Zara

Someone on here said there are no nerves in the vagina

Is it common for a girl (under 18) to put a finger in down there? I've done this and I wonder Or do women only do penetration once they're in a relationship? I'm asking because I heard that female masturbation is typically only about the clitoris. Also I heard if a woman isn't lubricated enough, she could actually bleed during sex but not due to her hymen rupturing. Is it that rough? Why do some women just love penetration but with me it's so boring if I put a finger in?

Someone on here said:

"Male sexuality is triggered by visual stimuli."

"Female sexuality is triggered by love and emotional bonding. We don't get turned on by visuals."

So someone who gets turned on by visuals is automatically inevitably male?

Are males just made to be aggressive and turned on by the smooth side of a circle?

Do guys watch p*** because they're mad at their partner because their partner doesn't like penetration?

And also, why is it pretty normal for a female to be turned OFF by p***, whereas I've never heard of a guy being turned off by p***? Is that even possible LOL? And if a female was to like p*** and guy didn't like watching p***, then would that make the girl masculine and the boy feminine? Sorry I'm kind of confused here

I'm trying to see if I'm that unusual.

1. "Most women's masturbation is only about the clitoris." This is from scarleteen.com. I avoid mine because it hurts.

2. "No part of the vagina is filled with nerves. The opening and first one third of the vagina has extremely few, but the last two-thirds have no nerves in them." Quote from scarleteen.

3. Honestly, this is an actual quote from an article from the website scarleteen.

"Intercourse and other vaginal entry is more about male sexuality and pleasure than it is about women's sexuality and pleasure."

If quotes #2 and #3 are true, does this I'm not the only one that puts a finger in and is completely bored by the penetration? I'm going under anesthesia to get a vaginal swab done. I was horrified when the gyno tried to give me a swab twice before. I'm so dry down there too ☹️️🌅🏜 And also I've touched it in a roughnway to make it hurt before when I feel really upset Is this self-harm?

Is it also what causes assault? And does this mean that the female hormone (I'm a female I should know what it's called but I've forgotten) is gentle and emotional and the male hormone is aggressive?

Are things like:

1. Do females feel emotionally good from sex and males feel physically good from sex?

2. Men are extremely visual and get turned on by and want to do it with other people

3. Isn't it common for women to be offended and disgusted by p*rn but guys seem to always love it and get turned on by it honestly I doubt it's physically possible for a man whose straight to not like demeaning p*rn it's kind of sad

4. Does the vagina itself have sensation that isn't linked to the internal and/or external clitoris or it is just numb and there for. ales and pregnancy?

5. I ask #4 because penetration with my fingers either hurts or is boring or I can't feel it

If I still have this bad pain in my cl*oris and vag*na when I grow up and enter a relationship, will they notice if it doesn't feel good (meaning when I'm touched.) And are guys unaware of the cli*oris I hope they are because what if they would try to touch mine it would hurt so bad ☹️️

Are these quotes true?

1. "Most women's masturbation is only about the clitoris." From scarleteen.com

2. "No part of the vagina itself is filled with nerves. The opening and first one-third of the vagina has extremely few, but the last two-thirds have no nerves in then." From scarleteen.com

3. "Intercourse or other vaginal entry is more about male sexuality and pleasure than it is about women's sexuality and pleasure."

Does this mean I'm not the only broken, defective person out there?!? Are other women bored by and feel numb down there? I can penetrate myself with a finger but in the past when my gynecologist attempted to a swab I cried and couldn't let her I was absolutely horrified. When I'm really upset about down there I feel like it will ruin my life because I won't be able to ever have a relationship or kids. I've touched it roughly before just to cause it pain. I wish it wasn't defective

I've heard that guys are super duper visual and that basically the breeze turns them on and anything and everything a ***** . . .

Does this mean they walk around with a constant ***** at any sight of anything remotely female or the thought of anything even remotely relating to s*x?

Are guys just way more sexual than women?

