salama

My boyfriend and I had to break up 2 years ago due to our family issues which got very tough . I couldn’t stop thinking of him during the last two years. He accidentally saw my friend 4 months and all tears he said he couldn’t stop thinking about me, So we spoke and told each other how tough these two years have been . He also sent me a very touching song . I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he said Nooooo! Never !!!!!The next day, I sent him a message he said we are not suppose to talk everyday and we shouldn’t make the previous mistakes. So everything stopped there. I moved to another country, I thought he would contact me now that my family is not around. But he didn’t. On his birthday, he shared a song publicly on Facebook ( it is always private) showing 2 lovers want to meet and suddenly something happens that takes them apart ! Exactly what happened to us ! We were both on trips counting days to come back see each other that the tragic happened . Our families found out and we were banned to see each other . We couldn’t say goodbye. My family treated me very badly . They kept me in house for 2 weeks not having any cell phone or contact . Now I sent him a note on Facebook after he sharing the music . But no answer! Why ? Why doesn’t he answer ? He could at least say he is not interested anymore , let’s put an end to this and don’t send me any message!

It has been one year since my break up with my so called lover . I can't get him out of my head . I threw away my diary . I deleted all songs he sent me but can't help it ! How long does it take to forget someone who had a clean cut with you ? We were forced to break up due to maintain our life status ! To keep my our material life and others around us , we were forced to break up . We both work in high levels of management and are both well off . We are the same age 45. But he didn't even send me a birthday note on my birthday . I sent him an email that I could not believe he did not remember my birthday to send me a note even as a friend . He did not even answer my email . Being so attached to each other once , thinking we are soulmates, how could he not send me a note ? It has been nearly one year . How long does it take to forget him ! I think about him everyday!

I'm a successful busniness woman . Last year I fell in love with a successful businessman. I am married , he was married too ! I was a proud person who never thought I would fell for anyone ! Love was out of question for me ! Just responsibility as a mother , wife and a manager was important for me ! But suddenlyI fell for this man ! He said he loved me so much and regret why we met so late in life ! He sent me music everyday of how much he loved me ! It took 3 months ! We did some sex chat and he always feared we meet alone , as he always wished I was single and said he is a god fearing person ! But he loved to sex chat ! Then my husband found out and took the **** out of me , beat me to death , took all our belongings under his name , ..... but didn't divorce me ! To my amazement , the guy vanished for good ! Didn't even ask how I was doing ! My friend told him the things I was going through ! But no comment , Just saying he hated divorce and she should apologize! Months later I thought he would at least send me a note for my birthday but nothing ! Everything is back to normal in my life now ! My husband is fine , we bought a new luxury apartment we would move in soon . But there is no joy in my heart ! No energy , no life ! I was so stupid to believe he loved me ! I didn't want to ruin his family life nor mine for the sake of our kids , but how could he live with the fact that I lost so much , but he in return did not even take a step to even say don't worry ?

I got close to a guy I used to have working relationship about a year ago . We had chats and it turned to sex chat . Nine months ago my husband found out . He was very furious . At first said we should divorce, he made me register the apartment we lived in under his name otherwise he would tell everyone ! He made it hell for me . Then when it came to actual divorce, he said he wouldn't divorce me ! He loves me and so we moved on ! Now everything is perfect in my life , my husband cares for me , spends time with me , spends so much money for me . Just I can't get that guy out of my mind ! He abandoned me right away as my husband found out ! He was so scared because my husband called him and said he would kill him if he finds him ! I tried my best he couldn't find the guy! But he is in my mind ! Everyday I wake up with his thoughts and sleep thinking about him ! I spoke with him some months later and he said he was close to heart attach , still takes pills ! He also said he thinks about me day and night ! What should I do to forget him !

