Mikey

My ex and I were together off and on for a year and a half until i started dating my ex after him, I am currently in a relationship, and have been for over a year. Anyways, my ex and I weren't the best relationship, but I was happy...we fought allot and never really "Talked", but i fell for him...really hard. I've been thinking about him, allot lately...I don't want to get back with him, i just can't stop thinking about him...i liked everything about him...like i every time i see him with his girlfriend, i get jealous...i don't understand why, but i talk to him allot, and we talk about our memories, and he says he hates how we ended things. You see, the way we ended things, technically neither one of us ended anything...me and my friends were at a football game, and i was using my mom's phone, and i was texting him, my friends decided that it would be funny to take the phone, and text him and tell him it was over, he thought it was actually me, and my friends deleted the message before i got the phone back, and i didn't know they had done it, when i got home the next day he had messaged me on Facebook and said that i had completely crushed him and hurt him extremely bad...i didn't know what he was talking about..until he sent the text my friends had sent him...and from there we were just done. He's kissed me several times trying to win me back, and i refuse to go back to him...because i don't want to deal with everyone lecturing me about his past and etc. etc. there's allot of reasons but it doesn't matter, i just don't understand why i am not over him...help?

Well, my Freshman year I dated the most wonderful man on this planet, he was a Junior and I fell for him, even though we were only together for 2 months and broke up then about 2 months later got back together for 5 months, he meant absolutely everything to me. I broke up with him because I wasn't sure how I could deal with being in high school and him being in the Navy and him being gone all the time. Now that I am a Junior and I am currently in a relationship, but here lately I can't stop thinking about him. I cry allot when I see things like "The navy has my sailor, but he has my heart" and stuff like that, and people always ask me why I get so upset about it...and I can tell them why. He's always gone, so I never get to talk to him anymore, and it kind of hurts me. Is it bad that I'm still not over him??

Well about 5 months ago my ex and i started talking after almost a year of no contact, at all. He tried to "revisit" old memories, when i didn't want to. I've been in a relationship for over a year now, and on mine and my current bf's 1 year (we were at school at a football game) my ex decided that he was going push me against a wall and kiss/make-out with me. Well, i was not okay with this, but he kept going, and trying to do other things, i kept telling him to stop and that i wasn't going to kiss him back or get back with him because i'm happy in my current relationship, i finally managed to push him off of me (take into consideration that i'm 5'1 and 115 lbs. and he's 6'3 and 195 lbs. so that's a hard thing to do.) He ran off with his friends, and left me there crying and trying to clear my head. The next day he messaged me on Facebook (it was Saturday) and he asked me what had happened that night and when i told him he said that was sorry and that he was pretty messed up? that night. But, i stopped talking to him and last night he messaged me on Facebook and told me that he was extremely sorry for what happened, and he asked me why i just "dropped him like that". I guess what i'm wondering is if he really means it when he says he's sorry?

My breasts are a size 36C I'm only 16, my breasts are soft on the outside, but when i like push on them there is a large "lump" that takes up most of my both my breasts. They've been this way sfor as long as I can remember, but they're kind of sore (like "growing pains" but when I'm on my period and/or sick) Not sure if that's normal or not.

Well i hurt my knee about 2 years ago, and the doctors can't figure out whats wrong with it, i've been told 3 different things, i need surgery, i don't need surgery, leave it alone it'll be fine in a few weeks. Well yesterday i was working out and i fell and landed on my knee, and i can barely walk...there's a shooting pain going from my knee to the top of my thigh. my mom said if it still hurts later she'll take me to the doctor, but i know what they're going to say, so i don't see the point. Been to three different doctors, including a specialist, and they can't seem to figure out what's wrong with it, i've had X-rays at every doctor i've been to. What should i do?

Well i went to camp 2 weeks ago and met this guy who's a total sweetheart, he's funny, he's sweet, he's cute and even though we just met i fell for him. The second day that we were at camp we went to the pool and i was sitting on the edge and next thing i know he's popping up in front of me and grabbing my ankles and pulling me in the water, i punched him in the chest and then just hugged me and he kissed me and told me "i know we just met, but i've never felt this way for anyone before, i've come to this camp for 2 years, and i've never thought about anyone or anything...i know your taken, and i know we have no chance but i believe that we both deserve a chance at a summer romance" and the pulled me to him and hugged me. On the last day of camp we were both in our ACU's and we were graduating and when i was coming off the stage he grabbed my and pulled me back to the back of the gym where the color guard was standing...he goes "Guys this ........, she's gorgeous and she means the world to me, so shutup and don't say anything about this to Sgt.." they all just laughed and he pulled me into a hallway in the back of the gym and he grabbed my hand and said "Listen, I love you more than anything. I know we just met, and i know the we have absolutely no chance after we leave here, butt i would do anything to be with you and i would do anything for you. You mean more to me that i ever would've thought anyone could...i've had several gf's before but none have made me feel this way." and he kissed me and i kissed him back. I told my boyfriend that i met a guy and that things happened but i didn't tell him what happened...me and him got into a fight and we almost broke up, i want to tell him what happened but then again i'm not sure if i should. Help!!

