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ok the other day I was kissing my boyfriend and I told him his breath was a little stinky, I expected him to use some mouth wash and then we could go back to kissing. I mean he has great oral hygene but we had been working all day and had onions and sour cream with lunch so our breath wasn't fresh. He took my comment very personally and felt like I was rejecting him. after I said it he got up and just left. We talked a little bit and he said I really hurt him and he almost broke up with me. We plan to get married and spend the rest of our lives together. but this put up some barriers between us. I don't understand how he felt rejected by what I said. He said we are still together but we need to figure out a way to fix the problem. He is very sensitive and Idk how to fix this problem. The only thing I can think of is for him to trust me that I didn't mean it to hurt him and that I would be more careful of what I said to him but I don't think that will be a good solution to him.

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can fix this problem? I love him very much and I want to make this better. Thanks

ok I am a healthy STD free 22 yr old female. I reciently found out my own *** stings and burns my skin. My boyfriend and I found out that I can squirt. The other day he made me squirt and rubbed it on my stomach then my skin got all red and burned. it went away after about an hour but now it burns every time it gets on my skin. I have never felt this before of corse I have never squirted before either. What is this? I mean Ive heard of women being allergic to a mans *** but not their own female ***. What do you think is wrong? should I see the doctor? Thanks

My boyfriend and I had sex 4days in a row after my last period. And right after I ovulated. He didnt fully *** in me but it was like half way then he pulled out and one of the times we used a condom but it came off i side me.The last few days I have been feeling bloated and nauseous. And kinda light headed at times. Ive been having a lot of discharge as well.I am suppose to start my period tomorrow but do u think I could be pregnant or will I get my period?

Ok so ive been reading about BMT and I know u r suppose to do it every morning when u wake up and before you move at all. But im curious as to how? Like do u stick the thermometer in your vagina or just take yoir temp normally through the mouth? I want to start tracking my BMT but im a little confused thanks for your help.

Ok so after a few drinks my male coworker convinced me to sleep with him. Yes I did it willingly. We had a secret romance for about a month and then he stopped talking to me and started avoiding me. It was just a fling nothing serious. But now hes complaining about my work to our boss. Its stupid little things and i thnk he is trying to get me fired. Our boss really likes him so he listens to everything he says. I know it was bad but now i dont want to get fired.

So do i tell my boss what happened and run the risk of getting fired? Or do i wait it out and let him keep complaining and my boss start to not like me then possibly get fired?

Please help what do i do? Ive never been in this situation before and it never gonna happen again.

Ok so ive been having vaginal itching and a smell. I shower every day and I just had an apt with my doctor and she said there is no infections, no yeast, no std, everything is normal. I am a healthy 21 yr old.So how do I get rid of the itch and smell? Is there any products u would recomend? Any homeopathic remedies?

I got a few female and male fancy guppies about a week ago. I have a 95 gallon tank and I want to get a school of guppies going. Ive only had them about a week but I was wondering How long untill I will start to see fry ( baby guppies)?

ok so my boyfriend and I got a little wild in bed last night and with out going into too much detail... my throat hurts. This was the first time I had deep throted and now my throat hurts really bad. What can I do to make the pain stop? I have tried cold popsicles but by the time it got to my throat it was not so cold so it didn't help. I could really use your help. What can I do to make the pain go away?

so lately I have been having horrible stomach pain and lower back pain after i eat. I usually only eat one meal a day the rest of the day I just eat little things like an apple for breakfast. I eat fairly healthy, Tonite I made a chicken stirfry with white meat chicken, fresh carrots, and fresh broccoli. I only ate about 2 cups of the stirfry. Now my stomach and back hurt really bad. I am not constapated and I do not have any abnormal symptoms for any thing except the pain I described earlier. Can any one help me figure out why I am having this pain and how to get rid of it please? Thank you.