About 9 months ago I came into close and romantic relationship with a man who was our competitor at work . I'm a manager at a big company and he was a general manager of a competitor company . We knew each other for some years . But we fell in love 9 months ago . We are both 45 ! It was evident that it was critical to our jobs and positions so we kept it private . It was just the beginning and we preferred to be sure of our relation and then take any further steps . It would change everything. ! We also preferred not to have sexual contact until we both decide ! We just did some sex chat ! It was just 3 months of our relationship that my boyfriend of many years found out and somehow told my boss . He took the **** out of me ! We cut the relationship fast and ignored everything ! We couldn't even say good bye to each other ! I had tried to reach this position for years and so as he ! During these 6 months , I thought of him everyday ! What he does is that everyday he blocks me on Instagram and unblocks me the next day ! Everyday he does that ! He blocks me on Facebook and unblocks me the next week ! My boyfriend called him and said he would kill him ! My boyfriend got my cell phone and got all my passwords to check if he sends me any email or not ! My friend told him that my boyfriend is checking everything and asked him not to send me any email ! During these 6 months he did not contact me at all ! So what is his intention of blocking and unblocking ? I loved him so much !

4 months ago , I suddenly fell in love with a guy ! I'm married with 2 kids , 22 years of marriage! My husband was so aggressive in life ! I had always been so strong but one day on my week moment I fell in love with guy working with our company ! I'm a manager at a big company and he was the owner of a big company too ! He was also in love with me as he said . We were going to start something physical as well. Then we only had sex chat It lasted 3 months ! Till my husband found out ! My husband took the **** out of me ! He didn't divorce me as he was too attached to me but he torcheted me as he could . Verbal and physical abuse ! Money ! He told the kids ! All I beared ! But I'm still shock about the soul mate lover ! He vanished ! He never even asked my friends what happened to me ! He left me in the mouth of lion ! I , who was always proud of myself , my decisions, my style , ....., made such drastice choice ? Was he a basterd jurk ? He was well off , I was ok too . So I always thought it was a moment of love ! He just wanted to do sex chat with me ? Otherwise how could he be so indifferent about what happened to me ????

I live in a Muslim country where men have the right for their every action . 6 months ago I started chatting with a man and it turned to sex chat ! My husband found out 3 months ago ! First he bit me to death ! Then he started assault . He also told my kids ! My son 20 and my daughter 15 ! Then he made me rigistet my apartment under his name ! I had nothing , I had to give up the luxury life I had and live on my own ! I'm a manager at a big company with good salary but it would be a simple life if I wanted to live on my own ! Also I didn't want to leave my kids with the idea of their mother betrayed their father ! Then after 2 months he said he forgives me , let's continue our life ! He put me under great pressure for last 2 months , now that he is back , I feel too wounded ! Deep wounds ! I can't forgive him for what he did to me ! Should I appreciate that he comes back to me while taking everything from me ? My pride , my degnity I front of kids , the apartment !

He was around trying to get my attention for 2 years and then on a weak time of my life , he got me ! He played so I would fall more in love with him I'm a manager at a big company and he was also a general manager and very rich . We were the same age ! It was wonderful ! The point was that he only wanted sex chat and normal chat ! Nothing more ! It lasted 3 months . Then my husband found out ! All of a sudden the lover was vanished ! He didn't even get any news from me of what happened to me ! I lost many thins but I survived ! I'm back again with my husband having s better life than before ! My husband ignored me all the time but now he pays more attention to me with love ! I'm left with feeling of remorse and the big question! Was he a big lier? Love was a joke to him ? Was he laughing at me all the time ? Was I just a case for sex chat to him ? He was rich enough to have sex or sex chat with any girl so why playing with me ? If no why he never approached even by mail to a friend to see how I'm doing ! My friend already had told him I was under great pressure !

He was around trying to get my attention for 2 years and then on a weak time of my life , he got me ! He played so I would fall more in love with me ! I'm a manager at a big company and he was also a general manager and very rich . We were the same age ! It was wonderful ! The point was that he only wanted sex chat and normal chat ! Nothing more ! It lasted 3 months . Then my husband found out ! All of a sudden the lover was vanished ! He didn't even get any news from me of what happened to me ! I lost many thins but I survived ! I'm back again with my husband having s better life than before ! My husband ignored me all the time but now he pays more attention to me with love ! I'm left with feeling of remorse and the big question! Was he a big lier? Love was a joke to him ? Was he laughing at me all the time ? Was I just a case for sex chat to him ? He was rich enough to have sex or sex chat with any girl so why playing with me ? If no why he never approached even by mail to a friend to see how I'm doing ! My friend already had told him I was under great pressure !