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So I had a baby that died. Asked my mother in law to pick up her ashes because I was in the hospital still. She picked them up but also put the ashes in an urn without first consulting with me. How should I feel about this? I'm truly offended and don't think it was her place. 

So I had a baby that died. Asked my mother in law to pick up her ashes because I was in the hospital still. She picked them up but also put the ashes in an urn without first consulting with me. How should I feel about this? I'm truly offended and don't think it was her place. 

Why is he doing this?

12 hrs ago, my lower back began to ache. Not long after this I started cramping. I later noticed some bloody mucus on my underwear. Before I went to bed the cramping (intermit., spasm like that comes and goes) gradually got stronger. I was awakened with strong cramping and Im bleeding more. Folks, Im not a doctor but I think this is the onset of a miscarriage. Your thoughts? Im requesting that responses be limited to individuals who have had miscarriages.

I'm a manager for a popular restaurant chain. I've been with the company almost one year and have moved up fairly quickly. I started in a lower position and was promoted almost right away. Everything was going great...Until the day I revealed that I was newly pregnant. Suddenly I was transferred to another (less desirable and poorly operated) store. Two weeks later, I was again transferred to a store that has a history of not being able to retain managers at my level. Not long after starting, I was accused of being $400 short in my cash. Never had these issues in any other store. A few days later, I was accused of not locking the store down or setting the security alarm. Very odd and very sensitive details to miss. Am I losing my mind or does it seem like pregnancy discrimination at one of its most subtle forms?