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I always try to be nice and give help to my friends when they need it or sympathise with them if that's all I can do. I joke about with them a lot, I wind them up sometimes but only jokingly and only if I know they won't be offended and they do it back to me. I can be quite close to certain friends sometimes, but after a while they tend to leave me and/or not bother staying in contact. I've confronted a couple of them about this asking if I'd done anything wrong and both said I hadn't, one apologized and said I hadn't done anything wrong at all and the other asked why I thought that and assured me we were still friends but still neither of them seem to bother anymore and its happened with other people as well.

I've considered different possibilities and thought perhaps I'm a bit too clingy sometimes but I don't keep on with texts or fb messages, if they don't answer the first one even after they've seen it I wait a few hours or sometimes even days before trying again and if nothing again, I leave it until they contact me. Plus one of those friends actually used to keep on and talk to me all the time, it could be that I talk a lot but they talk an equal amount too. I feel there must be something wrong with me for this to happen all the time but need to know what

Okay so this is probably going to sound stupid but I think my glasses maybe bad luck. I got them around possibly the end of March/Start of April. And on the second week of April I had a sort of argument with my friend, she didn't mind but I'm still ashamed of how I acted that day, its too long to write out but I was acting really jealous and childish and I still don't quite feel I've apologized enough for that, but on her part that day she was sort of ignoring me and bringing the mood down (Talking about depressing things from the past) But there ya go. This week, on Monday my crush was flirting with other girls and even hung out with them, this made me feel upset and I really needed someone to talk too so waited all day for my friend to come online but she never did. Yesterday I had an argument with my brother and my Mum couldn't see my side of the story but then when I took of my glasses and went to my room she magically saw my side so went to see if I was okay, my brother was really worried if he'd upset me and they were both trying to cheer my up. Earlier today I went to visit a College and my tutor wasn't as enthusiastic about my grades as she usually is and one of my favourite teachers has suddenly got a little stubborn with me. I had a bit of an argument with my Dad earlier aswell so I felt upset and took my glasses of for 5 minutes, about 15 minutes after I put them back on again my Dad came upstairs to apologize for snapping at me. Now is it just me or is it just too much of a coincidence that all this horrible stuff happens after I get glasses? What the heck is going on? <:0 Any help would be appreciated please and sorry this was so long, thanks in advance :)