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Shouldn't your full time job be hunting for a job until you find one?

I am a stay at home mother of five. My husband and I have recently had financial problems and they were directly due to my husbands problem. I have noticed that as the years go by my mother in law seems to think that it is her obligation to decide what is best for my family. So, her solution is that I go get a job. What a revelation. If it were that easy. And as quickly as that comes out of her mouth she doesn't seem to have the solution for the cost of Daycare that will come up front plus the gas prices to get me there and back. that is not the only problem though. My husband works very late hours and goes out of town for a week, once or twice a month. I have worked before but out of necessity for survival sake and I am a hard worker. The sacrifice for working would be leaving my children alone. I have one more year before my youngest starts school. and I can really get back into the work force. I believe I am making the best choice to remain home. Why is that her problem?

They have told me that they can not be purchased but they will gladly buy the guitar and give me credit toward a new guitar so that they can replace the guitar cord and resell it for there benifit. But, they can't get me a cord. Any idea's?

do you catch your mate fooling around. I need lot's of idea's other than a detective. Come on guys and gals be creative and give creative experiences also.

Can an apartment manager tell your family they may not use the swimming pool because someone told them that your family had head lice and that they we would need a doctors note or a note from the pharmisist in order to let them use the swimming pool.

What do yo do when a Manager has moved you into an apartment right above her family and she starts making accusations toward your family where there is no proof but she has people within the community that would bare false witness, such as sister . What would you do if she pulled your children aside into a room to tell them they could't swim in the pool because she heard they had head lice from a source that couldn't possibly know that to make an accusation. Not even notifying me until later that day. What if she went to great lengths to have someone write my daughters name on the building and get the community security guard to say that she did.Then to have someone accuse my son of egging her car with an eyewitness and make the accusation and not even know what day this happened. What can you do?

We live with that idea when marriage is suppose to be the last thought in going forward in the relationship.We tend to want the marriage before the prospect. It just seems like a poor way to make a decision that is meant to be life long.

ahead about his finacial responsibilities. My husband doesn't pay any attention to future details and he borderlines terrible consequenses that continue to effect me and the kids. This is really serious. I am not writing this to bash. I am writing this out of concern for him and us. What he does effects us and I am in this marriage for life. I am burnt out.