Selinky

I've been seeing this guy for a couple months and it's been great all except for some things just not adding up with him. We've been sleeping together for over a month and we've done the I love u's already. Too fast I know. He said he was in love with me and talked about having a future with me. I was in love with him. Yesterday I find out that he has a gf and she lives with him. He had told me they broke up and were not living together. He fabricated a whole story about her wanting to come back but he didn't think she could change. So I sent her a text and she asked me to call her and I did. I told her everything and she says she is leaving him. She wasn't surprised, she's been through this before with him. Now he says I did all I needed to do by contacting her to get my revenge. I wasn't trying to get revenge, I was trying to get a straight answer that I could never get from him. I know he's a dog but for some reason I feel terrible about the whole thing. He found me by the way and did 95% of the pursuing. He also says now that he was going to break things off with me and do the right thing. That's not true because he was talking about taking me out when he got back from his trip Sunday. He obviously doesn't know what the right thing is. If he wanted to do the right thing, he would stop being a dog and be faithful to her.

I like chicken, beef, and salmon. I don't like shrimp.

I don't want fast food. I work pretty close to all types of restaurants.

If this has happened to you...could you tell me about your experience?

He says you can still live together and share the same bank account and not be married. I'd like to get married eventually. Should I compromise on this if he is the "one"?

He's a great guy and we have good chemistry. The problem is his ex who used to live with him wants him back. From what he tells me they were pretty good together and his kids really love her. We aren't even a couple but, he continues to see me and tell me he misses me and wants me all the time. I don't want to get hurt and I'm starting to develop deep feelings for him. We have been having sex which complicates things. I feel like maybe I should just get out of the situation all together.