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Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for the past 7 years. We've known each other since elementary school so we have a lot of history. When I broke up with him twice before it was because I found out he was cheating with his son's mother, whom he was with prior to the start of our relationship. A few days ago, his son's mother text me out of the blue saying that they were still messing around. It really hurts because I love this man but feel like I have given him too many chances. I've d@mn near had a nervous breakdown over this the last time we split. He wants to have his cake and eat it too basically playing me and the baby mama off of each other. I don't know why its so hard for me to let go because its TOO hard to trust him again. I'm not an insecure person at all but its hard not to wonder what he's doing when not with me. Should I just let this go? Seems like the only thing holding us together is sex. Please help.

Me and my boyfriend have only been together a couple of months but it's been the best couple of months of my life. I honestly feel like this guy is my forever. My problem is that he is leaving within the next month or so for Iraq. I don't know what to do with myself right now. I don't like talking about this with him because it makes me sad to think about the love of my life being that far away from me. I honestly can't imagine life without him anymore. Are there any military spouses and/ or girlfriends who have been through this before? I'm trying to put on my happy face for him and be strong because I don't want him getting sad either. How do I learn to cope with this? (No rude answers please. I'm dealing with enough)

I originally told my psych that I wanted to change meds from Wellbutrin to Prozac but have since learned that Prozac interacts with the Adipex that I need for weight loss. I have only taken the Prozac one time which was yesterday. Is it ok to start back taking my Wellbutrin without any ill effects?

Me and my b/f have been together for 5 months. I allowed him to move in with me when we got home because I was so in love at the time.(Note: we had been friends since high school). Things started off great once he got home; he was so attentive and loving then it all changed. He got lazy, wouldn't help with bills, never paid attention to me and became completely emotionless and inaffectionate towards me. He's also an alcoholic and has fits of violence when he does. Basically, I was in the relationship alone. I became more depressed than ever, turned to drinking and smoking and lost what little self-esteem I had left. I have tried to end the relationship and made him move out. He has since become the most crazy, obsessed person I have ever seen in my life. He calls 60+ times a day sometimes and sends crazy texts. Last nite was the final straw; he popped up at my house while I had a new friend there, banging on my door waking up my neighbors while screaming and crying. My friend left and feeling pity for the ex, I let him in to talk and things got out of hand. I ended up trying to drink myself into a coma after listening to him cry all night about how betrayed he felt and how much he loves me and how he understands the mistakes he's made with me. I'm tired of all the scary crazy drama. I ended up cutting my wrist last night, because I can't keep going thru all this with him anymore. Should I believe that he really loves me and try to make it work or what? I suffer from depression and he's made me literally suicidal now. I don't know what to do. I'm scared of him now.

My boyfriend is coming home soon, next week to be exact from Afghanistan, and I am a nervous wreck about how I look. I already have self-image and weight issues but they have magnified times 10 the closer it gets to time for him to arrive. Every time I look in the mirror I wonder how he could want someone so disgusting. I'm at the point now that I want to tell him not to even touch me. He always tells me how beautiful and sexy I am and will want me no matter what I think of myself and wants us to build A LIFE together. He's even said that if I feel so strongly about losing weight we can work thru this together as a couple. He says we can workout together and everything. I think part of the reason I feel this way is because he's military and don't wanna have him be the fine, chiseled guy with the fat girlfriend. Can someone please offer me some helpful KIND advice? (No smart a** comments please. I'm going thru enough)

There is a guy that I was recently set up with by a friend at work. At the time, I had no idea that this man would turn out to be everything that I have been looking for. Very attentive, loving, affectionate and God-fearing. Though we have only been knowing each other for like the past week, this feels like nothing else I have ever felt with another man. I think he may be The One. Now here is my dilemma; I have the opportunity to get a promotion at work. I currently work 8a-4:30p and when promoted, my hours would change to 3-11p. That would leave little room, for me and my honey to see each other, thus causing strain. I am confused as to what I should do. Also, there is a position I could take on my current shift, but not quite as much money as the 3-11 job. Please help. (Serious answers only please)

I am potentially about to be thrown into the role of mother for my 2 small cousins. Their mother has never been able to provide for them the way they should and that really hurts me. Every time I go to visit there is always something wrong; one of the kids has gotten hurt, the baby doesn't have diapers, they don't have food or lights, etc. And I frankly feel that no child should grow up that way. Am I wrong for feeling like her children should be taken away and adopted by me? I am only 25 years old and it always seems like family responsilities are falling on me, as I am already caring for 2 elderly family members in their home.

Everyone tihnks that this is something that I could be really good at. The camera and I have a connection. Ever since they came out with the "camera phone", I am always taking photos of myself. I am just unsure of how one actually gets into the modeling industry. Please help.