Jarred

I'm 18 and earned 5233 last year.

First off i'm an 18 year old virgin, never gone beyond a good make out session with a girl. So i was hanging out with this girl at her house (i've known her for about 6 months now and she invited me cause she wanted someone to watch a movie with)

So she tells me she has a boyfriend and i'm cool with it cause i didn't plan on doing anything anyway. So we're watching a movie and she says, "wanna play the nervous game?"

I had never heard of the game before before. So i'm like "sure."

She starts touchin me (never felt anything like it) and i start getting nervous rely on instinct and start fingering her.

We stop (i got blueballed really badly) and finish the movie then i leave like nothing happened.

Should i feel guilty for what happened or not cause she was the one initiating it? Cause i don't feel all that guilty...

First off i'm an 18 year old virgin, never gone beyond a good make out session with a girl. So i was hanging out with this girl at her house (i've known her for about 6 months now and she invited me cause she wanted someone to watch a movie with)

So she tells me she has a boyfriend and i'm cool with it cause i didn't plan on doing anything anyway. So we're watching a movie and she says, "wanna play the nervous game?"

I had never heard of that before. So i'm like "sure."

She starts touchin myself and me getting nervous rely on instinct and start fingering her.

We stop (i got blueballed really badly) and finish the movie then i leave like nothing happened.

Should i feel guilty for what happened or not cause she was the one initiating it? Cause i don't feel that guilty...

- I'm hoping to start traveling the world soon and i wanted to know a list of countries an American should be aware of. Also why they hate us or what they'd do. - I ask this because i know there are country's where they will terrorize you simply because they don't like Americans.

- I'm hoping to start traveling the world soon and i wanted to know a list of countries an American should be aware of. Also why they hate us or what they'd do.

- I ask this because i know there are country's where they will terrorize you simply because they don't like Americans.

Will they still consider me as a student?

I have a 3.7 GPA.

I'm in the second quarter of my school.

My father was never really involved because he worked out of town constantly when i was a child. Then, as a teen, my parents divorced and then i saw him even less. We never really had father and son bond if at all. My brother was the one to teach me to throw a football and teach me to do chores.

Now i am 18 and soon to be 19, working 2 jobs and going to high school full time.

It's been a while since I've seen my dad and i want to see him but there is this feeling that constantly tugs at me.

I can't help but feel my father and i are almost strangers with a common friend. We have few things in common but we talk about things like politics and his past and things like that.

I just feel that this feeling will never go away, like its too late that we can ever be close or something.

Any advice? Something, even something small to help improve this would be much appreciated.

I was talking to my friend, and they were going through a rough time regarding a family member. This is how the conversation went. It slowly escalated into a fight, but thats a different story. Do they show signs of a superiority complex? It seems that other opinions don't matter.

Them: Its terrible because there is nothing i can do to help him.

Me: I understand how you feel.

Them: Actually its impossible for you to understand because we are two separate people. Out feelings will never be one in the same. You may have an idea of how i feel but you don't understand.

Me: Its really insulting to me that you think i don't understand the situation you're going through.

Them: Well you saying you understand is insulting to my pride.

I'm 18 and a guy, still a virgin and don't really care that much about loosing it. And to add insult to injury, i don't like dating either. I just feel that dating isn't that important. I mean sure it is if thats what you want but i feel that you should make yourself happy, because someone else can't do that for you.

- The reason i'm posting this is because it kinda bugs me when ALL everyone seems to be concerned about is getting laid.

- I never really tried to have sex like i see some of my friends doing. I see my friends go out and their main goal is getting laid. I go out to parties and stuff to dance and have a good time. I thought it would just be one of those things that happen when it happens, no sense in rushing it.

- I don't know, i just feel that sex isn't something to really be just given out, i mean it should be with someone you care about right? I get the impression that sex with someone i didn't care about for just pleasure is kinda empty and meaningless.

- What are your thoughts? Am i a freak? I don't know.

I'm 18 and a guy, still a virgin and don't really care that much about loosing it. And to add insult to injury, i don't like dating either. I just feel that dating isn't that important. I mean sure it is if thats what you want but i feel that you should make yourself happy, because someone else can't do that for you.

- The reason i'm posting this is because it kinda bugs me when ALL everyone seems to be concerned about is getting laid.

- I never really tried to have sex like i see some of my friends doing. I see my friends go out and their main goal is getting laid. I go out to parties and stuff to dance and have a good time. I thought it would just be one of those things that happen when it happens, no sense in rushing it.

- I don't know, i just feel that sex isn't something to really be just given out, i mean it should be with someone you care about right? I get the impression that sex with someone i didn't care about for just pleasure is kinda empty and meaningless.

- What are your thoughts? Am i a freak? I don't know.

It's no secret that i'm a virgin but a few days ago, one of my friends lost their virginity and now i'm feeling a little awkward about it. Its not that i'm "saving myself" or something like that, just the idea of sex means more to me than just simple pleasure. It's a deep emotional connection that SHOULD be valued... but isn't, even among my friends.

- First and foremost, i'm not some loser who can't get laid. It's gotten to the point my girlfriend broke up with me because of this. i just couldn't bring myself to act on my attraction to her.

- I promised myself a long time ago i'd have sex with someone i genuinely cared about. I didn't want that one fling or "puppy love" relationship even else wanted. i wanted a connection, not an attraction.

Why i don't want sex right now:

- Growing up i watched my parents divorce because of sex. My dad cheated on my mom CONSTANTLY, even bringing them home a few times, over the course of 22 years.

