Justin

I got pre approved for a 200,000 mortgage loan. I ending up finding a 165,000 house.

Now the bank is going over my tax returns and I'm looking at how much I made in 2014 and 2015

I made only 5,000 in 2014

I made 27,000 in 2015

This year I'm going to make over 60,000

Is it going to be a problem that I didn't make as much in 2014 on closing my loan ?

I'm just worried so I would like some advice please ?

I've never been a smoker but due to stress at work and the fact someone gave me lots of weed I've been smoking 3 to 4 times a week. At this point I hate smoking (I'm the person who likes being sober) so I threw all my weed away but now I'm wondering about the withdrawal symptoms due to the fact I'm stoping.

Are there withdrawal symptoms ? What are they and how do they last?

I met this girl on a dating site we started talking and we went on a double date with her and her friend where we both had a good time.

We went out again the next day. We started talking more and I guess she has been depressed because she feels like no one liked her at home (she's adopted/I myself was in foster care) she also recently lost her job. Me on the other hand I have a great paying job I get 800 a week no included the commission I get once a month so I said I'll help her out of she needed it. (I'm also attracted to the fact she doesn't expect me to pay)

Anyway this friday we went out and we were about to hook up and I brought up a relationship and she pretty much said I wouldn't want to wait for her. I said depends on how long . We pretty much slowed things down after that.

The next day I felt she was being distant so I brought it up she just said she was feeling down and depressed and brought up the fact she wanted to go to church with me. (I'm a born Christian btw

Sunday she said we should just be friends and she has a lot going on right now. I said maybe we should stop talking abd she said sorry. Then I said I know how she feels and I would teach her how to drive (that's something she needs to do) she said thank you she really appreciates that. I didn't really respond.

Anyway I'm debating stoping talking to her but a part of feels like I should. I kinda like her so I'm gaurding my heart but I feel like I should help her. ANY ADVICE ??

I dated this women who had trust issues and do things to me if she had any assumptions she would do things to hurt me like for example if I did not answer my door on time she would flirt with my land lord.

I loved her to death and would never cheat on her or even think about it. But always hurt me when she would do things like that she even would flirt with other people around me.

Eventually we broke up and she wanted me to text her (she came to my apartment and asked me) so I did.

I felt she was trying to play emotional games with me so I texted her and told her that I needed my apartment keys back in case I had to move a women back in with me. Then I changed my number.

I feel bad I said that to her but i wanted pay back I guess because I was hurt about a the times she did that to me.

Should I feel bad or no?

I went down on a women with hpv. Am I at risk for getting it in my mouth? I went down on her many times until she even told me.

I looked up early symptoms of it and I had a few.

The doctor told me there is many different types of hpv but if she had it I could get it right?

Plus should I press charges ?

Isn't that a very rare std? How worried should I be in catching it?

I don't have homosexual sex...but I don't really use condoms but I'm careful who I sleep with..

The reason I'm asking is because people said I should be worried. I've been with 6 women 5 without a condom and messed around with 15 women.

I have caught hpv oral on a women who I barely knew (which rare for me to do) we even did not have sex cuz we had no condoms.

How concernd should I be about catching aids ?

So i started a new job at a auto parts store i have experience in auto part (not a lot but enough to know the basics) sales. They gave me like 50+ hours a week at start.

While im working there half of the its busy and im barely being trained and my manager is right next me me barely saying anything. People say hes a asshole he even told me he does not play well with others. (I thought he was joking) The system i use to look up the parts is really old plus it freezes a lot (when it freezes i get blamed as well)

Half of the time its dead so i just stand here i legit worked only this week now hes saying im not a good fit nor he has time to train me. Everything he thought me i picked up right away. Its a very weird situation. How can you not even fully train someone. (Even when i ask a question he barely tells me) Everything he does tell me i pick up right away !! I canceled a lot of events because he wanted me to clear my schedule now my next two weeks are messed up. Can i file any legal action ? I feel like ive been scammed or something. He also told me i would work better in a large organization. So i get the vibe he does not like me. I know the person before me quit.

I'm a 22 year old man and I'm a relationship type of person. I also don't use women for sex. 

I was talking to this women (who is 28) I met on a online dating site we talked for over a month until we decided to meet we had so much chemistry it was extremely magnetic attraction from the start. We ended up getting a scorpion bowl we we ended up bonding we even started to make out in the restaurant. We went for walk on the beach and we sat in the car and talked for hours. 

