Tim

My parents always said dinky instead of penis.

When I was a kid, my parents would not say the word penis.  They always used the word "dinky" instead. Like if I was going to take a bath, be sure to wash  your dinky. Or boys have dinkies but girls don't.

When I have told a few adult friends (who are parents) about this they seem to think that is weird or funny.

What do you think?  And should parents use nicknames at all? 

ALSO: What nicknames have you or your parents used?

I remember when I was a kid, whenever my cousin (female, about the same age) would stay over at our house, my mom would purposely have us bathe together.  This happened from when we were about 6 until about 7 years old. 

I definitely have memories of it. As an adult looking back it makes me wonder why my mom did that. At first I thought maybe to save time, just give one bath instead of two.  But, in an odd way it occurred to me that it might have been my mom's passive way of teaching us about the opposite sex body. 

(my mom was kind of like that, for example she had me play with one of my cousins who had chicken pox so that I would get it because she thought it was better to get it as a child)

My cousin and I definitely checked each other out and sometimes even commented about each other's bodies. 7 years old seems kind of old to bathe opposite sex together, especially when they are aware that they have different bodies.

Do you think my mom wanted us to see each other naked? Or just her way of saving time?  

I prefer some hair down there, even a bush.  I wish more women would grow it out.  Is there are reason they do not?

Anyone have any advice how to get a date at strip club?  

Is it weird that I can remember being bathed as a kid by my mom, and I even remember how she would wash my penis at the end of the bath saying "Let's wash your dinky."  I was about 6 years old I think. 

Anyone enjoy SPH?  Ever tried it in a relationship? Have any stories to share?

I was at a Church retreat getaway recently.  We were staying at some cabins out in the woods.  There were no showers or bathrooms in the cabins; instead there were shower rooms separate from the cabins and you had to walk to them and back.  The men's and women's shower room were separate ends of one building and not marked well, so it could be confusing when you are there for the first time.  It was late and dark out and I was showering in the men's shower room, nobody else was there at the time.  It's just a big open shower with no curtains or doors.  One of the single ladies walked in (I assume accidentally) and saw me naked.  She froze in shock with her hand over her mouth and she was looking down at my penis.  It was cold outside and the water was not very warm, so my penis was a small size from the temperature.  I think she mumbled "sorry wrong room" but I couldn't tell.  

I'm wondering if she is going to tell other women at Church about what she saw?  And should I talk to her to ask her not to tell?  Or just hope she doesn't?

Have any ladies here tried SPH in a real relationship?  If so, did you enjoy it? And was it able to become a long term part of your relationship?  I want to incorporate it into my dating relationship but I don't know if women are as open minded about it being part of a relationship.