I have 2 tanks. right now its in a 95 gal tank with my oscar and they are doing quite well together. I have a red eared slider turtle in another tank and that tank is 75 gallon. I do not have a filter in the 75 gllon tank yet but I have a small bubbler. My turtle is way messier than my oscar and I am afraid the there is not e nough alge for my pleco in the oscar tank so I was wondering if I can put my pleco in my turtle tank? Would it survive with out a filter? Also would my tutle eat it? Its smaller than my turtle, but I have had 4 feeder fish in the tank with it for several days and the turtle does not want to eat the fish only the pellets. so does thaqt mean the turtle is not likely to eat the pleco?

ok so I want to claim my daughter on my taxes because I am the mother and I am the primary care giver to my daughter. She lives with me and I am the one who supports her. Her father pays child support and wants to claim her on his taxes this year. Can he legally claim her? I want to claim her because I am the one who supports her. Do you think it is fair for him to claim her on his taxes? Can he legally claim her even if she does not live with him? Please help!

FOR MUSLIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS TO ANSWER ONLY PLEASE!

Yes, I am a muslim woman. I wear hijab but I have been hearing a lot about the niqab. I want to know what you think about it from your perspective. Only real muslim brothers and sisters are to answer. Please no rude comments.

I make a home made smoothie. It has low fat yougurt, fat free milk, apple juice, and frozen strawberries and blueberries all blended up. When I make this and drink it it is absolutly delicious but I get very full like I ate a 3 course meal. Is it healthy to drink this smoothie in place of 2 meals out of the day? I am also trying to lose weight. Advise please?

So I am making a stew in my crock pot slow cooker. I put lamb, and a bunch of veggies. I also put in a potato. the potato was just fine when I put it in the crock pot. I went to check on the pot and the potatoes on the top of the stew had turned black. There is nothing in the pot that would make it turn black.

Are the potatoes ok to continue cooking or should I take them out and throw them away?

Some backgroung info: I am happily married, 21 years old, I have a 3 yr old daughter. I do not have any diseases of any kind what so ever and I am healthy. Also I had the merena IUD For 2 years and have had it removed for a full year. This is the first time my husband and I have started to try to get pregnate. I had a normal period last month but this month I am confused. I was suppose to start my period on saturday the 24th. When I did not get my period on that day I took a pregnacy test yesterday (sunday) It was negative. It is now monday and I still havent gotten my period.

Any info on what could be happening in my body? Am I pregnate and maybe the test was faulty? Or is my period just freekishly late? Please some help?

So I got a new 75 galon tank. I have everything all set up and have feeder guppies in there right now (about 25 of them) to get the good bacteria going and so when I get my expensive fish they wont die. I was just wondering how long I should wait untill I get the expensive fish? About how long would it take to get my tank to optimal condition after I have the feeder guppies in? I am really excited to start putting my pretty fish in but I want them to be healthy and not die. any advise?

I am muslim. My mother is christian. She supports my decision to accept Islam. I have been talking to a muslim man over the phone. We have been talking to see if we are compatible for marriage. It has only been a couple days but I know that Islamic courtship goes much faster than the typical christian courtship. Also there are many diffrences in relationships between Islam and christian.

I really like this man so far. My Imam had introduced us so I feel like I can trust the situation.

I told my mother today that I have been talking to this man over the phone, which is like "dating" in a christian view.

She is not happy. She does not know a lot about Islam and how things work so it scares her a bit. She does not the idea of me talking about marriage and to a man that could possibly be a husband.

I need advise on what to do. Do I call it off with this guy and stop talking to him, even though I really like him? Or do I tell my mom to just be happy for me and go ahead and continue to speak with him?

I also have a 3 year old daughter and I would have t o fly to New York to meet him face to face. ( If we did get married he would move here). My mother also does not like that.

What do I do!!!?

ONLY HONEST ANSWERS THAT WILL BE HELPFUL! absolutly no answers that are rude or degrading. I will not put up with people being rude ok? thank you.

I need help picking an African girl name. I like names that mean positive things or is in a good reference to God.

ok so I am 20 years old. And I have a 3 yr old daughter. I have had 3 periods this month. Should I be worried?

I do not have medical so I do not want to go into the doctor unless there could really be something wrong. I am not on birth control and my boyfriend and I use condoms.

first period was 2nd - 5th and the second one was 17th - 21st and now I just started my period again today. I have been really crampy and emotional like I usually am durring periods. Nothing is out of the norm except that there were 3 periods this month.

Any advise please?

Salaam!

I am a new convert and I know about the Islamic holidays but I was wondering if Muslims can celebrate Easter, Christmas, thanksgiving, Halloween, and birthdays? When you answer please include all holidays I have mentioned and I do not need the origin of the holidays I just need to know if it is ok to celebrate them.

Thanks!