BLUE EYED ANGEL

I was raised to respect other property and that is how I am raising my children.

So one night someone rolled my yard and broke some items in my yard. I woke up to a mess and had to clean it up and repair things that were broken.

I found out who did it and called them, but I got blamed for over reacting and got hung up on.

I have 2 worries, about this happing and when I tried to explain how I felt I was the one who was wrong and they didnt do anything wrong.

I have gaurd dogs and if they had not been pinned up because of the weather they could have malled one of the kids or adults that were in my yard. I would have then been sued and my dog would have been put to sleep (either by the law or shot by a mad parent). I also have a gun in the house and if I had shot someone thnking they were trying to break in or steal something I could have went to jail.

But because I let them know how I felt and that they were not only letting their children break the law but they were helping them do so, I have now become the bad guy.

I dont feel I am in the wrong, here. I need to know what you all think.

I have a friend and he likes this girl, but he cant have anything to do with his myspace, yahoo, or his other friends when his with her. I think this is really unfair to him and because of her we havent been able to talk, email or IM in a month now. Its not just me that he cant speak to its alot of his friends. I feel bad for him, because he really does like her, but being controlled like this isnt the way to have a good relationship.

What so I do if anything to get back in contact with him, so he knows we still care about him?