? Or is this just normal?

Okay so here is the issue...... I am the manager at a small store at which mysel f and my fiancée work . My mother in law is a Headstart teacher in Arizona and she was told by someone that this yeas she will not be eligible to claim unemployment during the summer. This is the first yr she has ever been told that. So as a solution my fiancée said WA would try and hire her at the store where we work. Only problem we are fully staffed with 5 very good employees and I would hay to let one go and need to replace them again I three months , just to hire her in for 15 he's every week which would add up to about 100 a week or $200 every paycheck so like $400 a month.I offered to instead pick up hours and give her $400 per month along with paying 2 of her bills that way she could continue to enjoy her summer off. But she seemed to behavior with that when I first recommended it but now a week later not so much. She also got irritated when I said I'd have to figure something out as dad as hiring her and said she does not want to work at the store. Was my recommendation unreasonable I felt I'd be helping her more by giving( not lending) $400.00 per month plus paying two bills at $100.00 each ,so she could be off. Then hiring her so she could make $400.00 flat.was I wrong?

I recently came across canned pork and was wondering if anyone has ever tasted it and what it tastes like?? I've had canned chicken and canned Tuna but only as saladA.D. Also had spam at breakfast and I like all 3 however I've tried Vienna sausages and potted meat and both disgust me so any opinion would be great......should I try it?

Hi, I am 23 and I seriously need to loose 70 lbs. I know I need to exercise and eat better,however I am a planner and really need this to be organized I cannot afford to hire someone or join any programs I need to do thought free aside from the cost of food. Please help me btw I am female and I have had one child 5 yrs ago...... Please help me!!!! :-( also please do not make any stupid far jokes I just need help...... My goal weight is 125 lbs. Also any reference as to how long it my take realistically would help. Also it has been suggested that I have subclinical hypothyroidism......but no treatments.

Hi, I am 23 and I seriously need to loose 70 lbs. I know I need to exercise and eat better,however I am a planner and really need this to be organized I cannot afford to hire someone or join any programs I need to do thought free aside from the cost of food. Please help me btw I am female and I have had one child 5 yrs ago...... Please help me!!!! :-( also please do not make any stupid far jokes I just need help...... My goal weight is 125 lbs. Also any reference as to how long it my take realistically would help. Also it has been suggested that I have subclinical hypothyroidism......but no treatments.

Help what should I do?

someone I am very close too has been having a problem with an addiction..... Let's say it's my cousin bob. So recently I did not know what to do so I called Bobs best friend and told him I had no one else to turn to with the problem..... We will call the best friend Sam.anyway Sam promises not to say anything to bob, he did not and I did not. We just agreed we would intervene if necessary. Anyway I guess Sam confused in his dad(sams dad) and told him not to provide bob with any assistance in acquiring the substance of addiction.(sams dad has done this before). Well bob called sams dad today for said assistance and sams dad told him about my and sams conversation......no bob is mad at me and saying he wants nothing g to do with me, because I 'sold him out' too hid best friend....Is what I did wrong? Was I wrong for not telling bob that I told Sam? I'd really like too tell Sam about his dad selling g me out but don't want too cause more drama.....what should I do?

Hi I really don't want to be criticized but I am 23 and overweight I was 135 lbs had a baby and weighed 147 after birth I then gained like 40 lbs from the depot shot. I stopped the depot and over the past few yes gained another 20 lbs. I am desperate to loose this weight as fast as I can but I don't know what kind if work out to do?? I can't afford the gym but was thinking about doing a sings class 3-5 times a week....... Help me please I Amready to cut my just slice my stomach open.....I am so frustrated and feel helpless

Here's the deal. He has this old friend from like 8 years ago it's a chick. I don't really know her too well all I know is I went to her house once in high school, and I witnessed no lie her let 5 guys run a train on her. Well all of a sudden she calls him and he tells me I was upset, I asked him why he even talked to her and he says because they were both close to a friend who passed away sophomore yr. Anyway I have a few really good old friends and that are guys I don't talk to either of them ever anymore because he didn't like it...... He had also stopped talking to her for the same reason btw he also had sex a/ her more than once while I never had sex a/ either of the 2 of MY friends .... Am I wrong for getting mad? Especially since one of the guys I stopped talking to was my absolute best friend.I just told him I didn't like it because I know she was a hoe and prolly still is we have a fighter together and I hate fighting so I told him what I thought and separated myself from him( I'm in a separate part of our house) . I so not actually have a huge problem with him talking to her as long as he is honest and I can talk to my old friends however since I uttered my low opinion of her he said next time he won't tell me...... Was I wrong for making it clear how I felt? Btw we have been together 6.5 yrs and we hasn't talked to these ppl in at least 5.5 yrs

