Thickness Robb

Okay people if your man or woman use to cheat on you with that person and they broke up with each other and now they want to stay in contact with the sister or brother and they be emailing each other pictures and drinking and just hanging out together plus texting each other while you are sitting beside them and you tell them you are uncomfortable with it but they try to defend what they are doing.

Is it okay to invite them to your house or call them even email them when your spouse is not okay with it and they ask you to make a choice?

One word people huh "OBAMA"

Miss Cherry welcomes friends with open arms but some people are not to friendly some are very childes to all my friends thank you for your responses and those of you who are future friends my life is a open book and feel free to view my blog and profile and email me if you will i am not going to say this person name because they been on answers a very long time but he is very virble abusive and it is not cool I have try to be nice and handle it in a mature way now my profile or blog never said anything about oral things and what not and I don't mind small talk but this person took it to another level I am so tempted to put this person email and pictures they are sending me for you guys to veiw but two wrongs don't make it right please what is the best way to handle this situation!!

My african liberian baby gossips 24/7 Imean he go out side and smokes come in and I mean 2 movies can come and go and he still on the phone I fell so alone I have more than enough fiends it's just when I come from work I am very tiered sometimes you just want your man to hold you or just make love you are never to tiered for that okay any way what will you do or how far would you go to make your self happy.Ilove him but just not in love any more he is 45 and I am 31 !!!!!!

I been with him for eleven years and to this day his daughter is so jealious of me . Everyday she find a reason to upset me it's like we both in some kind of contest.All I want is some kind of respect from her yes I work and I have three kids bye him.I even have my house we do not live together she is 24 I am 31 and he is stress and they are both from africa!!!! I am not happy really but I am not going to run from her I am upset because he is not understanding where I am coming from she can not choose his mates or control him.Every time we have disagreements he calls her and she puts her two cents inside.!! I am begining to hate her very much.It's not like I am asking her to call me mom HA!!!! ha!!!!

Seems like most men always say I know what it feels like not to have your dad in your life and you mother struggling to make it so I was almost like raising myself and I turn to my boys for that support .No matter what happens my son or daughter is going to have everything they need. But when things fall into place and he feel he missing out on that street life they won't out money issue and friends clowning him or smothering him in a way he feel he's to young for this or even worst an excuse about the body issue not looking the same and last but not lease the loser type I want a blood test!! And when he find out it's his he's running from child support .So for all the fathers that still in your children life I give the up most respect and God bless your heart because it's not always about us the children is our future and it's easy to run but hard to survive !! So study your partner people before you make a sudden decision!!! P.S Love MissCherry26

WELL SEE BEING THAT I WORK LONG HOURS AND I BE SO TIRED WHEN I GET HOME .THAT WHEN HE GOES TO TOUCH ME I SAY PLEASE HONEY MY BODY IS SORE THEN HE SAYS SEE THAT IS WHY MEN CHEAT BECAUSE OF WOMEN LIKE YOU! SO I SAID WELL DO WHAT EVER IT IS YOU NEED TO DO BECAUSE YOU PICK THE WRONG TIMES TO WANT TO GET SOME SO ONE DAY I WENT TO WORK AND AFTER DRIVING ALMOST AN HOUR I REALIZED I FORGOT MY CELL PHONE!! SO I TURNED AROUND AND WENT BACK INTO THE HOUSE .AS I PUT THE KEY IN THE DOOR THEY WERE COMING OUT I ASK WHAT IS GOING ON AND SHE SAID ASK YOUR MAN? OKAY WHAT IS GOING ON NATE ? WELL YOU SAID DO WHAT I NEED TO DO AND I DID !!! SO I SAID OKAY AND THAT IS WHAT I WILL DO TOO. I JUMP ON HOME GIRL AND WENT TO JAIL FOR ASSAULT AND HE BOND ME OUT BUT I WAS STILL ANGRY THAT THIS HAPPEN IN MY HOUSE. WHILE I AM TRYING TO MAKE ENDS MEET. YES I AM STILL WITH HIM BECAUSE SOME HOW I FEEL THAT IT'S MY FAULT OR IS IT????

See one day I wanted to check my email and I notice he have not log off .And so I viewed his emails and one of them said we have found 12 new matches from fling.com .Okay i click on wow oh wow all kinds of nude women with there legs open asking him to email back or web cam some of these women live right around my area. At first I wasn't going to approach him but then why would he be looking for a one night fling ? Then i decided to ask why and he was very upset at the fact I saw his email and that he was just flirting ?? But my thing is when two people are in the room flirting what else is next . What would you do if your love one is searching for one knight stands while you are working a ten hour shift and they recently got laid off of there job and instead of using the internet for better purpose other than looking for one night stands .I love him but now I don't trust him because instead of saying sorry and delete his profile he was really defensive like as if it were my fault!!

people let's talk okay my man been hanging out with his friends almost three times a week clubs going out of town and everything see they got the plan so good they call each other at work and his friends be waiting for him out side before he gets home he pulls up and act like he don't know what is happening what ever then find a way to fuss about anything just so he can go with the boys no problem one day he went out of town one one his closest friends just stop by they are almost like brothers okay he had some drinks with him i told him his boy was gone but he act like he have to use the restroom i let him in when he finish he ask me what did i see in my man i ask him why would you say that he just laugh he ask me do you want something to drink me sure why not while we got our drink on he said i know everything i tell you you will tell him i said it depends lets say your peoples not being honest with you. i say i know but guess what you should help me out .we did now do i tell??

my husband sits on the couch watching his news while digging between his toes and picking his toe nails then eats then so when i speak on it he says i am lying okay one day he thought i was sleep he was on the phone gossiping about my personal problems and you know he already messed up cause that is another thing he should be ashamed of but any way he start digging up his nose had the nerve to roll it around and pluck it across the room.GOSH!!!! old nasty bastard you know what happen next right? i said i guess you are going to denied that to huh? first thing he said angie leave me the hell alone if i am picking my nose or scratching my *** or bitting my nails you always have something to say your not my ******* mother .okay i replied but when you want to kiss me or touch my face that's nasty wash your hands cause that is germs.he says well then we don't have to kiss .but people that's not all he even burps at the table after he gobbles his food down while you are still eating yours !!!

see my husband and i been together for 11 years and every time we go out he always staring at women. but when i stare at men he gets very upset with me .so then i say well you do the same thing?? he says your lying who am i staring at i didn't even notice her .you just looking for an excuse to cheat!! it get to the point i put on some thing sexy just to keep his attention making sure other guys don't try to look at my lovely lady humps .two can play that game he wants to denied every thing like i am imagining stuff please then try to act like he left something behind . so he can collect his numbers well get this he hates the way i walk and make up on my face .. why is that maybe he wants all the attention. he tells me not to dress a certain way but that is what he is attracted to tells me you are a mother now .it get to the point to avoid fights we rarely go out any more now the sex ain't all that great nor conversation but he says because he is 45 and i am 30 .what do one do huh!???