kablay01

Some days I wake up between 10 am and 1 pm, and my bed is right next to a window. There's a pretty thick curtain over it, but light still gets in, enough to light the room up enough during the day to forgo using the indoor lighting. I still wash my face at night and put moisturizer on, but, if I know I'm going to wake up after 10 am, I've been putting sunscreen on, too. Am I doing more harm than good?

But it's not illegal to kill other living things besides humans? Like it's not illegal to kill bugs, fish, crustaceans, plants, and other non-furry living things. I'm not saying we should illegalize harming all living things, but rather I don't see why it's illegal to harm any living thing besides humans. Why do we only select certain animals to protect? Why /should/ we protect these animals? If we just select which living things to protect based on preference, couldn't I just select which living things I like and not give a **** about the rest? If it's because these animals feel pain, then why it is important to prevent living things besides humans from feeling pain?

I haven't played a good RPG in forever. What I'm looking for is:

-Turn-based combat

-A party of characters (not just one character like in Skyrim or Fallout)

-Customizable stats

-Customizable skills

-NOT for PC (preferably for a system with a controller)

I haven't played a good RPG in forever. What I'm looking for is:

-Turn-based combat

-A party of characters (not just one character like in Skyrim or Fallout)

-Customizable stats

-Customizable skills

-NOT for PC (preferably for a system with a controller)

I haven't played a good RPG in forever. What I'm looking for is:

-Turn-based combat

-A party of characters (not just one character like in Skyrim or Fallout)

-Customizable stats

-Customizable skills

-NOT for PC (preferably for a system with a controller)

I actually don't know exactly how I feel about him. I want to know if I'm as important to him as he is to me, or at least important at all. He is the only person I feel like I can rely on right now, but I don't think he cares that much about our relationship. We used to hang out a few months ago, but then he stopped contacting me, but over the past month or two we've rekindled our friendship by going on weekly walks. I think I might like him as more than a friend, too, but I don't know exactly how I feel, so I'm afraid to say anything. I don't even know what or how I'd tell/ask him if this conversation were to happen. I want to say /something/ about it, though, because I don't want to feel any more attached to him if he feels like he could walk away anytime without a sweat, because that would kill me. I'm scared he'll stop contacting me again if I say anything like this.

As for my feelings about him, he's pretty important to me, and I feel a really good connection with him. I think I might like him more than friends, but I don't know. What should I say?

And for some more background info, I'm gay and he's bisexual, so that's that. And I'm 21, so I'm not inept (but I know I don't know everything, or even most things). I just don't have anyone to talk to about these things (or many things at all).

I actually don't know exactly how I feel about him. I want to know if I'm as important to him as he is to me, or at least important at all. He is the only person I feel like I can rely on right now, but I don't think he cares that much about our relationship. We used to hang out a few months ago, but then he stopped contacting me, but over the past month or two we've rekindled our friendship by going on weekly walks. I think I might like him as more than a friend, too, but I don't know exactly how I feel, so I'm afraid to say anything. I don't even know what or how I'd tell/ask him if this conversation were to happen. I want to say /something/ about it, though, because I don't want to feel any more attached to him if he feels like he could walk away anytime without a sweat, because that would kill me. I'm scared he'll stop contacting me again if I say anything like this.

As for my feelings about him, he's pretty important to me, and I feel a really good connection with him. I think I might like him more than friends, but I don't know. What should I say?

And for some more background info, I'm gay and he's bisexual, so that's that. And I'm 21, so I'm not inept (but I know I don't know everything, or even most things). I just don't have anyone to talk to about these things (or many things at all).

I am almost 21 years old and I started playing piano when I was 16. My dream is to be able to release CDs every few years, have a fanbase (don't care what size, just an existent one, haha), and play local gigs or something (I don't really know how that works) every now and then. I have a lot of ideas for songs and have a lot of inspiration and write a lot, but it takes me forever to learn to play things, and if it takes me 3-6 months to compose and learn to play one song, then how will I be able to play a whole album? Should I keep pursuing this?