So i am at work right now. I work at a small convenience store and so does my fiancee. I opened this morning at 6 am and he was supposed to be here at 11:15- 5:15 pm. It is 11:35 now. Any way i asked another co worker to come in early and she said she could be here at 2:00 pm no earlier. So she is coming in and covering the rest of his shift at 2 pm...... Problem is he is very sick i am convinced it is his appendix, because i had appendicitis and he has all the symptoms that i had.Any way only 6 ppl work here us being 2 of them.none of the others can come in today to cover from 11:30-2 pm. To add my bosses (the owners of the store) live in the back and we are very close with them. here is my dilemma they will not let me leave to take him to the er.......he is caring for our 5 yr old and we have no baby sitter. My boss suggested he calls the ambulance to pick him up because he can go on his own ....... yes this is true but i want to make sure he is okay and i need to care for my daughter. What is getting on my nerves is that they phukyn live here and could cover the register until two but they are too busy sleeping...... btw its 11:30 uuggghh shouldn't they step to the plate and help? I have done many favors for them off the clock and now they cannot help me in an emergency its hurtful. I feel like tel;ling them to figure it out and just leaving but i dont want to loose my job....... or cause tension between us but am i wrong? i should be there with my daughter and be there for my fiancee if he is this sick...

So i am at work right now. I work at a small convenience store and so does my fiancee. I opened this morning at 6 am and he was supposed to be here at 11:15- 5:15 pm. It is 11:35 now. Any way i asked another co worker to come in early and she said she could be here at 2:00 pm no earlier. So she is coming in and covering the rest of his shift at 2 pm...... Problem is he is very sick i am convinced it is his appendix, because i had appendicitis and he has all the symptoms that i had.Any way only 6 ppl work here us being 2 of them.none of the others can come in today to cover from 11:30-2 pm. To add my bosses (the owners of the store) live in the back and we are very close with them. here is my dilemma they will not let me leave to take him to the er.......he is caring for our 5 yr old and we have no baby sitter. My boss suggested he calls the ambulance to pick him up because he can go on his own ....... yes this is true but i want to make sure he is okay and i need to care for my daughter. What is getting on my nerves is that they phukyn live here and could cover the register until two but they are too busy sleeping...... btw its 11:30 uuggghh shouldn't they step to the plate and help? I have done many favors for them off the clock and now they cannot help me in an emergency its hurtful. I feel like tel;ling them to figure it out and just leaving but i dont want to loose my job....... or cause tension between us but am i wrong? i should be there with my daughter and be there for my fiancee if he is this sick...

1. drinking

2.smoking

3. marijuana

4. hard drugs

5. dieting to stay thin

6. other risky behavior(give an example)

I am a cashier at a store and i see a lot of elderly alcoholics, I am just curios as to what happens when the family cannot take care of them anymore and they need to be placed in a home? I have heard stopping alcohol can be dangerous. Would the home(full on assisted living) let them drink?

I am a manager at a small convenience store, My bosses and I are very close.

I found out yesterday that their ex son in law, who they are still rather close with and I also know him and his new wife.....lost their baby to sids.

I am upset because the mother of the infant smoked throughout her entire pregnancy! she smoke about a pack about every 1-2 days! I know this because I witnessed it. I read today that smoking while pregnant is one of the 3 things which can increase the risk of sids . There is also a section in the wiki info on sids that states second hand smoke as another risk......I am torn and frustrated at not only the mother, but the father and my bosses for allowing her smoking to continue. My bosses had even given her packs of cigarettes on a tab and they were fully aware of her pregnancy.I know that sids is not only caused by this but i do know that it was a risk that was 100% preventable.Now i would never dare say anything to them about my feelings, they have lost a child and it is not my place to point any fingers

But am I wrong to just be totally upset about the entire situation?

i feel guilty for feeling this way

wedding son ideas!

1. prelude: mamas song - Carrie Underwood, I don't wanna miss a thing - Aerosmith.

2. processional: marry me- train ft Martina Mcbride

3.bride entrance: hero- Enrique Iglesias

4.recessional: always and forever- Heatwave

5. 1st dance: joyride- Mariah Carey

6.father/ daughter (in my case grandpa): always be your baby -Natalie Cole or Take good care of my baby- Bobby Vee?

7.mother/ son : simple man - Lynard Skynard

8.cake cutting: sugar sugar honey honey- The Archies or pour some sugar on me: def leapord?

9. Bouquet toss: single ladies: Beyonce

10. garter toss : cherry pie - warrant

vote for your choice on # 6 and #8 thanx :)

suggestions for :

1. Processional

2.first dance

3. Father/ daughter dance

4. Garter toss

5. Bouquet toss

6. Cake cutting

7.last dance

Best list wins 10 pts