Advice

I got citation the other night at a party, I'm 20 and i blew .234 or something close to that, anyway my friend told me he only paid 85 for his, but online i see other districts in minnesota charging 185. They say it should be in the system in 10 days, but does anyone know how much it is? I don't really want to wait. The police also jotted down where i went to school.... What is going to happen??

For three months now a guy and i have been hanging out every weekend with one another three weeks ago we got into a disagreement and he decided we should just be friend, the weekend before this one we hung out again and got close, he kiseed me and got all protective over me, his friend/roommate also told me he would ask me out by the end of the year (school year or 2013 who knows). ( Hes a junior in college and I'm a sophmore in college). However lately he's been too busy, im not sure if it just stress from school, but really ticks me off is he said he was super busy and could hang last monday, then that thursday when he had the night off i asked if he wanted to watch a movie he texted back "I'm actually see the Great Gasby with friends sorry.." this weekend was mother's day so it was like whatever we were both busy, but i feel like every time i ask him to hang he's busy, but on the weekends he and his roommate always want to hang with me, and we all go to parties, and both he and his roommate get protective if another guy flirts with me. Should i ask him to hang one more time then just drop it and never text back if he doesn't, even if he texts me later on?

This guy I have been seeing, his best friend who im on good terms with... or thought i was says i should give him space. This sort of confuses me, because i text this guy maybe once during the week our check up, and we hang out on the weekend..... we got into a disagreement last weekend when it slipped he used to see a friend of mine, i was pretty emotional and realized it was because i was pmsing. This weekend he texted saying he liked me alot and that why he spend so much time with me, but was stressed about school, i get that and was going to allow him another 3 months to figure things out. Before he could ask for space i took his friends advice and told him we both needed it to figure things out, but now im worried he may not still like me... if guys are given too much space could he change his mind?

I've been seeing a guy for over a month and just this weekend he thinks we got into a fight while i dont think of it as huge. Turns out he lied about dating my friend a while back and it slipped out during dinner, pillow talk was him going over all the women he ever dated, he offered up the information when i told him it was unneccessary, right before bed he said he's really stressed with school which is true (I've known about this and was going to allow him 3 extra months for things to calm down before getting serious) and that he wasn't in the right place for a relationship. I asked him if he wanted me to stay or go. He said for me to stay and i did, however we didn't talk in the morning when i left, and later his best friend told me i need to give him space. So I texted him saying we need our space, and texting right now was too soon, and that we are both still upset and i didn't want to do anything rash. And I said we should talk tomorrow ( I said this monday) and he agreed to it. I'm honestly still unsure on what i want. I like him alot, and he said he likes me alot else he wouldn't hang with me every single weekend, but he said something about not wanting to stand in the way of what i really want in a relationship, and first i thought he was being a douche and maybe he was, but now that i think about it, what i want is something serious..... and he's probably right... maybe he's not the one for me. However i do enjoy my time with him. Guys? What do you think he's thinking and is it worth sticking around? even if i know he isn't the one? (Also tmi turns out i was pmsing badly that night, should i let him know or not?)

I met this guy at a party a few weeks ago after words we went out for tacos and went to his place to watch a movie,talked and we did nothing. the next we watched a movie and talked, and did nothing. Last weekend we were at a party and he asked me to dance and we did and kissed and went home and had sex & cuddled and talked. this weekend he came and we watched step brothers, and we had sex and talked for an hour and cuddled and held hands. I actually like him, but my friend's say my chances are ruined because i had sex. Would it be possible next time if he came over for me to ask if we could slow down because i actually like his company, would he understand i want more than? I enjoy talking to him and i would like to see where it could go. How can you tell if a guy may also be interested in more as well? we text on a regular basis as well.

I have been seeing this guy and its been great, we cuddle watch movies, haven't had sex yet, and tonight my friend texted me saying he thinks my coworker is hot and that he tried to get with her for an hour and then gave up, Im not sure if this is before or after meeting me, but it makes me nervous, was i just nice enough to give him a second glance?

so i went on two dates with a guy, both which seemed like alot of fun, i had a good time and he also said he had a good time, last week i asked him how he was and he said good and asked me how i was, then the next day i texted him asking him if he was available the following week to meet up, he never replied, it seems rude from my perspective to say he had a good time then drop off the face of the earth, but maybe men just do that? I asked a few of my guy friends who also thought it was very weird, they say i should text him one last time, but i don't want to come off as annoying if he made is just really busy, but i wish he could have been honest if he's not interested. I guess im confused by this behavior, i can see how maybe ducking out after a first happens, but the second date? he laughed alot on our date and smiled alot..... it just seems weird, i guess i want honest opinions of what this means, and whether i should actually text one last time.

Another thing, is within hours after i first dated he friended me on facebook, i feel like if he's going to duck out, he would have also ducked out on facebook to make him self unaccessible.....