I'm currently dating this really great guy. Our personalities mesh really well, and I really like him and know he's right for me in a lot of ways. But I don't know if he's right for me in every way, and sometimes I wonder if, by being with him and not seeing other people, I'm just settling. He isn't as close to the perfect guy as I imagine there is out there, and I don't know if I should try to find the perfect guy or be with him since he's pretty close. Am I just settling by accepting a guy that could be better? And, if I am, is that bad?

I'm currently dating this really great guy. Our personalities mesh really well, and I really like him and know he's right for me in a lot of ways. But I don't know if he's right for me in every way, and sometimes I wonder if, by being with him and not seeing other people, I'm just settling. He isn't as close to the perfect guy as I imagine there is out there, and I don't know if I should try to find the perfect guy or be with him since he's pretty close. Am I just settling by accepting a guy that could be better? And, if I am, is that bad?

I've been seeing this guy and I really like him. I fantasized about him and me having sex tonight while I masturbated, and I wanted it to happen for real so badly while I was masturbating, but, after I climaxed, I didn't want it to happen anymore and didn't feel ready. Is that normal? Also, I came to the conclusion that I don't want to have sex with him until I am in love with him and feel ready. I feel so close to him, but I feel like it's an empty closeness because I feel like my attraction is based on passion and not depth. Is that a good conclusion to come to?

I just ended it with this great guy because I didn't know what I wanted and my attraction for him would go back and forth, and now I feel really lonely and lost and depressed. I thought it was the right decision when we ended it, but now I miss him so much. I'm just so confused and I'm afraid I really hurt him and I feel really awful about the whole thing. What should I do?

I just ended it with this great guy because I didn't know what I wanted and my attraction for him would go back and forth, and now I feel really lonely and lost and depressed. I thought it was the right decision when we ended it, but now I miss him so much. I'm just so confused and I'm afraid I really hurt him and I feel really awful about the whole thing. What should I do?

Personally, I think it's gross, but I've also never done it and I'm a virgin, so I don't know if I'm being naive or not. When I watch porn, it just grosses me out to see someone touch their lips to someone's butthole -- how is that sexy? I can understand that it feels good, but it just seems gross to me. But PLEASE tell me if I'm being naive, though, because I really want to know if me thinking it's gross is valid or not.

Personally, I think it's gross, but I've also never done it and I'm a virgin, so I don't know if I'm being naive or not. When I watch porn, it just grosses me out to see someone touch their lips to someone's butthole -- how is that sexy? I can understand that it feels good, but it just seems gross to me. But PLEASE tell me if I'm being naive, though, because I really want to know if me thinking it's gross is valid or not.

I met these 2 guys on a dating site a while ago. I met up with one (we'll call him C) and we got a long and are now "boyfriends." I never met the 2nd guy (R) because he lived a few hours away from me, and, once I starting dating C, he actually started dating his own guy. So a little while later R and I stopped texting.

Well, today R texted me saying hi, and I KNEW it was because it wasn't working out with his guy. And I turned out to be right when he finally told me. Anyway, I don't know what to do now because I still kind of have feelings for R (he and C are very different, and I like them both in much different ways). Is it okay to keep talking to him and possibly meet him, even if my intentions aren't completely platonic, but as long as I don't do anything physical with him? And should I tell R that I still am interested in him romantically, even though I'm with C? I don't want to break up with C over a guy I haven't even met, and I know it would completely break his heart to know any of this. And I still want to be with C anyway. What should I do?

To begin, yes, I am a 20 year old virgin. But I've had the opportunity to have sex and I'm not totally naive in that department...XD I have a boyfriend and we've made out and grinded and touched each other through our pants kissed each others bodies/chests (I guess that's still kind of innocent, though, but whatever); basically, this isn't coming from someone who's bitter because he ain't gettin' any XD (and of course I've masturbated -- I can regularly get a double orgasm, and I've gotten triple orgasms before, so I know what a good orgasm feels like XD)

Anyway, I just found out that this person I thought I knew has had sex with, like, 20+ guys (he's also a guy) since last summer, and it made me think about why a very intelligent person would just go to the bar and pick up guys to have sex with. Is sex really that amazing that it doesn't matter if the two (or more) people have no emotional connection between them and just do physical stuff? And do I just not understand because I've never stuck my thing in someone or have had a thing stuck in me? Is there something unbelievably spectacular about doing physical stuff like I've done with my boyfriend + orgasm + actual intercourse? My boyfriend would probably have sex with me if I wanted, but I just don't feel comfortable doing it right now (or anytime soon at all). I'm just not in a hurry to have sex. But should I be? Like, I know sex feels good, but is it good enough that I should have it with anyone? Do I just not know what I'm missing?

