troubledfolk

I have a large tank that i was using to grow plants for my other tropical tanks. I got a few of the feeder fish, comet goldfish, to help dirty the tank up and cycle it properly. Now it has been 6 months and i would rather get an Oscar then keep messing with the plants. So, should i just put a heater in then let Mr. Oscar do what he will with the goldfish? Should I take the goldfish back to the store to be resold to someone else as feeders? I don't have another tank big enough for the goldfish and really don't want to get one. Any advice would be helpful. I do realize that if I put them all together that the oscar will eat the feeders, but is it safe for him to do so and is it the right way to go about switching the tank over?

I feel a bit stupid for asking this, but here it goes. I am 29 and in a strong and stable marriage. We decided to have a baby and we tried tonight. I have looked up all of the charts and ovulation kits and everything. I am just really wanting to know how soon I can start testing to see if it has worked. I'm not so excited about waiting a few days after my next period is scheduled to start.

I am also interest in any form of advice anyone has. I am even open to old wives tales, like positions that help produce twins, or exercises that help the sperm get to the egg.

Anything, really that you think might be interesting, or help-full to us.