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He asked me last night if he could marry me! It isn't a formal engagement because we are quite young (yet not like 14 or something) and there was of course the "if we are together that long." So I'm talking about like at LEAST after I get an associate degree and he knows which direction he plans to go in life (well, he knows what he wants to do, he just hasn't decided how to balance work and college) We don't really fight a lot because if we disagree on anything, one of us is usually quite obviously wrong and if not, we are both rather flexible people so we work something out. I just met his grandmother last night (only briefly, she was leaving and I met him) He and I aren't depending on one another, but the way we planned college and such, we are prepared to be together for years to come. He was my first (earlier this year) but I was not his (which I have no problem with, no grudge or anything. If anything it made me more comfortable with what we did). He says that we are having amazing sex (and his eyes say he isn't lying) but I wouldn't know much about that since I have nothing to compare it to. We are both physically attracted to one another and that's why we caught eachother's attention but if that fades, we won't have a problem with it. We have similar political beliefs and he is literally a combination of all of the types of man I ever thought I might be able to fall for (musically talented, used to be a skateboarder, nerdy, etc) not to mention he is just a good man. As I mentioned earlier, he and I understand that anything can happen but at the same time we have hope. We know it takes a lot of work, he and I have seen so many relationships fall apart, so would it be realistic to think that if we work hard enough to and keep our minds open enough, he and I could get married in a few years and keep it going?

My boyfriend is the best thing to ever happen to me. I almost lost him tonight because of sone stuff with my family. We are both emotionally drained and I'm still shaking from our conversation which was a while ago. He said he wasn't going to end it and I believe him because I didn't do anything wrong and neither did he (my sister said something that caused some serious problems) Is there anything I can do to to to make up for the pain my sister put him through... Just something sweet and romantic that would put a smile on his face and make him feel a bit better?

I already have a back-up plan in place in case this Video-Game Designer thing falls through so don't worry about that. What I'm looking for are names of schools that will train me in Video Game Design. If anybody can think of any SPECIFIC SCHOOLS that offer such courses in the Continental US I would really appreciate it.

3 of my close guy friends asked me out, another expressed irritation when he ward I had been asked out, and a fourth keeps calling me pretty when I guess I'm slightly facially not ugly but not an "incredibly beautiful girl"

What people like about me:

I tend to be able to make people laugh.

People think I'm "cute?"

I'm sassy (possibly flaw but people seem to like it...

I stand up for what I believe.

I am considered smart (but have duh moments all the time even though nobody seems to notice)

My faults: the fun part :/

I'm slightly emotionally... All over the place I guess.

Lack self confidence.

I don't have a great body (5'3" 94lbs but not much up top...)

I have the most annoying laugh :(

If someone touches my neck or sides I tense up or absolutely collapse (possibly positive since everyone thinks it's cute)

Braces (hopefully gone this summer!)

Suck at singing.

Actually quite arrogant sometimes (I'm trying to avoid that right now so I don't who've you a biased message)

So I want to know, all on all, are the listed faults a big thing for most guys? Did I just happen to know the guys that don't care? Can somebody give me an overview if their opinion of me based in this? Sorry about the length. I'm sure I have more flaws than those listed but I think I hit all of the big ones... Did I mention that I'm sort of stupid? Sorry about that.

Inadequet. Like no matter what you are unartractive. I guess I'm no, guys I know go out of their way to drop hints that I'm beautiful. One guy told me that "I guess it's your cheeks" (when talking about what made me facially beautiful) when I thing they are shapeless and ugly. I'm petite, 5'3" and 97(ish) lbs. the one part of my entire body I like would be my shoulders. Like I dare someone to find shoulders like mine, soft and delicate looking... But shoulders aren't exactly a turn on for most guys. Does anybody else feel like they only have one, insignificant feature in their favor? (no, I'm not a troll, this of for real, I hate every part of me except my shoulders. Strange, right?)

Every girl I know with large breasts complains "they are too big" but they look hot! When they say that they hate them it makes me want to cry. I'm a 32 A and you know what? No guy ever gives me a second glance and it makes me feel horrible. Yeah, back problems. Boo-hoo. You know what? I have those too and like I said: 32 A! As horrible as it is, I have thought about surgery and I'm only 15. I would trade with you poor women with your back aches you know why? From personal observation, every girl I know, that is "small" like me, cries far more than they care to admit because there are women out there complaining about the very thing we would give anything for. So please, explain to me why you don't want them. And don't anybody give me that darn back excuse. Like I said, my back hurts constantly too and I don't have the added bonus of having an attractive figure.

I already posted this but here it is again. Not only did everyone who answered Fail to answer the question, but they gave me the back excuse. I SPECIFICALLY said not to use that; I have literally the same problem. No exaggeration, it hurts all the time and I have to crack my back and take pain killers all the time for it. Plus, I only said that I observed that the women I knew were crying because of this. As in it's not backed by science but personal observation. This time please don't dodge the question: what is wrong with being like me only with having big breasts when women like me have the back pain too?

