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So I ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I love him heaps but as our relationship goes on I m learning how self involved he is. He s a musician and I am most definitely not even close to the priority music takes in his life. A few weeks ago it was my birthday. He knew about it but planned nothing. I invited him out with my family for dinner for my birthday and he had planned to do recording with his music friend then he went to our flatmates gig afterwards. Then last week my dad died. I m pretty devastated. I went back to my hometown for the week without him and now I m back he has done nothing nice for me. He has just had jams with random people of no importance in our room so I have to leave and can t just for home to the comfort of my bedroom. He also didn t even contact me on the day of my dad s funeral. I was getting texts all day from people offering me their support and he didn t. I think he does love me but I m sick of feeling so forgotten

So I have a crush on my housemate. Sometimes we will get high and watch a movie together in his room. Last time he was sitting next to me and a couple of times turned his head and looked at me while I was watching the film. But I did nothing cause I'm shy and we weren't alone. What should I do next time? Probably this weekend. We are both 22 btw xx thanks

Ive been living in a house for two months with 4 guys. We are all early 20s. I really click wiyh one of them in particular. He is handsome, talented and charming. One night we were drunk and he told me he would make a pass at me if we werent living together. Sometimes we will have parties and he talks to me a lot. We got high the other night and were sitting on the couch squished up together and he just talked to me and shut the other guy out. I really like him and want to make a move but not if ill just be rejected. What shoild I do? Thsnks x

So over the last few years I've left high school, moved to foreign places, fell out with my best friend of 7 years and really undergone some social stress. I used to be funny, confident and outgoing. I never cared what anyone thought of me but now everything has changed. I constantly feel judged and boring. I feel like I don't even know who I am anymore. I used to love taking silly photos with my friends but now I shy away and feel pathetic. I have recently moved into a flat with four guys...they are really nice and welcoming and I really want to be able to joke around with them and build relationships but I am finding it very hard. I also feel that ive become quite stupid. I used to understand words and concepts fove years ago that I struggle to remember or grasp now. How do I regain my personality and confidence. I so badly want to start living again

I just started going to the gym. I go six days a week. Every session i will do running and fast walking interval training for about 40 mins. Im eating a healthy low cal diet. I also do a few arm and leg exercises. Im not over weight as such just want to lose excess fat and tone up a bit. Thanks!

My boyfriend and I broke up about five months ago and we haven't talked since. Then he text me last night at 3am saying hey how are you? I havent text back cause I feel like he just wanted a booty call. Thoughts?? Thanks :)

So my bf broke up with me over the ph about two months ago..so I kinda feel resentment towards him. We havent spoken since. Anyway I just really miss his touch and I reaaally want to sleep with him. Its frustrating because I feel like he mqybe would be keen but im too much of a pussy to ask him. Im looking after my friends house next week who lives pretty close to his house and ill be alone. God damn. What should I or shouldn't I do?

So I had been with this guy for about five months. We had a bit in common and got on well. We are both 21.but the thing is he never had time for me..we would see each other at the most once a week and we live about ten minutes drive apart. I was always keen to spend time together but he never would initiate it until the weekend. And lately it had been getting me down..I felt like if he genuinely liked me he would wsnt to spend time with me. so the other night I sent a bitchy text in reply to his suggesting to drop my ph off at my house rather than hang out. Then he didnt reply and we didnt talk for a day then the next day he RANG me and broke up with me. He said I deserve someone who can be there for me all the time etc. Anyway I feel so rejected..almost like I was judt a convenience when he felt like it. But I miss him a lot and as shallow as it sounds I loves his body and i want him back even tjough I know hes a dick...I just want to text him but im too proud. Any advice? Xx :)

So ive been going out with this guy for about 4 months now. We're both 21. We're both relatively shy so things have happened slowly. Anyway we only wee eachother once a week at the most and its always at night. Lately ive been inviting him ovee heaps but hes always too tired or just says he cant. He has come over the last two tuesdays to wstch movies with me and then said he couldnt this Tuesday because it would be too predictable. .then he said we gotta mix it up. Wtf. Somebody tell me whats going on? Is he just playing games? Thank you :)

I work in a cafe at a mall and there is this maintenance man, hes probably about 30 im 20. He always looks at me deep in the eyes whenever we talk and I find him so sexy. We have a good relationship and always talk at work. Hes quite flirty. Anyway a while ago he came in with his partner and one year old daughter. Naturally, I felt kinda guttrred. But nothing changed between us at work. Then today he asked me if I wanted to do some babysitting for him...I said id love to etc. But I couldn't help but feel like he has a hidden agenda...any opinions? Thanks xxx

