seadooprincess

My mother in law called to tell my husband he should bring his sister to a party that my husband and I were invited to that two couples were throwing.

My husband is not ok with this, he feels like he can't be himself or open up with her around & there are no single people there, and his MOM is trying to make him feel guilty.

He has "brought" her "uninvited" several times to other things. She is in her 30's. (very Nice girl- She would be mad if she new her mom acted this way)

He wants to tell her no that he would rather not have her there much less ASK that she be invited but he knows his MOM will make him feel terrible-

This is a fairly common thing on this side of the family- very overbearing mother so what do I tell my husband?

I said I would call her if he wanted- he said now he doesn't even want to go to the party he said he's thinking about what to tell her.

This is so elementary!!!!!!!!!! I am so glad I am an only child!!!!!!!!!!!!

My 10yr old mixed terrier has seizures.....From what we know she has them every so often- not even monthly that we know of but every few months. Vet wanted her on nerve pills- the cons outweighed the pro's ...didn't want her drugged out of personality. The vet also thought she was eating something poisonous but it has continued after we moved.

A few min. prior to the seizure you can almost see the onset & prepare to hold her, some are at night sleeping in the bed-that was why I also opted not to want to put her on nerve pills- she is usually very relaxed when they happen.

She recently got many small quick growing bumps that look strange-one she keeps licking down- keeps growing back. I have a vet appt to check.

She sheds horriblyX2- I read some posts here and will change her diet, started giving anti shed pills this week. My boxers never shed like this (they just drooled a lot)

any suggestions or thoughts appreciated.