So about two weeks the guy i am dating asked whether my implanon was a 100% protective, I'm pretty sure it is, but I was unable to say 100% because im not actually sure. We've been having unsafe sex but today i head fresh blood which was really light, im used to having brownish every now and then from the implanon, but i wasn't sure about the newer blood,was are the odds of pregnancy on implanon? I have had it in for almost 8 months now, and just wanted to make sure that he and i do not have to use protection

I've gone on two dates with a guy and both went extremly well in my opinion after each time he has mentioned that he had a nice time, this time he said he had a nice time (with a smiley face) . He hasn't made plans with me for a third but he seemed really happy on our last date, I guess im wondering how long I should wait to ask him if he wants to continue or realize maybe he didnt have such a great time. The first date we went on we went out of food than desert than a movie, this time we went out for dinner, than went on walk and talked about pretty deep stuff, he asked if i was religious, and then we went for a late night snack. That after noon he said he had a nice time, i believe he did, but everyone says if a guy likes you he'll text and stuff, should i just ask him on a third, or does he want space?

What behavior would sugguest he doesn't want to continue compared to that of just being busy?

I've gone on two dates with a guy and both went extremly well in my opinion after each time he has mentioned that he had a nice time, this time he said he had a nice time (with a smiley face) . He hasn't made plans with me for a third but he seemed really happy on our last date, I guess im wondering how long I should wait to ask him if he wants to continue or realize maybe he didnt have such a great time. The first date we went on we went out of food than desert than a movie, this time we went out for dinner, than went on walk and talked about pretty deep stuff, he asked if i was religious, and then we went for a late night snack. That after noon he said he had a nice time, i believe he did, but everyone says if a guy likes you he'll text and stuff, should i just ask him on a third, or does he want space?

What behavior would sugguest he doesn't want to continue compared to that of just being busy?

I have been dating a guy for a few weeks now and he is headed to a wedding this weekend, his friends and my friends say he likes me a lot, but the wedding is with coworkers and one of his coworkers makes me a little uncomfortable, i was wondering how common hooking up at weddings actually happen? The other day when we were talking I said it should be a fun weekend his reply "Yeah it'll be a ton of fun", ton of fun as the wedding should be fun or something else, I don't really know his sexual history yet, but that definitely put a red warning flag to me, and made me a little uneasy. My friend says he's only ever been with his exs, a total of two, so that makes me not worry, but i have no idea what to think.

I met this guy when I was younger online, for the past 7 years we have been communicating, involving sexting and skyping and hanging out, hes always saying how he wants to cheat on his gf with me. I always say I don't want to get in between you and he but he says he doesn't care, and since I transferred to the same university as him ( my choice based on sciences) he has wanted to hook up more and more, we text everyday but I'm not sure if I could with through with it and let him cheat. But hes made it clear he doesn't care about cheating on his gf, so why won't he dump her? They have been dating for almost four years, so I think he may just like the idea of them being together for so long.... thoughts anyone? I do like him, would I be in the wrong to hook up, should I tell her ? Or what? Help please

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex because I am on implanon, 11 days later I had very little bleeding like only when I wiped which is weird because I've never bled on implanon only had brown discharge. I heard that the chances of getting pregnant are low but its so weird. He did ejaculate in me.

Last night when i was in the bathroom i noticed a little light red to pink in my underwear, when i wiped i also had red-to pink, but not like a huge lot, but i enough that confused me( because my periods are darker red and heavy, not light) and this morning when i wiped it had turned brownish-to black. I had intercourse on the 27th of august, and also this thursday, was the spot of pinkish red a period that already dried up or is it possibly implantation?

Intercourse dates: August 23, 27/28 September 6

Last night when i was in the bathroom i noticed a little light red to pink in my underwear, when i wiped i also had red-to pink, but not like a huge lot, but i enough that confused me( because my periods are darker red and heavy, not light) and this morning when i wiped it had turned brownish-to black. I had intercourse on the 27th of august, and also this thursday, was the spot of pinkish red a period that already dried up or is it possibly implantation?

What does red specks in white discharge mean?? I ve also had cramps and a week before stringy brown discharge. I'm on implanon so I'm not even suppose to be ovulating but I think I am.....my breasts are sore too...... any ideas??? I have been sexually active.....could I possibly be pregnant?

is it normal to have white discharge/ and clear discharge on implanon, i know brown-ish is, but what about white? Also sore breasts, and headaches in the back of my head

had implanon put in march 5, only had one period

sexually active with no protection

I have been on implanon on for 5 months, and have been sexually active as well, with the same guy using no protection but implanon, and now 4 days later have i have been having black clotty-stretchy discharge. Is this normal? Also I've never had a period on implanon, which is normal as well right??

There is no way for me to be pregnant right? I've also had cramps and sore breasts but i think that is also normal implanon, im not sure though

I had my implanon put in 3 months ago, and i had brown stuff for about a month straight, and in april, and none in may, and still none until today i had stringy discharge. I have been having unprotected sex lately, and my breasts have been sore. Im not sure if its just hormones, or if my implanon may be failing.

So during the fall I ended with a GPA or 3.0, but this winter when i got sick and withdrew from one class and ended up failing another i ended the semester with a 1.0, and a gpa of above 2.0, i got a scholarship from the school I am transfering to, will that go away?? or what is going to happen? Will they still take me? im at 74% success rate or whatever and need a 75%, if I take a summer class will it help?