This guy comes into my work, hes mysterious and shy but sooo sexy. He works at a bike shop and sometimes a guy he works with is on my train and we talk. Lately when Ive seen him I've just looked up and caught his eye but I want a lot more

Im a female. 20 years old and recently moved to a new city. I'm having trouble meeting guys and lately ive been feeling so horny and frustrated! I pretty much want to have sex with every guy I see. How do I find guys and cure this? P.s. I haven't had sex in about 2 years now lol

Im a 19 yera old girl and I have known this guy for ages but we havent offcially met. two years ago I flew to his city and we decided to meet. We talked evryday for like 2 years and then i bussed out to his house and he never came to get me. I slept in a portaloo then bussed back to my aunts in the morning. Anyway he apologised and told me his friend had been hit by a car and killed. I didnt really believe it but gave him bene of doubt. Now i live in his city, im studying. Reluctantly i straterd talking to him again and we rekindled our relationship. We decided to meet on sunday night, I kept saying you better not stand me up. he would say I promise i wont!! Then i get into town all by myself and no text or anything. I waited for 30 mins, called numerous times but nothing. I still have heard nothing from him. I do miss him and I feel like such a ******* fool. Please help me :( Im all alone in this city and the one person I believed I had a chance with couldnt care less about me.\\

So Ive met this guy who is a year older than me, Im 19 hes 20. We live in this small town so spend quite a bit of time together as there isnt a lot to do. I met him through my flatmate. lets just call him ben. When we first met we clicked straight away, we had similar music taste and hes really funny. Any way last week he went away for a week..we texted heaps while he was away, often getting a bit dirty and flirty. The thing is his bestfriend has a crush on me (i am also friends with this person) so obviously he was feeling a bit guilty for doing that since his friend likes me. then when ben came back from his week long holiday we knew something was going to happen and he came to bed with me that night...... we kissed and fooled aroun d a bit but i was quite drunk and really tired so wasnt really in the mood, then he said he had to go home cause his friend was leaving and going back to germany and he wanted to say goodbye but he said hed definitely come over again the next night. Then ever since things have been kinda weird between us. he never came over the next night, he said he was way too tired. Then <ben got kicked out of his home so i let him stay with me for a few nights but he just slept n the couch and i txt him from my room teling him to just sleep with me but he didnt reply... im just wondering what you guys think? do you think i did something wrong in bed with him? or something else? thanks xx

So I've just moved out of the big city and I casually enjoy smoking a bit of dope... Not too much just a joint every now and then after a long day . But my problem is I don't know anywhere to buy it from around here lol, there's a few guys that come into my work who look like they would smoke it and I feel a weird connection with one of them, should I ask him where to get some?

Btw I'm a 19 yr old girl and I work in a supermarket

So i am a 19 year old female. I live in a small country/tourist town and I work full time at the local supermarket. I am living with my Mum, step dad and 3 half brothers and sisters (all under 6). I work so hard at my job and havent had a day off for ages as ive been working 50 hr weeks and I also struggle with depression. This morning I was hoping to have a relaxing day off, maybe a bit of a sleep in but my step dad storms in and tells me i start splitting wood at ten am.

I was soo pissed off because he always does this...a couple of weeks ago he was making me and i kept saying i didnt want to and he just blackmails me with things like okay well then you cangt use my car to go to work(which is a 900 dollar piece of junk that he never uses anyway) so i had to do it.

Then today when he told me i would be splitting wood i called my mum and explained how i really just want a day off! She understood and i heard her go and say to my step dad (Hamish) "she's allowed a day off") then he just kept saying "stay out of it" Don't get involved" etc etc.

So I had no option but to go and split wood for him. When i got there he was being a complete asshole telling me to ******* full my finger out. For the first 20 minutes I just did it but i was so exhausted and it just makes it so hard to work for him when he is so horrible about it. so after about 20 minutes i asked him how long i had to do it for and he said "2 hrs, get a move on" I was completely fed up and over it all so i said "why do you have to be such an asshole" and then he said well you're standing there with ya ******* hands in your pockets in his arrogant pissed off tone and i said only while im talking to you! and then i just decided **** this i dont have to do anything for you, so i said im leaving..then he yelled atme "right well you cant use my car" i just laughed and yelled yeah i really dont give a **** anymore. and at that stage i was bawling my eyes out. Then i had to walk back to the house 2 miles away. I was hysterical the whole way home thinking about my life and how im so miserable and im the only one who can change that.

Also i pay $150 to live here each week.

So please? Am i being crazy, unreasonable? Bratty? Selfish? I just really hate my step dad and the way he treats me. I even hate the way he treats my mum..but i dont want to do anhything aBout that as they have 3 kids together and shes happy here.