I met this guy at camp and i fell for him, really really hard...but i have a boyfriend and i've told my boyfriend about him and about the things that happened and we got into a fight about it but we worked things out. The guy i met at camp sent a really long and sweet message and i sent this back "I think I'm kinda sorta possibly falling for you, everytime we talk im liking the feeling and im not caring about distance at all. ,,,, every time i get to talk to you it brightens my whole day, it doesn't matter how bad of a day i've had. I've never felt this way for anyone, i know we won't be able to see each other for a while but that stop me from hoping, hoping i'll get to see you and kiss you and hug you one more time. I never thought that i would go to camp and meet someone and have such strong feelings for them. I can't seem to get you out of my head, i'm always thinking about you and what would've happened if i had kissed that Friday...but i guess i won't find out unless by some freak chance we get to see each other and i can kiss you. Sorry about the long paragraph...had to get it off my chest and tell you how i feel." do you think i made a mistake by sending that to him?

My ex and I have a pretty good relationship. I have a boyfriend and he knows this. Last night he messaged me on Facebook and told me that he still loves me and wants to hang out this summer. I told him that we could go to the movies next month when i get moved out of my house and he goes "well other things can happen in a movie theater". and we got off that subject pretty quick. I told him that my legs were hurting because i had just come back running. he goes "i'll come kiss them" i was like "that wouldn't help much" he goes "what if i moved further up?" and then he started calling me his secret girl and stuff like that and this morning i woke up and got on Facebook and he had messaged me "Good Morning Beautiful, i hope you slept well. I didn't, because you weren't here with me". I've told him so many times that i have a boyfriend and he's never acted like this before. i don't know what to say to him.

First i should start off by saying that i have a boyfriend. Well i went to military camp last week and me and this guy started talking and we fell for each other...hard. Everyday at chow he would sit with me and would tell me that he likes me, he marched beside me when we would go somewhere, and at every game he sit beside me...and if i didn't sit beside him he would grab my waist and tickle me until i went and sat beside him. We were at the pool one day and i was sitting on the outside and he was sitting in front of me and he grabbed my legs and pulled me into the pool and held me up (cause he knows i can't swim) and he put his arms around me and held me for a little bit and when we had to get out of the pool he grabbed my hand and pulled me to the side. On the last day of camp before graduation he walked up to my window and was making funny faces on the glass, when we were walking to get chow he grabbed my hand, pulled me off the sidewalk and hugged me and said "I'm really gonna miss you...i know these people ruined our chance at a summer romance but we don't live that far away from each other so maybe we'll see each other around" and he kissed my cheek. After graduation his 1st Sgt. was waiting for him in her car and he was with me, he told me that he didn't want to leave because he didn't want to forget about me...he hugged me 5 times before we left and he walked me to my bus and hugged me for about 3 minutes and then walked away and we were both in tears. I don't know what to do about him...because he's been messaging me on Facebook and saying he wants to meet up somewhere and i want to but i don't want to cheat...my boyfriend found out and we've been fighting about it for the past 3 days. idk what to do

My bf and i have been together for a while now, and last week i went to military camp and spent the week there, i met a guy there who is the sweetest guy ever. me and him started talking the day we got there and he lives about a hour away from me so we can still see each other. he's messaged me every night on facebook and last night he told me that he's falling in love with me even he doesn't get to see me until next year or when we go to the amusement park together. he kissed me the day before we left camp to come home and someone told my boyfriend and him and i have been fighting for 3 days about it and i told him that i probably won't ever get to see him again. I fell for that guy at camp and i fell hard, and he fell hard and i don't know what to do or what to say.

I've been really depressed lately and I've even cut myself because of how bad it's gotten. I don't know if i should tell my mom though

So me and my friend have been hanging out more here lately and today i was walking out of my 1st block and he was standing outside the door waiting on me and screamed when he saw me and goes "_____!! i missed you!" and hugged me. We have 3 classes together and in 2 of them we sit beside of each other and in the 3rd class he sits across the room and i have to sit in a corner all by myself, today he was writing me notes and throwing them at me in 2nd block, in 3rd block we went out shooting and he was sitting with me while i shot the gun and every time i shot (10 times) he would say "Dang _______ your a good shot, Scotti show you how to shoot?" (scotti's my boyfriend) and when i told him i hunt he goes "dang never known you hunted before?!?!" In our 4th block we went to the library and he was sitting beside me at one of the computers and he kept leaning over and looking at my note cards and he wrote on my arm "____ loves you(:" we were walking back to the classroom and we were walking upstairs and he goes "________ you make my day interesting" and he messaged me on Facebook and told me that he really loved today and that I made his day interesting and fun. He knows i have a boyfriend and he's still flirting with me???

