Nicole

Is a one year to much for a middle school relationship? He's in 8th, she's in 7th.

Ever since I came out to my mother as transgender (ftm), which she said she understood, she's been buying me earrings, dresses, and so on. I let her get them, but I never wear them. She says she only does it because she says I need new clothes. She uses she/daughter/her and so on, my father uses gender-neutral pronouns, so I hang out with him more. My mother refuses to let me get my hair cut and she won't let me talk to my only other LGBT real life friend anymore. Why?

I'm pan-romantic/Asexual if that matters.

So my best friend is a male and I met him on the Internet, but my friend from school makes jokes about me and him being together. Now, don't get me wrong, he's a great guy and he keeps me from cutting, but I'm not attracted to him in that way. I know he's not attracted to me that way either because of how close his sister and I are (she keeps me updated). But my friend keeps poking these jokes even though I've asked her to stop. How do I get her to stop?

I want to thank the LGBTQ(+) community. for being there for me. (And legalizing marriage in 3+ countries) you did a great job guys!

So, I accidentally linked my ask.fm to my Facebook, and my mother saw. However, my bio reads ; Transgender Panromantic/Asexual. (And other stuff) she saw that and called me. She wasn't angry, she said "You're to young to know who you are." And "It's just hormones." However, I've been feeling this way since I was little. I forced myself to wear dresses and be happy with pink. I just never knew what to call myself. I finally figure it out, and my mother denies it. What do I do to convince her? (I'm F2M btw)

Now, I live in a somewhat messed up family, my cousin was shot and killed by her boyfriend, (You can search it, it was in Virginia, poor Misty) my uncle is dating a girl twenty years younger than himself, another cousin is engaged after a month and my brother's father left him before his first year. My father came into the picture and he's great to my brother, well is. My mom mentioned that at one point he said "If Toby ever says he's gay, I'm going to beat his as*!"

He only ever said something like that once. He supports them now, but what if he doesn't support transgenders? My mother supports LGBTQQ+ but she doesn't bring it up unless it's already on the table. And my mother also says quite a lot, "Are you gay (cough lesbian* cough)? Because I'll love you no matter what." I always reply with a"No mom!" Because I'm not, I'm pansexual. I've grown up a baptist Christian, with a Japanese priest and an amazing church group. (It's mainly Catholic Christians who deny LGBTQQ+ people happiness) My 'sensei' supports (as far as I know) LGBTQQ+, so no problem with church accepting me, but my family is my problem. I have a whole letter written in notes on my phone, but I'm scared to tell. I have also been thinking I should tell my mother... Should I tell my parents I'm trans? Or even Pan?

I know I'm transgender, that's said and done, but, I need to tell my mom and dad. I'm an ftm, and I can't stand it when my mom tells me to wear makeup or jewelry! Neither of them has really expressed much emotion towards LGBTQ+ subjects, even when I try to bring it up. My dad, well, I used to be his little princess, but I can't do it anymore. I've told a few Internet friends, all but one were very supportive. And the one that wasn't is still my friend, we just kind of ignore the topic. I'm not depressed, thank god, but I want to tell them, it's just I don't know how. Any ideas?