- My mom, when my parents divorced, was not shy about getting with guys. Thankfully she never brought them home.

Why it bugs me:

- I'm a 17 year old GUY, i have one more year of high school and then i'm off to college. I hear constantly from my friends about girls they've been with and even my female friends talk about guys they've slept with. i feel kinda isolated or awkward about it.

- Kind makes me feel like less of a man. EVERY guy i talk to about this seems to only base his manhood by how many girls he's slept with.

It's no secret that i'm a virgin but a few days ago, one of my friends lost their virginity and now i'm feeling a little awkward about it. Its not that i'm "saving myself" or something like that, just the idea of sex means more to me than just simple pleasure. It's a deep emotional connection that SHOULD be valued... but isn't, even among my friends.

- First and foremost, i'm not some loser who can't get laid. It's gotten to the point my girlfriend broke up with me because of this. i just couldn't bring myself to act on my attraction to her.

- I promised myself a long time ago i'd have sex with someone i genuinely cared about. I didn't want that one fling or "puppy love" relationship even else wanted. i wanted a connection, not an attraction.

Why i don't want sex right now:

- Growing up i watched my parents divorce because of sex. My dad cheated on my mom CONSTANTLY, even bringing them home a few times, over the course of 22 years.

- My mom, when my parents divorced, was not shy about getting with guys. Thankfully she never brought them home.

Why it bugs me:

- I'm a 17 year old GUY, i have one more year of high school and then i'm off to college. I hear constantly from my friends about girls they've been with and even my female friends talk about guys they've slept with. i feel kinda isolated or awkward about it.

- Kind makes me feel like less of a man. EVERY guy i talk to about this seems to only base his manhood by how many girls he's slept with.

It's no secret that i'm a virgin but a few days ago, one of my friends lost their virginity and now i'm feeling a little awkward about it. Its not that i'm "saving myself" or something like that, just the idea of sex means more to me than just simple pleasure. It's a deep emotional connection that SHOULD be valued... but isn't, even among my friends. First and foremost, i'm not some loser who can't get laid. It's gotten to the point my girlfriend broke up with me because of this. i just couldn't bring myself to act on my attraction to her.

- I promised myself a long time ago i'd have sex with someone i genuinely cared about. I didn't want that one fling or "puppy love" relationship even else wanted. i wanted a connection, not an attraction.

Why i don't want sex right now:

- Growing up i watched my parents divorce because of sex. My dad cheated on my mom CONSTANTLY, even bringing them home a few times, over the course of 22 years.

- My mom, when my parents divorced, was not shy about getting with guys. Thankfully she never brought them home.

Why it bugs me:

- I'm a 17 year old GUY, i have one more year of high school and then i'm off to college. I hear constantly from my friends about girls they've been with and even my female friends talk about guys they've slept with. i feel kinda isolated.

- Kind makes me feel like less of a man. EVERY guy i talk to about this seems to only base his manhood by how many girls he's "mounted."

It's no secret that i'm a virgin but a few days ago, one of my friends lost their virginity and now i'm feeling a little awkward about it. Its not that i'm "saving myself" or something like that, just the idea of sex means more to me than just simple pleasure. It's a deep emotional connection that SHOULD be valued... but isn't, even among my friends. First and foremost, i'm not some loser who can't get laid. It's gotten to the point my girlfriend broke up with me because of this. i just couldn't bring myself to act on my attraction to her.

- I promised myself a long time ago i'd have sex with someone i genuinely cared about. I didn't want that one fling or "puppy love" relationship even else wanted. i wanted a connection, not an attraction.

Why i don't want sex right now:

- Growing up i watched my parents divorce because of sex. My dad cheated on my mom CONSTANTLY, even bringing them home a few times, over the course of 22 years.

- My mom, when my parents divorced, was not shy about getting with guys. Thankfully she never brought them home.

Why it bugs me:

- I'm a 17 year old GUY, i have one more year of high school and then i'm off to college. I hear constantly from my friends about girls they've been with and even my female friends talk about guys they've slept with. i feel kinda isolated.

- Kind makes me feel like less of a man. EVERY guy i talk to about this seems to only base his manhood by how many girls he's mounted.

It's no secret that i'm a virgin but a few days ago, one of my friends lost their virginity and now i'm feeling a little awkward about it. Its not that i'm "saving myself" or something like that, just the idea of sex means more to me than just simple pleasure. It's a deep emotional connection that SHOULD be valued... but isn't, even among my friends. First and foremost, i'm not some loser who can't get laid. It's gotten to the point my girlfriend broke up with me because of this. i just couldn't bring myself to act on my attraction to her.

- I promised myself a long time ago i'd have sex with someone i genuinely cared about. I didn't want that one fling or "puppy love" relationship even else wanted. i wanted a connection, not an attraction.

Why i don't want sex right now:

- Growing up i watched my parents divorce because of sex. My dad cheated on my mom CONSTANTLY, even bringing them home a few times, over the course of 22 years.

- My mom, when my parents divorced, was not shy about getting with guys. Thankfully she never brought them home.

Why it bugs me:

- I'm a 17 year old GUY, i have one more year of high school and then i'm off to college. I hear constantly from my friends about girls they've been with and even my female friends talk about guys they've slept with. i feel kinda isolated.

- Kind makes me feel like less of a man. EVERY guy i talk to about this seems to only base his manhood by how many girls he's mounted.