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ok so a while ago, i was down at this hotel pool with a friend of mine. we end up deciding to go back to her room and hang out. i take the first shower and then while shes in there i get dressed and turn on the TV. she finishes and comes out of the shower, and decides to start getting changed behind me. i notice fairly quickly that i can see everything via the TV reflection. so being a bit of pervert that i am, i turn off the TV so i can get a better look (when black i can see when watching a show not really). anyway. it takes here a bit to finish dressing and the whole time i cant quite bring myself to turn around or comment about what i can see. even after shes finished i don't say anything because i'm afraid she will freak out.

So anyway, do you think she was doing this all on purpose, and wanted me to say something.

(we were 17 at the time)

ok, so i got into a conversation today with a friend who claims he is bisexual. BUT he admits that most of his porn is male. its kind of a claim of "well i still like women, and enjoy the idea of them naked, but i find male porn, some of which is gay, to be more interesting to look at and watch." so i've been trying to figure out if that's more of a going gay, but not quite there or if that does still count as bisexual.

so i posed this to some people and i wanted another view point on it. the idea of middle and high schoolers having to shower after gym class. do you think its right, wrong, weird, normal, ect..... i never had to (thank god) but i know some schools require it.

Thoughts?

so the question is simple. in a new relationship, how long do you usually wait until you go for the first kiss? how long do you wait until discussing sex?

i know its all about the right moment and ****, but how long does that usually take for you?

so i've been talking to this guy for a couple months now, and recently (about 2 weeks ago) he expressed in interest in me. before we started talking again about 3-4 months ago, we had meet once.

my question is, how long should i just be happy with texts, before asking him to meet again? i dont want to seem desperate. but i also dont want to wait to long and risk him finding someone better.

so the basic question is at what point would you refuse to date someone due to their weight. i know all body types are different but in general.

on a side note, how would you define the difference between chubby, fat, and obese. if you think their is one at all.

your partner has amnesia after a traumatic event, they end up thinking they are someone else (lets say their closest friend). they end up impregnating someone else and decide to pay you a visit to pay their regards.

how would you react.

the idea i wanted to throw out there is one of those one in a billion cases. lets say the person you have been dating goes off to war. you hear later that their entire platoon was killed except for one person, their closest friend. how would you feel if after a couple of months that friend showed up with with a pregnant girlfriend, and it turned out that the "friend" was actually your partner...... they had amnesia after the attack.

basically the idea of your partner cheats on you, but does so under the impression that they are someone else, and without the knowledge that you two were ever together

so you've been dating someone for a while (say 3 years) your engaged to be married. one night you end up getting really drunk and having sex with a co-worker. do you tell your partner A) right away. B) after a little bit of time has passed. or C) never?

the idea is that it was a one time thing and a huge mistake.

so the basic question is this. you've been dating someone for a fairly long time (lets say 3 years). one night they end up getting drunk and having sex with a co-worker of theirs (you are unaware of this). would you prefer that they tell you right away, wait a bit before bringing it up, or just never talk about it.

the idea is that it was a one time thing and a huge mistake in their mind.

so i was talking to a friend of mine today about why some people choice horrible horrible times to come out. and we came to the conclusion that they do it because they really just want to piss their parents off or make people uncomfortable.

just to make things clear i'm talking about stuff like; coming out in the middle of a giant family get together (where you know some of the family is homophobic, or coming out over the PA system in church (again knowing that a lot of people there are homophobic).

so my question is, do you think there is really a time and a place for doing something like coming out or bring up a hot button issue?

so is gin the kind of thing you drink cold? or room temp? and if cold, how cold (fridge, freezer)?

i'm talking in general here. not like "well..... if you want "this really rare kind of" drink......"

i got into an argument with someone the other day over this and wanted other peoples thoughts. when in a relationship is its wrong to notice other peoples physical attractiveness. like your at dinner and the waitress walks up, you notice that she is very very attractive looking.

