Celina

I've been dating my bf for 4 years. Our relationship is great, but there's one downfall. He is very jealous of me; wherever I go (visiting my family, or take my dog on a walk), he'll accuse me that I'm cheating on him. I told him how I felt about him saying that all the time, and I don't want him to use it anymore. He still does anyways, mentioning that it's just a joke. He believes that people who are in relationships should not have friends. I should not have guy friends and he will not have girl friends. I use to agree with him on this situation 4 years ago, but I felt like my thoughts have changed and now I disagree. I asked my bf if he wants to marry me and he said no. He said he's not ready. I told him that I'm not ready either, but I don't think I'll ever be ready. And because I love him a lot, I'm willing to spend my life with him. Now, my feelings are gradually disappearing because he doesn't want to marry me. It makes me feel like he doesn't love me enough to be with me. I feel like if we get marry, we would gain more than what we loose.

I know this other man for a month now, and he's everything I look for. He has the personality that relates to me and he's not as jealous as my bf. He knows his rights, wrongs and when to respect and disrespect. Though we've known each other for a month, I feel like I've known him for 3 years. That's just how much I know him. He recently asked me to marry him and I don't know what to do. I'm confuse, because I love my bf, but I feel like if we ever get marry, I'll be like a bird stuck in a cage due to his uncontrollable jealousy. I love this new man, but I don't know how the future would be like with him.

I don't want any regrets, and I feel like I don't want to loose anyone. In this game, someone eventually has to loose.

If you were in my shoes and you have a day to decide, what would you do?

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What kind of look does black window trim gives to the car & what about chrome/silver ones? Why do people with black window trim wants to go for chrome, and those with chrome wants to go with black. Does it make the car sportier or what? Somebody explain.

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