Sister to the world

I met this guy about four months ago and at first we were really good friends. I was dating other people at the time and nothing was really working out for me so I decided to give up, but then he asked me if I wanted to go out with him romantically. It clicked instantly for us and I just enjoy spending time with him every chance I get.

I’m just not sure if it’s too soon to be saying that these feelings I have for him warrant love, or infatuation. He asked me to be his girlfriend a month and a half ago. I’m wondering if there is a certain amount of time someone should wait, I’ve only had one boyfriend in the past and I’ve never felt like this way before. I’m scared he’s going to think I’m a weirdo.

In some movies, characters will grab what they want at a convenience store and throw a twenty dollar bill at the counter to cover the costs. I was just curious if this was a real thing that could be done? Not that I would ever do it because it’s an asshole move but if it’s something real that people do. My father works as a district manager for Circle K and to my understanding the whole reason behind checkout is to keep inventory and track the money going in and out.

Okay, this is to all the guys out there. I need an answer from a man that understands my boyfriend or from a woman who has been in my position. I am 19 and a month ago the guy i'm with asked me to be his girlfriend. I really like him and hes my first boyfriend ever. In the beginning he always liked to see me, he always came to hang out and now it seems like hes always busy and he doesn't have time. We made plans a week ago to go for a drive and do some fun stuff together, just live life to the fullest and he canceled them because, and I quote, he said "I am too high rn to even move, I don't think you should come over." Now I am really chill and laid back, but ever since then I will offer up the idea of us hanging out and he will give me this vibe that hes just too busy doing other things. I've never been with someone before and I really like him. I'm really laid back, I give him his space and I don't pressure him ever. If he wants to hang out with his friends, who I have met, I am totally cool with that. I just miss him and when I tell him that he seems aggravated, like i'm suffocating him or something. I have no idea what to do and im kind of scared. I have trust issues from when I was young that have resurfaced because I feel like he doesn't like me anymore but he won't tell me whats wrong. I really like him, but im not sure what I can do to. He tells me that everything is okay, but actions speak louder than words. Am I being too much? Am I doing something wrong?

I am still a senior in high school and I have been doing everything in my power to ensure that I enter a successful college. With a possible opportunity in the military in my sights, I am hoping to become a JAG. However, if that goes unsuccessfully I have to think in reality. What will my options be if I want to be a sufficient Lawyer with a good job when I graduate college?

I am unsure which route to go if this occurs and I was curious if anyone could help me out because this was mentioned to me at a college fair, but not into great detail.