my question is, would you be offended if your partner noticed other people when you were dating? the assumption is that the partner does not plan on leaving you, but does not make an effort to avoid looking at attractive other people.

so i've been talking to this person i meet over a dating site for a few weeks. mostly its just been back and forth messages trying to get to know each other better.

anyway, so i suggested we meet in person to really get to know each other. a few hours before we were suppose to meet, this person contacts me and says that they are still getting over food poisoning from last weekend (the meet up was on a Thursday). so we rescheduled to meet up when she was feeling better. waited about a week and now this person claims they fear they might have lime disease from a tick. so the date was put off again until the person could see a doctor.

now i'm assuming that these excuses are all valid, but i'm just wondering what other people think. does this sound like the person is just trying to avoid the date, but want directly come out and say so? am i reading to much into this? how many more excuses before calling Bullshit on the whole deal?

i left the sex of the person blank because i dont think gender should have any bearing on peoples answers about this topic.

while having a very emotional conversation with a friend, in which you explain why you feel you have to break up with your current partner (partner is to clingy/needy). the friend gives you really good advice and compliments you. you feel reassured by the friend and end up kissing them.

now assuming the friend is the same sex, and is not gay/bi. how would you expect them to react to this?

after a very emotional conversation with a close friend (same sex) in which you helped them come to terms with the idea of breaking up with someone they still care deeply about. (person is to clingy/needy) the friend ends up kissing you. how would you react in this situation.

P.S. you already knew the friend was bisexual.

so one of my friends is openly gay, and i'm bi. hes aware that i kind of have a thing for him (for the past 3 years i've been on the west coast and hes been on the east), but hes currently just starting a relationship with this new guy he met. the problem for them being that they live a decent distance from one another and neither has a car currently. the thing is that i'm moving to the same area hes in right now.

ANYWAY.... i've always been pretty good at knowing what to say and being able to manipulate peoples emotions. would it be wrong of me to use that to try and get this guy? like i'm pretty sure that if i really tried i could totally land him, but i would be crushing his current relationship and abusing what i know about him to manipulate the situation to my advantage.

so i'm trying to find some shops that sell singles, and not just rares, i need some commons and uncommon to finish out my deck. does anyone know any places that might have what i need (i know a few places that have singles but only rares)

WANT

Terramorphic Expanse x3

Elvish Piper x2

Llanowar Elves x3

Beastmaster Ascension x 2

Disfigure x3

Rampent growth x4

Harrowx3

Might of masses x1

Khalni Heart Expedition x2

Dead Reckoning x1

Nissa's Chosen x3

Awakening Zonex3

Corpsehatchx1

Dread Dronex2

Growth Spasm x3

Khalni Hydrax2

Kozilek's Predatorx1

Joraga Treespeakerx2

Nest Invaderx2

Null Championx2

Ondu Giantx3

Pawn of Ulamog x2

Pennon Bladex1

Consuming Vaporsx1

Kozilek, Butcher of Truth x1

Spawnsire of Ulamogx2

Sideboard

Skittering Invasionx2

Ulamog, the Infinite Gyrex2

It That Betraysx2

Ulamog’s Crusher x2

Hand of Emrakul x2

Gravity Wellx1

HAVE

Quest for Renewal x1

Virulent Swipe x1

Brink of Disaster x1

Vengevine x1

Joraga Treespeaker x1

Corpsehatch x1

Kozilek’s Predator x2

Dead Reckoning x1

Dread Drone x1

Nest invader x1

Null Champion x1

Overgrown battlement x4

Kozilek, Butcher of Truth x1

Emrakul, the Aeons Torn x2

Consuming Vapors x2

Pennon Blade x1

Pawn of Ulamog x1

Groundswell x1

Gravity Well x1

any suggestions one what to drop or add are most welcome.

so i have a kind of random question, if you were just starting off a relationship with someone; like lots of texting back and forth. would you enjoy or be annoyed if every time you felt off, the person sent you porn of themselves. like that was their first idea, to play towards your sex drive?