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He says he's wanted me and had feelings for me for 5 years but never wanted to ruin our friendship but he has consistently had sex with this one girl for almost 3 years. What does that say about him and why does he do that?

We have been best friends for five years and I ve been in relationships in those years and I recently got out of one. He told me he has always had feelings for me but never acted on them to preserve our friendship. I agreed because a relationship is not what I want or need right now in my life. However, he has been consistently having sex with this other girl who he has known for 3 years and he shares on social media that he is with her but it s easy to conclude (since they are always in her bedroom bed) what they have done. It makes it hard for me to believe that he has feelings for me and it is hard for me to return those feelings when he has a booty call who he seems to also have feelings for. What do you guys think?

I always hear guys talking about how they want a thick girl with a skinny waist but a big rack and a huge donk, yet they always end up dating girls who have neither or either option. Do guys just fantasize about that body and think of girls with curvy bodies as just sexy and someone youd like to get it on with or what?

Softly, slow, fast, or what?

I had been dealing with depression for depression for 4 years. I dont know if I truly am getting better, though.

One day things will go wrong, either in minor or major ways until I cry in my room for hours and suicidal thoughts come back. Then sometimes the next day Ill wake up feeling invincible and wonder how I could ever let anything get to me because life is amazing and i just get extremely happy for no reason. This might last a day and then the next three days will be anxiety/panic attacks, crying and hating myself even more and

thoughts of suicide come out more. Then the cycle restarts and Im too excited about life it worries me.

I was online and an ad for a personality quiz popped up and I saw cyclothymia as one of the results and I looked it up and it fit the way my daily life goes. Should I mention it to my doctor or therapist? I dont want to sound stupid for possibly self-diagnosing myself.

We havent spoken in a year since he cheated on me. Then he suddenly talks to me on social media but avoids me in person. I have forgiven (not forgotten) him cheating on me and I don't miss him or want him back, but if he does want to get back into my life, do I let him? A month ago he told the girl he cheated on me with, "You are a slut and you meant nothing to me, I regret you so much. Do you think she will take me back?" But he's been with many girls since that so it's obvious he wasn't thinking seriously. I still dont trust him, but is it okay to be friends with him?

whether it be a friend or when youre in a relationship, etc

My ex hasnt spoken to me since he cheated on me a couple months ago. Then when he saw me at school, he saw me and freaked out. Anytime he would see me, he would walk a different way. I thought it was weird but I didnt mind too much because it eliminated any communication with him. Then he surprised me by texting me. He said he was sorry, blahblahblah. I said an apology would be better in person. He said he would have but couldnt. I ignored his message. The next day, he continued avoiding me and then texts me AGAIN after school. I ignored him until the next day. I asked if he needed something and he said he wanted to talk to me. Why is he communicating me? He was doing perfectly fine without me in his life for those months until school started again.

Its a different answer with everybody. Some people say squats dont work, some say they do, and I want a straight answer. What exercises do I use to activate my glutes and for them to possibly grow larger? I use light weights and I am eating healthier now and I work out a couple days a week. I have a treadmill at home. I have access to a gym. What should I do?

This girl I used to be friends with weighs a lot for her age. She ate about six big meals a day plus snacks and played basketball for 2 hours everyday. She usually ate McDonalds and pizza everyday. She told me that she cant change the way she looks because she is "big-boned". Other than her bad eating habits, can being big-boned influence the way you look - if big-boned is even a thing

Hes liked me for a while but I dont like him. What do I reply because I think its none of his business and he keeps bringing up my ex in conversation. Its annoying. How do I deal with him?

In elementary school, there was a boy (lets call him Jake) who I hated, and the feeling was mutual. Everyone said we secretly liked each other and we would get married one day, which completely revolted me. 

In middle school, we went to different schools but one of his close friends (who went to my school) kept telling me, "You know Jake is in love with you. He talks about you a lot." and weird stuff like that. Then I moved to Jakes high school coincidentally and he hadnt really changed since elementary, personality-wise.

His friend continues to tell me Jake is in love with me. His other friends will make jokes about us two and it makes things even more awkward between us.I noticed Jake looks at me a lot. Other than that he will continue to say a snide remark to anything I have to say and etc. 

What do you all think?

Do you think its okay for his lips to be really wet when he kisses you? Because when my ex kissed me, I felt like I had just kissed Niagara Falls. Do other people think its attractive when guys kiss you with basically wet lips?