On December 2nd, 2016, I have an appointment with the gynecologist. I have to be put under general anesthesia. I don't remember the exact dates, but in the last three months, I had two gynecologist appointments. At both of these appointments, the (female) gynecologist determined I needed a vaginal culture. For anyone who doesn't know, a vaginal culture is a test where they insert a swab in about 1/2 an inch to swab the inner part of the vaginal opening just inside the vagina to collect a sample of sells to test under a microscope in a labratory to see what is causing my blue things in my discharge, my occasional green discharge, vulvar pain, vaginal pain, and clitoral pain. In both of the two times the gynecologist attempted to do the swab, I wasn't alone with the doctor and my mom was in the room with me. I was crying and almost was shaking I felt absolutely horrified and couldn't let them do it. This is why I have to be put under general anesthesia. But my question is:

1. What should I expect? My mom said they'll weigh me to determine how much anesthesia to give me, put a needle (IV) in my arm, give me the anesthesia, I'll be knocked out for an hour, and they'll do the swab while I'm knocked out.

Also, I'm scared that once we get there I won't be able to go through with it. I don't want to get there (it's more than 1 hour one way from where we live) and be too horrified to do it. I feel like I might be scared to let them knock me to let them do it. Answers appreciated.

I have no histoy of abuse. I'm a female virgin who is in her early teens. When I've got upset in the past, I've pulled on down there and it hurts. I do it because sometimes I feel like I hate down there because it hurts and I feel like it will ruin any chance of someone ever caring about me cause guys are unrapable, unemotional, s*x-crazed people (from everything I've seen and heard.) I feel guilty about down there. And also I really need some advice about my future gynecologist appointment. On December 2nd, I have an appointment with the gyencologist. I have to go under whatever thing it is that makes you fall asleep for them to do a vaginal swab. We tried twice to do it with me awake, and I cried and couldn't do it I was so scared and horrified I don't know why what is wrong with me. I'm scared I'll be unable to let them do it even if I'll be knocked out 😩😓

Someone on here said that the vagina has no actual nerves for pleasure at all.

Anybody know why I feel so little inside me?

My Problem: When I put a finger in, I barely feel it. It's boring. It doesn't turn me on, or give me any sexual pleasure.

Shouldn't it? Am I just cursed with a defective vagina?

The reason I think it's normal (possibly) is because if you google about vaginal numbness, other people say they feel very little in their vaginas, too.

Is this quote true:

"There is a lack of sensitivity inside the vagina. The actual vagina has no actual nerve endings at all."

But if this was true, dildos wouldn't be made. Women wouldn't waste time with sex, and men's bodies wouldn't of been made with penises if penetration sucked for women, right?

I'm confused and don't know what to believe. I feel like some women are so lucky and actually enjoy penetration! But I'm a virgin and nothing feels good in there and my clitoris just hurts.

Compared to the clitoris, how many nerve endings does the vagina have?

And if a guy doesn't like it what does it mean

I'm a girl I'm just wondering

Assuming that life could be supported on that planet?

If someone sometimes feels really bad about their genitals and they touch themselves down there to make it hurt? I've never been abused I have clitoral and vaginal pain.

1. Would sex really suck without a clitoris?

Some woman said that someone could drive a truck up her vagina and she wouldn't feel it unless her clitoris was being stimulated. If I put a finger in, I barely even feel it, I don't feel turned on by it, and I don't feel any pleasure from it at all.

2. What will I do if I get into a relationship (find a position where the guy can't seehow bored I look and try to feel something)

I have a clitoris but it's useless because it hurts

Sometimes I hate my down there so much I touch it to hurt it on purpose ☹️️

3. If clitoral stimulation is so great, why do women have sex?

4. Is penetration supposed to feel as good as clitoral stimulation supposedly feels?

Does anybody have a cure for very low sensation in there? I barely feel a tampon or one of my fingers. And if the cli*oris is

most women's main source of pleasure, why do women do "it?" I've heard a few women even orgasm from penetration (I barely feel it all ☹️️) and don't say clit stim because that hurts.

How do I increase the sensation inside my vag*na? I get wet but then if I put a finger or two in, I experience no sexual pleasure, my arousal doesn't increase, it feels boring, and if I don't focus on feeling sensation in my vagina, I barely even feel that there is something in there. I'm a virgin. I'm in my early teens. If I get into a relationship in the future, what will a guy do or say if I told him the truth about my down there (that I don't feel anything, I have clitoral pain, and I can't orgasm.)?