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You catch them cheating and betraying your love so you dumped them. Then once you tell your friends and family it’s over, he gets mad and treats you like crap! Can you explain to me why they act like that? They were the ones who ruined it all. And now they wanna ignore you and block you.

The guy I’m currently dating has introduced me to his family and friends, he’s confessed his love to me, he spoils me, he has been there for me but he’s very immature and lately his jokes are annoying me he likes to pin point every flaw of mine or say hurtful things and when I finally get mad he laughs it off and says he loves to mess with me and kisses me but I’m taking it too personal lately and I feel like if everything I do bothers him why date me? I am so confused!! Please help

So the guy I'm currently talking to one night at 5am sent me a text saying "I love you boo" When I woke up I couldn't believe it because we do flirt a lot but he's never called me boo or said I love you. I didn't know what to say so I replied if he went out partying late last night almost to make it a joke to which I got no answer, 24 hours later he texts me kiss emojis only! Umm now what??? I didn't say I love him back because that's something you do in person not over text but also What if he maybe meant to sent it to someone else? I say that because we live in very far from each other and next month we plan on meeting each other. So I need a man's opinion on this!!! PLEASE

Things were going great, we both were being more attentive to each other, we d go on dates and we bonded. Calls me his lady, says I love you, would text and call me every morning and night and then out of the blue disappears for a week! I m too mad to reach out again since I did and he never replied!! Why do you men do that?

Why act like you want a relationship and when things go in that direction, poof you re gone. Don t you realize that hurts to the core.

Can a guy who u started seeing as a hook up develop into real deep feelings for you? Can u trust them when they tell you they want to be by your side through difficult times and want to meet your entire family?

I have a guy friend who I have occasionally hooked up with, we are friends but lately I've noticed him a little more closer to me from asking me questions about us. I've been there for him recently through a personal matter and he's taken it serious what I'm doing for him saying that what I've done is deep to him, he's told me he'll always want me until he dies which I thought he was joking. I know for a fact that he cares for me a lot but could he secretly be in love with me? He knows I am not ready to be in a relationship but he knows I love him, I almost feel like he'll be waiting for me to be ready. Wanna know a guys opinion....

Been dating this guy for a few months, I'm in love with him. we have gone through so much as a couple in just a few months we have had our highs and lows yet we have been there for each other, I helped him get custody of his son and now I find out today that he's flying to Texas to get his son and come back with his son for 5 months. I'm ok with his son I'm a little anxious but ok what worries me is that he's going from Friday until Tuesday, he is flying up with his ex grandmother!!! And claims he's staying at a hotel!! And I don't believe him because his ex is still not over him, I want to tell him how I truly feel... yet by nature as a woman I'm naturally jealous but I don't want to sound immature or needy but I have a bad feeling about this especially finding out so soon...what should I do??!! Anyone with baby mama or baby daddy drama please give me some advice as I'm the middle man in this. And it's giving me anxiety

Dating someone who is mature and straightforward YET I still don't trust him, I always feel like he could be cheating, is it more about my self esteem or if I feel this way could it mean he is cheating on me.... he doesn't hide his phone from me but he has told me he has a lot of female friends but I get jealous and I start to think the worst... what should I do???

I'm dating a guy I've been dating for two months, I've only shown him love and affection, have sticked by him through the hard times but when I asked him if he loved me he said it was too soon.. my question is when is it the right time? Am I wasting my time? He said wait 3-4 months... really? I feel like I'm wasting my time but then again I can't force love so should I be patient and wait it out...????

I've been hurt so many times in relationships, that I don't believe or trust my current bf. He is amazing with me and trusts me yet I still have this insecurity or issue trusting him like my gut feeling now I don't have a reason since we are together all the time, but how can I overcome this feeling before I jeopardize this new relationship?? Please help me

Been dating a guy for a couple of months and he has already introduced me to his family and friends, he is with me all the time, doesn't hide his phone, last date we had he brought up our first date he remembered the day and in detail our date which was very cute to say the least. We always have a blast together, We argue but work through it out always now my only issue I have is trusting him all the way since I've been hurt before and the fact that he has a baby with another woman so there's drama there. But despite it all... all these little things he does and more means he's serious about me right? , he's even brought up proposing to me as a joke nevertheless he brought it up and has me wear a ring on my left finger..,what do ya'll think?

Been dating a guy for 3 months now and we barely have sex! I know it's not always just about sex but if I'm lucky I get it once a week. He tells me he has low testosterone level yet he's 24! We go out everyday and our relationship is growing but the one thing that isn't is our sex life! Makes me feel like either I gross him out or he's gay! I know my past relationships were solely on sex I admit it but he's the youngest I've dated and the least I'm having sex with and its messing with my mind! I've talked to him and he says that it isn't all about sex that we have to let it happen naturally?!! Wtf! I like him a lot and he's met my family but am I being selfish to consider ending it because the lack of sex? FYI we kiss all the time and touch and flirt but he says it's a turn off when I get aggressive for sex! I swear I'm confused!!