Every girl I know with large breasts complains "they are too big" but they look hot! When they say that they hate them it makes me want to cry. I'm a 32 A and you know what? No guy ever gives me a second glance and it makes me feel horrible. Yeah, back problems. Boo-hoo. You know what? I have those too and like I said: 32 A! As horrible as it is, I have thought about surgery and I'm only 15. I would trade with you poor women with your back aches you know why? From personal observation, every girl I know, that is "small" like me, cries far more than they care to admit because there are women out there complaining about the very thing we would give anything for. So please, explain to me why you don't want them. And don't anybody give me that darn back excuse. Like I said, my back hurts constantly too and I don't have the added bonus of having an attractive figure.

So I am 15 and have really irregular and the cramps are unbearable. Also have mood swings that seem to frighten or put off people around me. I have no intention of having sex for a long long time so if you wouldnt give me answers because of that, you can rest easy. My father has some blood clotting issue that is genetic and causes problems if you are on the pill so obviously I need to be tested for that. What other risks should I look out for/could potentially make it not worthwhile?

I am 5'3" and my waist measures at (literally just measured and it's technically 25.5") my hair is long and brown (actually i dyed it pink but I'll dye it back sometime) my eyes are brown with a greenish rim and one has a darker pigmented line through the radius. My bust is a 32 A though I've been told it may be still change.

My question is, would any guy find me attractive? (I'm 15)

If a pretty girl was staring at you and you got self conscious about it and she told you it was because she thought you were good looking, would you be skeptical? (I have a thing for glasses... So... Yeah)

Setting- sort of medieval but not quite earth; sort of a made up land

Genre- fantasy-fiction

Characters:

Samuel- nerdy librarian

Charlotte- sister of Fae

Xander- Samuel's childhood friend and accomplished knight

Fae- kidnapped by an evil scorcerer and recently discovered to be alive yet not found

(sorry about any bad grammar, I am usually careful of that but the divide im typing this on has the most unintelligent auto-correct ever)

I'm not going to give much away because I may get this published one day but I'm stuck.

Samual (now 25) was engaged to Fae (arranged) three years before plot begins. He loved her but she loved his best friend Xander (now 21) Fae is by this point 17.

Pretty much Samual hates Xander because he whisked Fae off three years ago and she got kidnapped by a scorcerer. Three years later, Charlotte and Xander come to Samual to help them find her after Charlotte receives word that she is alive. Xander has made his intention to marry Fae pretty clear and Samual is only ok with that because he wants her safe. Now Charlotte, Xander, and Samual are all sitting around at Samual's house and they need to get going on their quest but I'm not sure how to get that started.

P.s. Xander likes being a jerk to Samual, Samual just takes it, and Charlotte only has a problem with Xander because he is rather annoying about how much he likes torturing Samual.

(I gave away a lot.... Oh well.) please be kind, don't steal my plot. I would appreciate any advice in how to proceed. Need help on your writing and I will gladly assist. Thanks in advance!

I have dark rings around my eyes and it looks like they are bruised (I don't get as much sleep as I probably should) I was actually punched in the face. People keep telling me I'm pretty but I can't look past these dark circles. How do I get rid of this discoloration? (also slightly baggy which is not okay with me because I'm only 15) I have already tried a cucumber wash thing that did nothing. I'm really looking for an inexpensive solution... $10 or less but that is just if it's doable.

P.s. I'm not concerned about it to impress anybody at all. I'm just a perfectionist and it bothers me.

I have had two boyfriends in my life (15 years old) and they were serious relationships. My first boyfriend dumped me for my best friend and the other left me crying multiple times so he could have his friend time and I eventually dumped him.

Both of those guys were close friends and they, along with one other guy were part of our little group of friends from years ago. Recently the third guy and two of my other friends asked me out (along with a girl I know but she understands that I'm About as straight as they come)

Does it make me shallow that I won't go out with any of my friends because I'm looking for a certain type of guy (like a nerdy guy for real) I feel badly about all he guys that like me but I keep seeing traits of the guys that broke m heart in them and I shy away. All I want is a smart, sweet, guy that respects women and makes me happy (I kinda want him to be good looking and have glasses but that isn't a deal breaker at all). When I reflect on these wishes, I don't think I'm shallow but I'm also biased as is human nature.

So I'm a high school sophomore and I'm really into a certain type of guy. Their like in every book I've ever read but I've never met one for real. I'm talking about the smart guy that is almost nerdy in a way yet still good looking. I'm looking for the kind of guy that gets overlooked by cheerleaders and does his own thing. I'm more than likely going to a new school next year and am wondering if my chances of finding a guy like that are even more than 0%. (by the way I'm not shallow, the good looking think is totally optional and really more wishful thinking but I'm sort of into glasses)

I'm a teenage girl that would LIKE to think I don't care what the rest of the world thinks of me but the reality is I do care. I hate it too. I lie awake at night and worry and lose sleep because I don't know what people are saying behind my back. I'll think I know but then someone will ask me if the latest rumor is true and I'll be blown away by how disgusting the lie is. All of these lies, I know, are coming from the very same people who have the nerve to ask me for help on their Chemistry homework or history worksheet. The worst part is that I'm not stupid or ignorant. People are always trying to be sneaky about the hurtful things they say about me or do to turn people against me but I see them. No, I'm not pretty or charismatic and I know it. The people close to me are deterred by my supposed 'arrogance' but it's all I've got that's keeping me from standing in front of a mirror and picking out my every flaw. So what can I do to get over my low self-esteem? It's driving me absolutely insane.