If a guy apparently likes you and hangs out with you even with all his friends around, flirting and is really touchy with you all day one day - but the next day at a pool party hes hanging out with his friends and barely talks to me, is that normal?

Like do you ignore your crush just because? Why do you do it?

basically one day he gave me all the attention in the world and then today I barely got a hello? Why do guys do this.

I dont have my measurements but when I gain weight it first goes to my face, then my boobs, then my stomach, then my legs, then my arms.

Im fairly skinny and have a very defined waist. My chest and hips are the same width. Im wanting to know what body shape I am so I know what not to wear, etc.

He's my best friend, for this Ill call him Paul.

He's pretty protective of me. He would make fun of guys I would talk to and talk about how he just wanted to punch them in the face. I thought this was weird because he doesnt care about anyone but himself so why would he care about who Im talking to.

Sometimes he will say something sweet like once he said "Sometimes I want to tell you I love you but then you go and do something stupid."

One day at school I was trying to figure out who he liked and Kaleb came up and listened to Paul describe the mystery girl and he laughed and said "Thats funny because it sounds exactly like youre describing her" as he pointed at me.

I got mad and yelled at him that we dont have a secret love affair and we both dont like each other at all and the whole time, Paul just stared at me and played with a pen in his hands. He got quiet after my rant but told me that he actually didnt like anyone then left me at my table in class.

Then one day, his dad died. A lot of people contacted him but he ignored them all. Ive dealt with my dads death and I knew Paul well enough so as to know how to text him. He actually replied. Paul only replied to me out of all his friends and teachers and etc.

Everyone says he likes me and they say it so much Im starting to rethink it. Maybe he does? I dont know. Any ideas?

One of my best friends (let's just call him Austin) goes to school with one of my exes and Austin doesn't really like my ex.

Me and Austin would talk everyday and he was the best friendship I'd had with someone. He also promised he'd never leave me. We didn't flirt with each other, we just joked and talked about everything. When I got back together with my ex, I didn't tell Austin.

My ex kept laughing and saying if I told Austin, Austin would get jealous and mad at me. My ex also got jealous of my and Austin's friendship because he told me, and he would tell me that he would tell Austin that I was taken so we would stop being friends.

I shrugged it off but I was scared that Austin would stop talking to me just because I had a boyfriend, so I didn't tell Austin that I was dating someone. Then when we broke up, I told Austin. He acted completely fine until I told him I dated that guy.

He ignored my texts and took me out of his twitter bio and a couple hours later he subtweeted: "Yeah, I pretty much basically hate you." I'm pretty sure it was about me and I cried because he was my best friend. We told each other everything. I trusted him, and I don't just give out my trust that easily.

While I was friends with Austin, though, a lot of people would joke and say that he liked me and everything. I didn't believe it because Austin would constantly talk about how he's gotten screwed over by girls and how he's done with dating and girls in general. I asked him if he liked anyone and he said no because "girls are stupid".

Why aren't we friends anymore?

Okay, so I dated this one guy before and he was obsessive and clingy, so I broke up with him. We got back together a couple months later and after a week, he got drunk at a party and cheated on me. He says he didn't do it on purpose, but I don't believe him. He gave me so many indicators that he might cheat on me. Maybe he was trying to get back at me for breaking up with him? He made it seem like it.

He even told me a day before, "I don't think we're going to last that long.. I always do something to ____ it up. :("

And before the party I told him not do anything stupid - I was referring to cheating on me. He told me, "It's me we're talking about, of course I'm going to do something stupid!"

A couple days before, I asked him if he did it on purpose and he avoided answering. He kept asking me, "Why?" and "Why do you want to know?" And finally after a while, he said, "No, okay? I ___ up and I'm sorry but I can't do anything to change the past and even though I wish I hadn't I can't change it okay?" I'm not ready to forgive him (even though I should) so I replied with, "ok." He sent me, "Ok" (He always sends that when he's pissed off)

Also, the first time we dated, he wanted us to make it public to everyone, so he would put it on facebook and every social media site. I didn't. The second time we dated, he pretty much didn't tell anyone. He didn't want to make it public. These may not seem like a huge deal but it was because he acted really weird the second time we dated.

Anyway, I'm moving to his school this year. I don't know how I should act around him. Should I ignore him completely, or if he talks to me I should have an attitude/be mean to him, or what should I do?