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I have never got on very well with my inlaws.

I put up with them for the sake of my husband, as i love him very much

They are very much "the world revolves around us" people.

They do love everything in "there world" to going there way.

I rocked that boat because i was always tought to be honest and not lie, etc

So you can see why we do not get on, they want everything there way, i feel we all deserve to be happy.

This is not my question, more of a back story:

My child is 5 months old, and they want to see him a lot.

I had a terrible pregnancy, horendous birth and my lil man was even is hossie for a while, so im pretty proctective of him.

I have taken him to theres and invited them round, but the whole time, i am cristised, the father shouts grrr and boo boo to my child as "he finds it funny", my baby does not and cries uncontrollably, and has a fear of men. When we go over, i am made to feel very uncorfortable and told to leave, as i am just not welcome. The sidutation is just getting worse and worse, i have no been banned from there household, i can honestly say i know i dont get on with them but i would never be rude or say how i feel to there face becasue of my love for there son, so why am i banned?

The even tell me to keep my son awake because they cant make it down till later, feed him later, as the world rememeber revovles around them!

My question is, do i still allows them to see my son?

I keep trying to allow them to see him, but they are horrible to me mainly but also a little to my son, and i cant take it any more, but what do i do? just say "your horrible, thats it no more, never to see me or my son again!!!"

Sadly they are not the sort of people who can just be spoken to about all this, his mum will just cry and say im mean and his dad will just call me everyname under the sun for daring to rock there "perfect life" balance, as he is thire grandad son, they will as they wish with him, its thier right as grandparents etc

PS, my husband agrees they are horrible but they r his parents and wants me to just continue forgiving them and smiliming when they r mean

HELP me plz :"(

Im 4 and half months pregnant with my first child, im 29.

I have found out recently that after i have given birth, my husband will be told to leave if its at night time.

This REALLY scares me, i understand that there are other women in the recovery ward.

I got married so i can be with my husband, not to be pulled apart just a few hours after our new family has been formed.

I know i will be very drugged up (well maybe) and i will be very tired, and i will need rest.

But im very scared about being left in the hospital with a new born baby, with a bunch of nurses i dont know. Me and my husband are very close and do most things 2gether.

Did anyone else feel like this?

How did they cope with it?

Hiya,

I went into my local tescos the other day in search of brazil nuts for my husband to eat as we are ttc.

While in there,

i saw wholefoods brazil nuts for £2 in the nuts fruit aisle,

but then i saw brazil nuts in the cooking aisle for £1

Please can anyone help me? What is the difference?

My husband just wants to eat them, on there own, so is there a difference in taste?

as they is defo one in price!

Can u only eat cooking ones once they have been cooked like in a cake?

i will be buying them for him till we concieve so i would rather get him the pound ones as long as they are safe for him to eat

Thank you xx

My fiance went on his stag night saturday night, i knew there would be a stripper which i was fine with, a bit of booby in his face no probs. i thought she would only strip to her thong and put her boobs in his face. HOW WRONG WAS I?!?! he very honestly can home and told me all about it, she got compltly naked and got him to lay on the floor with a lolly in his mouth and she lowered herself on him and picked the lolly with her vagina lips, she also whipped him very hard with his belt, he has massive briuses, which i have to look at. then put her vagina in his face, and moved around all over him etc. he also came home with her thong as a prize for the night, which he has got rid of now. he didnt realise it would go this far and is very sorry about it all, which is nice but i cant stop crying about it all, especailly yesturday when i had to wash the dirty scanky cloths he wore that night, i was nearly sick just thinking about the fact his cloths had her on them.

I feel very hurt that all this happened, i never agreed to that kind of sexualness, i thought it would just be a laugh. but i feel it went way too far.

i feel a womans genitals are private and to put them in my future husbands face has left a terrible scar on me, i cant get the image out of my head. everytime i look at him, i dont see the man i love atm, all i see is a man who has someone elses genitals on his face!

im marrying him in 3 weeks, i forgive him for what happened as he came straight home and told me all about it and he has appologised for it, we have both cried and he even brought me flowers yesturday.

My question is how do i get the terrible images out of my head everytime i look at him?? b4 this i looked at him with such love and i was so happy to be marrying someone so special, i want that feeling of being compltly in love again,

PLEASE HELP ME :( xx

Please someone help me.

Ive been ill and off work for nearly 2 months.

It started off with me feeling but not being sick for about a week, i got sickness tablets and they didn't really help.

I then went back feeling even worse, with a high temperature around 99f (37.2c) sore swollen troat, achy, and still feeling sick, so i got given antibiotics. they did nothing

Third time i went back i got stronger sickness tablets, and i had some blood tests, everything was fine apart from my white blood cell count was a bit low. so hes just signed me off for 4 weeks

It has been nearly 2months now, i have good days and bad days, some days i feel fine then, the next day i get a 3 day terrible headache and im really hot with a swollen throat again.

any advice would be helpful, as what i can do to get rid of this and what i can ask the doctor to do. PLEASE!!!

Its not swine flu, ive been cheaked for that. the doctor oringally said it was a virus, but now hes not so sure. i have been drinking LOTS and taking paracetamels some days and nurofen other day.

sorry this is long but im so fed up with feeling ill xx

Please someone help me.

Ive been ill and off work for nearly 2 months.

It started off with me feeling but not being sick for about a week, i got sickness tablets and they didn't really help.

I then went back feeling even worse, with a high temperature around 99f (37.2c) sore swollen troat, achy, and still feeling sick, so i got given antibiotics. they did nothing

Third time i went back i got stronger sickness tablets, and i had some blood tests, everything was fine apart from my white blood cell count was a bit low. so hes just signed me off for 4 weeks

It has been nearly 2months now, i have good days and bad days, some days i feel fine then, the next day i get a 3 day terrible headache and im really hot with a swollen throat again.

any advice would be helpful, as what i can do to get rid of this and what i can ask the doctor to do.

sorry this is long but im so fed up with feeling ill xx