We also drank more (she did a lot more then me) she got so emotional and she told me things of her past how she would have one night stands and she gets rid of all the men she falls for. Also that she really likes me and wants me but she knows she will hurt me. I made her promise not too and we had sex (it was extremely good as well) and I slept over. She dropped me off at my apartment later the next day. She told me she can't to see me again. But then she started canceling plans on  me over and over she would also apologize. Then last week she said it wouldn't work out with us and we couldn't even be friends (it came out of nowhere) 

Right now I feel like crap and used also she had hpv (she told me after we had unprotected oral sex) now I think I got that from her. I went to the doctors and they think so too.

I've never been in the situation before I've always been in relationships I feel like absolute crap and used and hurt. I've never done this to a girl (although I have friends who do it to them). Help

I'm a 22 year old man and I'm a relationship type of person. I also don't use women for sex.

I was talking to this women (who is 28) I met on a online dating site we talked for over a month until we decided to meet we had so much chemistry it was extremely magnetic attraction from the start. We ended up getting a scorpion bowl we we ended up bonding we even started to make out in the restaurant. We went for walk on the beach and we sat in the car and talked for hours.

We also drank more (she did a lot more then me) she got so emotional and she told me things of her past how she would have one night stands and she gets rid of all the men she falls for. Also that she really likes me and wants me but she knows she will hurt me. I made her promise not too and we had sex (it was extremely good as well) and I slept over. She dropped me off at my apartment later the next day. She told me she can't to see me again. But then she started canceling plans on me over and over she would also apologize. Then last week she said it wouldn't work out with us and we couldn't even be friends (it came out of nowhere)

Right now I feel like crap and used also she had hpv (she told me after we had unprotected oral sex) now I think I got that from her. I went to the doctors and they think so too.

I've never been in the situation before I've always been in relationships I feel like absolute crap and used and hurt. I've never done this to a girl (although I have friends who do it to them). Help

I was on a dating site and I was talking to this women we hit it off so we decided to meet. When we met up she said that she really likes me and that I'm hot and we made out then we went to her house and I gave her oral sex ......later that night she told me she has hpv....I asked her on the phone before if she ever had a std she said she did and that it went away (so she lied to me pretty much). We ended up getting into a fight and stopped talking. I went to the doctors the other day and I found out I know have hpv.....can I process legal action on her ? I never would have done anything with her if I knew she had something ??? I'm in the state of mass

I met this women online off a dating site. We got along and i see her as a potential Girlfriend.

Two nights ago we went to her place. We had no condom but we did foreplay. Afterwards she told me she was raped when she was younger (which i knew before) in which she had gotten HPV. I did put my mouth on her 'area" vis versa.

I like her as a person but i would like some information on this std? Also should i continue this relationship? ?

I dated a aries women and she was very naive (also im not gunna call her dumb but she was not the smartest light bulb)

Yet she always had to be right and would argue with me even if she was wrong. She would even put me down if i proved her wrong. I was at one time in love with her but i fell out of love with her really fast (i do still love her but i dont like her anymore)

Another thing is that she was extremely selfish aways thinking about herself never about me. She aways expected me to think about her and i did untill i realized how selfish she really is. She would also get upset when i wanted my space even thow a temper tantrum.

I understand all aries are not like this. But what makes aries act like this ? I tried to love her and support her as much as i could but i could not deal with how mean, selfish, and brash she could be?

I'm the type of person who believes that everyone is equal. But I've meet some people (including a old boss of mine) who think it's okay to talk down on someone because it teaches them a "lesson".

I think that is nonsense whenever someone does that to me I just lose respect for them and don't want to be around them. Plus I look at them in a kind of who do you think you are type of way.

Am I crazy for having self respect and respect for others ? Or is it good to be hard on others to make myself feel special or whatever else?

I've never had any loans (even a car loan I saved up and bought my own car) I think I owe a cable bill because I lost my job and could not pay it but the debt is only $64. And that shows up on my credit score. They are checking this so I can be hired as a universal banker at citizens bank and I really need the job will this be a issue.

Also as stated in my question my score is 500 and I'm 22

Im half black half white 22 years old. Six feet tall. Good looking but im insecure about my penis size.

Ive Been with 7 women and messed around with 4 more women.

