becky

One day my husband came home and gave me a kiss and he smelled strongly like marijuana his lips tasted like marijuana. I was really concerned because I m not okay with the man im raising a family with doing drugs. We went straight to the pharmacy and picked up an at home drug test kit that screened for many drugs including marijuana and he passed it. He promised me he didn t do anything. Than today upon coming home from work(he does construction btw and he s 29) he smelled like marijuana again. Is there some form or type of marijuana that cant be detected by a urine test? What should I do? If he wants to do drugs that s his choice I wont nag him or judge him but I will pack up and leave him.

I'm 27 and I feel like every year that goes by is less happy than the year before. When I was a teenager I went through really hard situations but I still felt excited thinking that my future would be better. Now that I'm married, ha that sucks marriage is a joke. My kids were awesome at first and I was a great mom now that they're getting older its awful a complete disaster.

Is this just what's its like to get older? Be honest is it normal for life to suck a little more every year older you get? I want to know.

I've been saving money for my husbands anniversary present. He told me he wants a truck. Its probably 1500 on Craigslist he doesn't need it fancy there's an older truck that he likes. Obviously as a girly girl I wasn't going to go buy the truck myself not knowing anything about if it runs good or if its a good deal. I was just going to put the money in his card and tell him go pick out the truck he likes. He recently said he doesn't want money for a present though without knowing that's what I was going to do he just said that the other day. My plan is to still give him the money I saved up but I also want to get him something small that he can unwrap. What should I do for the small present? $100 or less for the small present. Thanks

I would love to move to another state where I could get away from my friends and family who make so many requests of me and never help me out. Than I would love to live out in the country and have no annoying neighbors to bug me! Yesterday I couldn't even enjoy my backyard because my neighbors were smoking! Yuck it smelled so nasty. To top it off I would love to have my kids ride the bus to and from school instead of me shuffling them back and forth everyday! This would be awesome to me!

I finally have enough money to do something awesome for myself. I can afford to either get braces or have one surgery (breast implants or nose job). Which would u choose?

I have a DS5 and a DS7. My 5yo has a very independent outgoing fun funny confident personality although I think he deserves more from me I don't push him to try new things I don't surprise him or make him laugh often enough. More of a problem is how I'm raising my 7 yo who has depression and anxiety problembs like me. He never knows what he wants he's always second guessing himself hes hardly ever truly happy or satisfied he complains and fusses a lot. The last few months have been especially hard because my H is working a lot of overtime and just isn't there for us(I cant NOT convince him to stop the overtime that wont b a solution). What do I do? I have severe depression and dont even want to get out of bed. I do NOT have friends and family to reach out to, so that advice doesn't help me. I do have a little money and time but I'm depressed and not motivated. Thank u

It's so hard to get along with or have to spend time around people who r insecure about there race. I feel like people like that just assume most white people are racist and wont even give u the benefit of the doubt. Its so exhausting and irritating to me, how about u?

I'm very happily married to my husband for 8 years and I don't want to be sexual with anyone but him. For some reason though maybe this is normal I'm really turned on by big breast and cleavage. Ladies do you feel the same way? At least sometimes? It would be so cool if it was normal for women to touch and see each others breast without having to be lesbians and without it being considered as cheating. Also I'm only a size b so maybe that's why I just want more experience touching/seeing big breast's.

I've lived in California all my life I'm 26. I want to leave because I don't like the fast paced city life. The crowds and the wierd people. It's expensive to live here people are shallow stuck up annoying and racist. Maybe its like this everywhere and California's not really that much worse than other places. Yes I know its beautiful and the weather is nice but it would be cool to move somewhere with less weirdo's and crowds etc... What do you think? Thanks

I feel like my life has been getting more and more difficult every year that goes by. Just emotionally the amount of stress that I'm under keeps increasing over time. It's not really about the facts and details of my life if you looked at it that way you might say things have gotten better but just the amount of joy and hope I have for the future it keeps on diminishing. Do you feel this way? Is this just the way it feels to grow older? I'm 26 now been married 8 years have a 5yo and 7 yo. Do you feel like the amount of stress your under has been increasing as your life has gone on? Or that the happiness you feel is less often and less exciting as the years go by? Please explain, thank you.

I'm a married mom or two boys. I feel so busy and stressed out all the time. I feel like my friends and family are ALWAYS filling up our calendar with get togethers and just stuff they want to do with us. I do get bad anxiety and I don't feel comfortable socializing my friends and relatives know this but they don't listen to me they just keep filling up my schedule for me ugh :(. What can I do? I want to be left alone I want to do what I want to do. Doesn't anyone else feel this way?