Well Friday night me, my boyfriend, and his best friend went to a camp-out for our school and my boyfriend went off with a couple of his friends and his best friend stayed at the camp-site. I went to find my boyfriend and couldn't find him so i came back to the camp-site and was completely pissed and his friend came running up to me, hugged me, and let me cry on him. He walked me to my bfs car and sat with me and we talked for about 30 minutes until he came back and i told him everything that has been going on in my life and he told me what's been going on in his. We laughed allot and he pushed me off the car at one point and made me fall on my butt and goes "OMG! i'm so sorry" but he was laughing so hard. My bf came back and he pulled my bf to the side and said "Look, she's pissed at you right now. she really needed you, i texted you and you never came so if you don't want to fight with her give her a little time to calm down" and my bf walked away. The thing is that me and him have never really talked before, and we've never gotten along. now he sees me in the hall and hugs me. Why has he started talking to me?

I run everyday in my Jrotc class for physical training, and I run on my toes (which i've heard causes problems to your legs). About 3 months ago we started doing allot more running during pt and my shins have been killing me...I have Jrotc for 3rd block and when i get home everyday i put ice on my legs because they hurt so bad and i take Tylenol but they still hurt...what could it possibly be?

Well me and my best friend have lunch together and he always sits with me and flirts with me like crazy. The other day i was standing in the lunch line and he was with one of his other friends and they were talking about me and i heard him say "Bro, she's beautiful. she's funny and i do like her" and the next day i was sitting with him and his other friends and his friend pulled me to the side and said "He really likes you, he knows you have a boyfriend and knows that your happy with him. But, even though he sees that your happy he can't help but feel that your not. He says he can treat you so much better." I told his friend "Listen, i have a boyfriend and i love him and i'm not going to break up with him. All ________ is to me is a friend" Why is he doing this to me?

Well i've been in a relationship for 7 months and my ex and i were together for about a year and we were really a bad relationship, we fought constantly and when we weren't fighting we weren't talking but every time we broke up we always ran back to each other, we were always calling each other ugly and and always said that we hated each other but then we kissed and everything seemed to be okay. and now that i'm in a happy relationship he's come back..he had a gf but they broke up because she was to clingy (in his words). I was walking up the stairs to go to my next class and he yelled out my name and i stopped at the top of the stairs and he was running up after me and when he got to the top he hugged me and said " .......... I love you with all my heart and i know you're happy with ..... but i love you and i'm sorry for how i treated you when we were together, i want to be with you, if i had the chance i would treat you right, hold you when you cry and kiss you when your upset with me and i would never insult you like i did. You were the best thing that ever happened to me, you always listened to me when i was hurt and i need you .......... i love you" and he hugged me and walked away. he also told my boyfriend that he wants me back.

Well my ex and I were together for almost a year and we fought allot and we were an on and off relationship and now I'm in a relationship and he was to but him and his gf broke up and now he's started talking to me again. He walked up to me in the hallway and pulled me to the side (made me late for class) and hugged me and said "...........I love you, i've always loved you, you're the one who always listened to me and helped me through everything. I know your dating ..... but if I had another chance I would make things right, I wouldn't ignore you and treat you the way I did. Your the best thing that's ever happened to me." and he was crying which made me cry and he told my bf that he still has feelings for me and he wants me back. I really don't understand why he's just started talking to me, because, my bf and I have been together for 7 months and I'm finally happy.

i was sitting in the back with my guy friend and i was laying on him cause i didn't feel good and had a headache and me and him have always been close so he was holding my legs while i was laying down, and he bit my arm and he kept laying his head on my chest and i bit him on the shoulder once and everyone called him my "boy on the side" or my FWB and it made me cry and he couldn't figure out why i was crying and someone said they were gonna tell my boyfriend that i was all over him

Well my boyfriend has fingered me 3 times and he told me the other day that each time he does it it feels different "down there". the first time it hurt allot and the second time it hurt a little more and it started feeling different to me so i went to the bathroom and there was blood on the bottom of my underwear (not allot so i knew it wasn't my period) and i didn't tell him, the last time he did it didn't hurt at all but he did it longer than he had the first 2 times, and i went to the bathroom after it and there was a little blood. Did i lose my V-card or what happened? is it normal?!?

Well my boyfriend has fingered me 3 times and he told me that it feels like it's getting tighter every time, The first time he did kinda hurt and the 2nd time hurt a little more but it didn't really hurt last time he did it, but i went to the bathroom and there was blood on the bottom of my underwear, i'm still a virgin right?!?!