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Hey guys, so Ive been going out a little more lately and meeting new women at bars, clubs, social events etc for the purpose of finding a girlfriend, not here to cheat or only have sex with them. A few of them I've had a mutual interest in and managed to go on a date or two with a few of them. Not that it matters too much but im a fairly good looking guy, have a little bit of money and go to the gym regularly. I have found recently even if the dates go great where we are both laughing or we kiss for a little bit, they eventually slow down on repliying and stop all together the days followong. With that being said i am not one to spam a person through text i keep the conversation moving like normal and i do have some manners i dont dirty talk to them unless its what the conversation leads to. Point being why do these women stop repliying over time even though we had awesome dates where they laugh all the time, im the one they say they are looking for and so on.

Thanks for your help, much appreciated.

To be short and sweet, I'm in college I had a class with this one girl I thought was really cute, never talked to her because there was never a chance to or didn't think of it, last day of class on Monday I decided to talk to her, I found it she is amazing, really awesome girl and I'm upset that I didn't try to talk to her sooner. She and her cousin used to look at me in class and thought I was cool. I found her cousin on fb, but she doesn't have one, knowing my luck I won't see her on campus next semester and I really like her after our 35 min convo, how should I go about this. Should I inbox her cousin on fb, if so how can I word that because it would be random, and if there is anything else I can do while waiting for the next semester. I know there's very little that can be done, but it's one of those where you don't want her to slip. I appreciate your help

I'm in college abs I had gym class with this girl and she was cute but I never talked to her not that I was shy that want an issue just never did really, but I decided to talk to her yesterday and had a full blown conversation that lasted over half an hour...the problem is is that that was the last day of class, this is the part I messed up. I learned that she is such an awesome person really enjoyed taking with her it was like I knew her already. Semester is over and now all I think about is wow if only I spoke earlier. I found her best friend on Facebook but she doesn't have one and I only got her first name. How can I get in contact or hang out without it sounding weird with her friend, because knowing my luck I won't see her next semester. thanks I appreciate your help

Hey guys thanks for answering, not feeling too great today. Im in college and the semester is basically over, there was a girl in my gym class and we really couldnt talk so we didnt even though she used to eye me and i did the same. Today she was in the gym with her friend and i just went and talked to her. I found out she is such an awesome person, and im pissed i never made the effort of talking ti her earlier. My question for you guys is i only know her first name, she has no face book, her friend does, and i am sure i wont see her next semester just because thats how my luck goes. What can i do to get in contact or hang out being that i ruined this opportunity on an awesome girl?

Thanks for answering, I'm in college and I share a class with this girl I like, I'd sit next to her but my professor is strict and kind of assigned seats. It's a 2 hour lecture, I know I can look at her and have her catch me, smile etc but what else can I do besides that to hit on her or help her understand I like her. The lab class we have is an hour long and she sits near me, and I can talk a little when the professor is occupied. But there's only a couple weeks left of class so I need every minute to count. Thanks for your help

Legally of course, I love my ex, and this guy is the only barrier I have.

I'm a sophomore in college, and this girl who is in my class sat right behind me in the computer lab, we hadn't talked before and we got into a conversation about me and by bro who happens to be my twin and she asked me like 25 questions and I made her laugh the whole time, when we finished I saw she was taking a selfie with me so I made a face, and she didn't know I saw, and then when she realized she took another, what does this mean, she may have a bf, if she does it may not be doing well...thanks

I'm a sophomore in college, and this girl who is in my class sat right behind me in the computer lab, we hadn't talked before and we got into a conversation about me and by bro who happens to be my twin and she asked me like 25 questions and I made her laugh the whole time, when we finished I saw she was taking a selfie with me so I made a face, and she didn't know I saw, and then when she realized she took another, what does this mean, she may have a bf, if she does it may not be doing well...thanks

I'm indecisive because I don't want to be hurt again. So id love to find that one girl that is the girl, and call it a happy ending, although this seems impossible. I'm a pretty good looking guy, and a couple of girls seem to possibly show interest.

