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That Asshole!

okay so there's this guy "M" who I've been dating since January.. We haven't been seeing much of each other anymore due to our busy schedules, but still talk and text on the daily. We planned to hang out on Sat., I told him jst to come over my house, no nightout (because I wanted to make this night about him:) so we text throughout our morning on Sat., @ about 5 he tells me he's at a BBQ and i was like ok cool, I'm not expecting him at my house til about 8. a little after 8 i text him that he can come over now, no reply. Some time later I text him again and say, "oh i see.. you've gotten too drunk to drive and now you're not coming over" he replied with "I'll prove you wrong" (so to me this meant, he's about to come over) I replied with a picture of me, smiling. he replies " You are So Beautiful" I gave him an hour, then fell asleep.(I would have hit someone else up & went out but grew tired) He never showed and still hasn't even called nor text.

it's not the 1st time something like this has happened. He flaked on me before and I gave him a piece of my mind but this time I'm not even guna show him that I'm bothered by it. I know he likes me, we have a strong connection when we're together but I would never do something like this to him. I don't understand why he does...?

Hello men:)

ladies can answer too

I have a non serious boy- friend that I've been talking to for 9months. We see eachother a few times in a month now because of our busy schedules. He's coming over tonight but I want to do something at home to make this night about him ... something fun and sexy. Men, what treatments would you like if your girl- friend asked you to come over, what would make you excited? Ladies, any stories to share?

Would/have you ever considered a girl you had sex with on the 1st date as a serious girlfriend?

I asked this question yesterday but thought I'd give More detail:)

okay so i met this guy "M" in January through a friend. We hit it off and exchanged #'s. We spoke and texted daily. At 1st i got more of a friend vibe but over a month after i met him we decided to double date with our friends. The 4 of us ended up bck at my house drinking then our friends left... it was jst me and him, here, alone. So I must admit, i jumped on em! And we enjoyed eachother for the rest of the night til the next morning. Since that time we became even closer, obviously:) In April i was like man... i really like him, so i told him how i felt and told him I would like a serious relationship with him... he told me how much he liked me as well but that he didn't see a relationship going for him right now.. i was bummed and decided i should stop talking to him, so we did. He texts me late May..out the blue after almost 2months of not talking to see how i was doing..so frm that time we continued talking on the daily and have hung out a few of times, and Yes, still having great sex... he's acutally coming over in a few hours. So now, I've noticed that my feelings for him have gotten stronger, like I wana cater to him..anything he wants but this time around I have not allowed myself to really open up to him in mind that he does not want a relationship coming frm his own words. I still date but at the end of the day I want "M" At times i wonder if I'm wasting my time and am digging myself deeper in with my emotions but the way he is with me, the times we are together we seriously connect. I know WE can make an awesome couple! Why wont he allow this to happen?

FYI

M and I both had BAD break ups about 3 yrs ago...we each have a diff story but one thing is we both still carry the hurt frm our past relationships. But I think I've recovered better than he has, I was able to really talk about it, forgive and to an extent have gotten past it..whereas I feel as if at times it still hurts him like it happened to him 2 hours ago.

So for some reason I feel like my having sex with him on the first date made him think that I'm not GF material..which after his ex I'm sure "M" may want certain qualities and Don't Do's in a woman on a 1st date and even though i don't regret and had fun with him in every bit of our 1st date I think our actions was like a stop sign in his head to head down relationship road with me:(

What do you guys think?

Will you ever consider a lady for a serious relationship if you had sex with her on the 1st date?