Currently dating a guy that comes with a lot of baggage yet I've been there for him. Financially, emotionally and now I feel like he's taking me for granted. I'm not trying to be a needy gf but my gut instinct has been unease with him since the day we met. I overlooked a lot of his flaws but instead of feeling loved like you should in early stages of dating I feel like I give it all and he does very little. He's under a lot of stress lately and I don't bicker to add more but I'm truly just starting to get fed up. Should I follow my gut or should I just pull through? We've only been dating for a month in a half and we act like a married couple and sex life is only once a week. I just feel like he's with me out of pity or because I've helped him financially before. I don't see genuine care and love towards me. 💔 Happens when your a hopeless romantic. Please give me some advice

I am dating a guy for 3 weeks now, we met up at first as a hook up but then he asked me out the next day I noticed I make more money and my mistake was to pay for him since I felt bad for him, then on his birthday as I took him out he asked me to be his gf, since then I notice he is very affectionate with me and talks with me everyday and has gotten me a gift for Valentine's Day but I notice that I tend to spend more money on him when we eat out, and I did spoil him on his bday, is it my fault for me spoiling him or is he just plain using me? I always tend to give my all and he does treat me right and he tells everyone I'm his girlfriend but I just feel unease still.

You reconnect with your fwb but this time around it's different you go on dates and there's no sex, he remembers your fav food, drink, music and even kept things you gave him. He just moved into his apt and he invited me over to help him which I did, he took my advice and even did some fixing on the place and kept the things I told him I liked. When we opened up about us he admitted that the only thing keeping him back was the fact that he is worried about my father reaction on our relationship, he is 17 years older than me yet despite that we manage to still be in each other's life. And I also noticed how he still gets nervous around me and keeps mentioning us in future terms like taking a trip or picking out the next date.We haven't had sex yet but we talk daily and I truly think thi time around he wants something serious.. what do you all think?

So I bumped into my ex recently and we chatted for a while, we are both seeing different ppl but we are not exclusively dating them. So 2 days ago we went out on a dinner date to catch up,( which he invited me) we didn't do anything but I noticed that we still have something there, yet I noticed he was nervous around me a lot, yet he would feed me, flirt and open up like he usually does and he would make jokes about us hooking up but when the date ended he was hesistant for the goodbye kiss so I had to go up to him and slightly kiss him like a peck, why if we both still have that strong chemistry is he resisting it? I thought either he is grossed out that I'm seeing someone and going in on a kiss or he is truly loyal to his new fling or he is scared of reigniting us... what could it be? Now know we both admitted that our flings are not our bf/gf so we both know we can end it whenever. Plus he told me that he wants me in his life so what could this all mean?

Met a guy who was a charmer at first, only thing on our first date he argued with me saying I said something which I didn't and when I got up to leave he ran after me and was acting romantic. After going to his place I noticed he has OCD cleaning spray at every corner and he washed his hands a lot and kept apologizing for the mess which there wasn't any, on the next date he was charming romantic but would be distant at times I thought he was easily distracted but things turned for the worst when he asked me out on our 3rd date he decided to last min cancel and after I told him that I would appreciate a call next time since I could've made other plans he went crazy from telling me that he doesn't like the way I talk to him, when I told him that it wasn't worth an argument that it was fine he just replied don't call me ever again. Not gonna lie I was relieved and said ok. I immediately blocked him because deep down he scared me. Keep in mind he's in his 40's NEVER married and he was obsesssed about having a baby with me after just one date?!!! That's psycho!! Just want other ppls opinion cause this man scared me.

My dilemma is that deep down I know he cares for me and when we are alone it's intimate beyond the sex, yet we started as a fling but I emotions were growing on both ends. Can he truly change? What sets me back is that he is currently "casually" seeing someone who I can tell he is using, she's older and she is maintaining him but he is always coming to me. And since we started as a fling I can't say anything...I know that it's obvious he is being a player But why doesn't my gut feeling bother me? On the contrary it tells me to stay to let things evolve but I know I'm risking a lot by getting hurt but I can't walk away. I need some real advice. Can a fling change into something real?

We started out as friends who hooked up and started out as casual dating, he lives 2 blocks down from me and he is older than me but we have great chemistry and we connect. Within a month things were getting serious and so we decided to end things not even 2 months later he has another woman in his life who he doesn't even acknowledge as his gf and I accidentally met her, yet lately he's been fixing things around my house and offers to help me all the time. So a week ago he texted me that he missed talking to me and that he cares for me a lot. We went on a date and hooked up, it was very intense and he kept telling me how much he missed me and that he doesn't want to separate, yet he's moving to another state in 3 months and he keeps inviting me to visit him and stay living in his house since it's just a temp job. Yet he is still seeing the other woman who I know he's using, sounds wrong but I don't mind it since we aren't a couple either but I know deep down he does care, he's been there when my mother passed away and when my brother was diagnosed with cancer and he never left my side. Despite his wild ways he has shown to truly care so I just want a guys opinion on this matter please. Is he genuinely into me or am I just another chick he's playing around with.