Mel M

My brother molested me as a teenager and when he was sent to prison for forgery he almost wound up in a prison for convicts who had child molestation offenses because my parents had sent me to a shrink and he called the cops. I joined the army to get away from the abuse and was a highly decorated soldier. He told his wife his side of the story which was how i wrecked his life. When my children were taken away due to an undiagnosed mental illness he didn't do anything to help me. When our brother was found dead, his phone was disconnected so I called the police in his city to get a message to him and that was in 1998 and he still complains about that and in 2002 he had my parents and daughters up to his house for Thanksgiving and told my children he didn't want anything to do with me. Now I have cancer and I have told my dad not to tell him and one of my cousins says that I should give him a chance to let him make ammends and I think he has had plenty of time to do so.