I just hate it here.

Should I tell him to stick it and move back to the city where my friends are? that would mean that id have to quit my job too. Or should i try to find a room/house around here so i can still do the same job?

Just general feedback and advice on my situation please xxxxxxxxxx I reallly really appreciate it!

I work in a grocery store and theres this really hot guy who has caught my eye who comes in all the time. About a week ago i felt someone watching me so i turned around and saw a head shoot around the corner, then when i looked around the corner it was him! He was obviously going out of his way to watch me. Then the other day he came in with a girl so maybe he has a girlfriend and i should forget about it? Also yuesterday he came in with a friend and when i was serving his friend he laughed and mouthed something to the ghuy im interested in and they both laughed...what does this mean? When i serve him he's really shy but always nice. I always catch him looking at me. Do you think he is interested in me? What should i do? How could i flirt with him?

Thanksss :) xx

So i live in a small town and have just moved here so I miss all my friends sooo much and it really sucks :( I'm 19 btw. I work in a supermarket and this guy comes in all the time, I don't know his name but I'd say he's around my age. A couple of weeks ago I was working on the till when i felt someone watching me so I turned around and saw a head shoot around the corner then I got closer and realised it was him. Then yesterday he came in with a friend and i was serving his friend who I didnt recognise when his friend started laughing and looked at him and mouthed something then they both laughed. Whenever I serve him he is quite shy but always nice. And wow, he is hot!

Then the other day he came in with a GIRL who appeared to be his girlfriend because she was all dolled up with soo much makeup on and some strange cheek piercing.

So just want some advice really, what would you do if you were in my position...my lifes pretty boring and I really wanna spice it up.

Also what do you think his behaviour shows? Do you think he is interested in me or am I just taken by him because he's good looking? haha thanks for your time :)

I'm 19 and living in a small town with my parents working full time at the local supermarket. I have been living here for only a few months as I was struggling to find a job in the big city. I have been battling depression for the last year and before I moved over here i was starting to get better.

At the moment I feel like my life is so messed up. I hate who I am. I developed a habit of taking money out of my step dads wallet which now has added up to over 800 dollars which i have to pay back. I have to pay 150 dollars board per week to live here and i just feel like i am constantly going around in circles. When am I going to be able to save money, live by myself, have fun and enjoy life? Should I quit my job and move back to the city where all my friends are or should i stay here and persevere. I also am finding it hard living with my parents as they set such strict rules for me and I feel like I need my freedom. Each day i get home from work feeling like crap. I dont want to wake up in the morning because i know its just the same old ****. I will be treated in the exact same dull way by my family members and yet again my life will show no purpose. Every night I go to bed wishing I could just mot wake up.

Anyone have any advice for me? What do i do???? xxxx thank you :)

so ive been talking to this guy called harry for about 3 years now. He is amazing and we have a really strong connection. We are both 18 but live in different cities so have never met. We used to text until 2am every morning and he'd say things to me like "I want you in my life forever" and i did too.

Anyway a few months ago i was diagnosed with depression and ive been taking pills, except now ive run out so havent taken them for a while. A while ago i went through a stage of cutting myself obsessively, i would go to the bathrooms at school and cut all over my arms and sometimes legs, i would often not turn up to classes so i could just go and be by myself in the bathrooms and cut. Things were pretty ****** up, i smoked weed a lot and still do. The only person i really loved to talk to was harry so i just isolated myself with him. I decided it was about time that we met since things were getting pretty intense so i booked flights to his city where i would stay for 8 nights with my aunty. He text me as soon as i got there saying i get paid at 10.30 if you wanna hang so he could get gas and come and see me but i felt rude leaving my aunty as soon as i got there so i said i would 2 days later as the next day he was busy. Anyway i bussed for about 4 hours to harrys neighbourhood, getthing there at around 9pm, i text him saying i was there and to come and meet me but he never text back so all night i waited for him ringing and texting for him to come but he never did, i ended up sleeping in a portaloo to get some shelter and relief from the cold. Then i got up- at 6am and caught the earliest bus back to my aunts. Then around 12pm he text me saying im sorry my mate got hit by a car last night x i felt badf and explained how i was there all night and he could have atleast told me to go home while buses were still running at night or come to get me and i couldve been there with him. He hasn;t talked to me since, i woulkd text him everyday several times until about a week ago, he is in my mind always and i am completely lost without him. My depression is worse and i am constantly thinking of ways to hurt myself. I am always smoking weed with my friends because it takes the pain away.

Someone please help me, i feel like i am worthless and i am in a really bad place. Thank you