1) my ex, now I was 10 when we dated, and she was definately my missing puzzle piece and I do know what love is, and she is the one responsible, she has a bf now and things seem to be great between them...but through texts every now and then she still loves me, as do i. Should I wait? She always has my heart and my thoughts

2) being that that was 8 years ago and seems to not be an option, there is this girl in my class that I think has a bf, but isn't doing well. And today she started a convo with her and made her laugh a lot, and then soon after she took a selfie with me, and we hadn't spoke before, and seemed to enjoy our convo she is possibly the prettiest one of the choices, sports girl, and a bubbly personality that its hard not to like

3) lastly, about a week ago this girl eyed me from across the class and we had to go around and share our presentation topics and she came right to me, then waited for me and walked me to class...the next day she waited again and I walked her to class and she asked for my # she is family oriented and seems to have a bright future and loves to cook the odd side, soon after we started texting she asked randomly and bluntly if I had a gf, and if I was a virgin, and seemed to be too quick

Thanks

I had a gf in 6-8th grade and she was soo amazing, were 2 peas in a pod, but as it sounds things dont last forever especially in middle school. She transferred schools and we became best buds, and in high school we drifted further and now in college we only text for holidays basically. The thing is I really want her back, as it took 6 years to drift to where we are, I'm hoping that there's something that will make us pick up where we left off. We never had an argument, her parents adore me, and I know she still loves me, but she has a bf now, and looks to be going pretty well. So I need advice, I can't take it anymore, I want my middle school sweetheart.

So I dated this girl in 6th grade, and we broke up in 8th grade due to transfer of schools, but remained friends. It's been 7 years and we are in college now, we were 2 peas in a pod and truly were the same. When we old eachother that we loved eachother I know we meant it because I still do after all this time, and I've seen her by coincidence an she clearly shows it too. She currently has a bf, seems to be going well, but against my morals, I want to know a way to get her back, I truly love her and hopefully pick up where i left off, I have her # and her parents love me, I've asked to hang out, she said yes but has yet to set a date and I don't want to be pushy, also telling her everything might ruin everything. Thank you for your help.

Thanks for answering, I'll get right to it.

I met this girl in 6th grade in an after school program and we hit off really well. She joined track and field with me, and also Spanish dance class where I taught her how to dance. After a couple months she flat out told me that she wanted me to ask her out, and I liked her so I didn't hesitate. We dated for 2 years and during that time we had a ton of memories. The summer before 8th grade I couldn't talk to her or see her because I had 100 mins on my phone and that went quick, and my mom wouldn't drive me, therefore the first day of 8th grade she broke up with me because she thought I did it on purpose, but I had no control. We became best friends after that and hung out with each other regularly unilateral he transferred high schools because of her grades. Her parents adore me and always talk about me so I've heard. It's been 8yrs since we had gone out and I still love her, ad I say love because it really was even at a young age, and I know she still loves me because she saw me one time by coincidence and ran to me and didn't let go for like 40 mins straight while talking to my mom no less. To my point obviously I still love her, and I'm hoping she reciprocates, she has a bf now and id never think of doing this but I really want to know how I can get her back. I know if I got her I'd never let her go. We really don't text much and I've tried to have her start hanging out but it hasn't happened yet, so I beg you for help get her.

Thanks for answering, I'll get right to it.

I met this girl in 6th grade in an after school program and we hit off really well. She joined track and field with me, and also Spanish dance class where I taught her how to dance. After a couple months she flat out told me that she wanted me to ask her out, and I liked her so I didn't hesitate. We dated for 2 years and during that time we had a ton of memories. The summer before 8th grade I couldn't talk to her or see her because I had 100 mins on my phone and that went quick, and my mom wouldn't drive me, therefore the first day of 8th grade she broke up with me because she thought I did it on purpose, but I had no control. We became best friends after that andhubg out with each other regularly unilateral he transferred high schools because of her grades. Her parents adore me and always talk about me so I've heard. It's been 8yrs since we had gone out and I still love her, ad I say love because it really was even at a young age, and I know she still loves me because she saw me one time by coincidence and ran to me and didn't let go for like 40 mins straight while talking to my mom no less. To my point obviously I still love her, and I'm hoping she reciprocates, she has a bf now and id never think of doing this but I really want to know how I can get her back. I know if I got her I'd never let her go. We really don't text much and I've tried to have her start hanging out but it hasn't happened yet, so I beg you for help get her.