To begin, yes, I am a 20 year old virgin. But I've had the opportunity to have sex and I'm not totally naive in that department...XD I have a boyfriend and we've made out and grinded and touched each other through our pants kissed each others bodies/chests (I guess that's still kind of innocent, though, but whatever); basically, this isn't coming from someone who's bitter because he ain't gettin' any XD (and of course I've masturbated -- I can regularly get a double orgasm, and I've gotten triple orgasms before, so I know what a good orgasm feels like XD)

Anyway, I just found out that this person I thought I knew has had sex with, like, 20+ guys (he's also a guy) since last summer, and it made me think about why a very intelligent person would just go to the bar and pick up guys to have sex with. Is sex really that amazing that it doesn't matter if the two (or more) people have no emotional connection between them and just do physical stuff? And do I just not understand because I've never stuck my thing in someone or have had a thing stuck in me? Is there something unbelievably spectacular about doing physical stuff like I've done with my boyfriend + orgasm + actual intercourse? My boyfriend would probably have sex with me if I wanted, but I just don't feel comfortable doing it right now (or anytime soon at all). I'm just not in a hurry to have sex. But should I be? Like, I know sex feels good, but is it good enough that I should have it with anyone? Do I just not know what I'm missing?

I started online dating a few months ago, and it's been relatively successful. And by that I mean I've got on dates with guys in real life, not just talked to people online. But anyway, I'll just go in chronological order of when the issue started.

This guy (let's call him C) messaged me and wanted to almost immediately go on a date. He lived in my area, he was decent looking, so I thought "why not?" and said yes. As it came closer to the date, things happened that made me continue to feel like the date was going to go horribly. When we texted he barely texted anything back to me. He called me and his voice sounded really crazy and wonky. He sent me pictures, and he looked way worse than on his profile. So I was basically convinced that it wasn't going to work out, but decided to keep the date scheduled for the experience, and for the small chance it'd go well.

Anyway, something came up and we had to reschedule the date for a week later. During that week before the newly scheduled date, this other guy messaged me (lets call him R), and he seemed totally amazing. He was decent looking, he was smart, and our messages were so long they were going over the 4000 character limit, so we had to switch to email. The only problem was that he lived several hours away from me. This didn't seem like a huge problem; we were just talking, and maybe he could see me during the upcoming winter break.

But then I went on the date with C, and it went well. Really well. I was totally surprised. So now I don't know what to do. Ideally I'd wait and keep talking to R and see where it goes with C. But it stresses me out to be interacting with both of them, and yeah... I just makes me confused >.< The three week break is coming up, and I'm going back to my hometown, so C and I won't be able to do anything. I just wish I could tell R to wait and see if things work out with C, but I can't, obviously. I don't know.. What should I do?

I signed up for Plenty of Fish, and a few weeks into using the site a guy messages me who seems to really be interested in me. His message is super long (which I really liked), and he complimented me a lot and said he wanted to talk to me more. I messaged him back but never got a reply. Then I messaged him again and didn't get a reply. And then I tried it a third time and still nothing. I know it might be that he's not messaging me, but I don't understand why -- he seemed like he really wanted to talk with me, and so did I! I could tell he read my whole profile in his message because he responded to a lot of things I said, and he'd go on funny tangents and tell stories, so I'm pretty sure he was interested. Is this a problem with the site? The same thing happened with this other guy, but I wasn't super interested in him and I didn't know if he was in me, so I didn't care (we were going to meet, but he never replied back. I asked him if it wasn't going to work out, but still no reply). But I really, really want to contact this guy because he seems soooo awesome! x33 Anyway, does anyone know what could be going on?