Ive been having sex since i was 17 years old. the first person i got with said my size was fine. But the next girlfriend i had gave me a weird face when she saw my penis. She later told me she has seen much bigger. Ive had 6 different women give my penis a weird look when they saw my penis.

Its always made me feel real insecure although ive had women who have loved the sex and girlfriends who have loved me for me my penis has always made me feel insecure.

Ive measured my penis and its 6.1 inches when erect. Does anyone have advice for me lately ive stopped having sex and pursuing women. Help Please !!!

Ive been researching both of then, i find that vedic is on point when talking about my Sun, Moon, And Mars sign.

While western is on point with my Venus, Mercury, juniper, and Saturn ?

Whats other peoples experience in vedic astrology ?

dated this aries i was in love with her deeply (im a capricorn)

she was a lot emotional then me she always had to get her way and she was deeply insecure

she would also lash out at me and do hurtful things and say them as well example.it was my bday she was going to surprise me at my door but i did not hear her knock and then she got upset at me and started to flirt with my landlord to make me hurt (and it worked i did not talk to her for 3 weeks after thst)

after that things went down hill i felt thst she selfish and wayy to dramatic and emotional to understand

we would fight a lot and day she broke up with me and i begged her not too she was being extremely cold and unsympathetic to me (it hurt really bad) then when i left she yelled at me to stay (see dramatic)

then i texted her later telling her how i felt she ignored me. then a month later she text me saying that she was busy working and asked how i was i ignored her

a few months later she came to my door and i did not answer then a few weeks later i saw her and she asked for my new numberand i gave it to her then she texted me we talked all night then she stopped texting and i tried to call her but she never picked up

i saw her again she came up to me and i just walked past her. she started to cry and i ignored her.

was i wrong in doing this i do feel kind of bad but it feelsl ike when i want her she doesnt want me when i dont want her she wants me.does anbody have advice on aries.why they act this way ??

i dated this aries i was in love with her deeply (im a capricorn)

she was a lot emotional then me she always had to get her way and she was deeply insecure

she would also lash out at me and do hurtful things and say them as well example. it was my bday she was going to surprise me at my door but i did not hear her knock and then she got upset at me and started to flirt with my landlord to make me hurt (and it worked i did not talk to her for 3 weeks after thst)

after that things went down hill i felt thst she selfish and wayy to dramatic and emotional to understand

we would fight a lot and day she broke up with me and i begged her not too she was being extremely cold and unsympathetic to me (it hurt really bad) then when i left she yelled at me to stay (see dramatic)

then i texted her later telling her how i felt she ignored me. then a month later she text me saying that she was busy working and asked how i was i ignored her

a few months later she came to my door and i did not answer then a few weeks later i saw her and she asked for my new numberand i gave it to her then she texted me we talked all night then she stopped texting and i tried to call her but she never picked up

i saw her again she came up to me and i just walked past her. she started to cry and i ignored her.

was i wrong in doing this i do feel kind of bad but it feelsl ike when i want her she doesnt want me when i dont want her she wants me... does anbody have advice on aries..why they act this way ??

Many people dont agree with them....

In my experience people born on them even after looking at their birth charts fit the cusp traits.

Some peoples have woken up to this some have not.

Its really not a marketing scam. The secret language of birthdays gives a really on point description.

Whats everybody's opinion??

When I say intelligent i just dont mean in school i also mean in debates, decision making, being rational, and thinking outside the box.

In my opinion its

All the air signs (they are all about they mind i love talking to air signs)

Sagittarius (i love philosophy)

Capricorn (wonderful at problem solving)

Virgo (very observant)

Scorpio (very very calculating even more then capricorn WATCH OUT)

i feel like the least intelligent signs are that can learn from the signs above a little more are

Aries (in my experience they CAN BE wayyy to into themselves to learn anything new and they think they know everything its kinda funny in a way...also they have a hard time learning from mistakes...but they have a heart of gold (: )

Taurus (way to stuck in their ways..but very dependable)

Leos (idk ive met leos who i just cant stand and ones that i loved...i notice that tend to try to do what everybody else is doing rather to gain attention and they also can be bullies i hate bullies :/)

Pisces (love how spiritual they can be but also can lose touch with reality)

Cancer (this sign can go ether way..i personally love cancer)

Also i dont mean people as a whole i mean what the sign its self represents