Rock star dreams

ok so lets make things short. im seeing this girl. she recently got out of a 2 year relationship. it went really bad. now i met her, sweeped her off her feet, setup dates and we've even had sex already. ive slept at her apt twice, and we've pretty much been acting like a couple but she said she doenst want to rush into things. she doesnt want to hurt me or get hurt her self (2 year relationship was bad plus bad family experiences) iv'e met her mother, grandmother and her friends. we've opened up to each other from the beginning and made lists of places to go and things to do. truth be told if i ever had a shining moment in my past years this would be it lol. but heres my problem:

i would like to make us official and actually become a couple. what i dont understand is how the hell someone can do all these things and not make it official. i have self respect so i will give it till the end of october for something to happen. she promises me she'll open up more and we'll become a couple one day. but im not moved. maybe you guyz can shine some light on this for me....im actually starting to lose my edge with this girl...i had my edge and everything going earlier on when i first met her and had the first couple of dates. now we text and talk through out the day. like i said, she acts like my girlfriend but doesnt want to rush into a relationship...guyz shed sum light plz

Thanx

i need the answer ASAP

im a 19 year old male who hasnt had that much experience when it comes to sex. ive only had 4 partners, 1 which is now my ex. this is over a period of 4 years. im about to start dating again but the problem is that im am very afraid of the reaction this girl will have towards me considering the fact that im not experienced. i am currently seeing her, not dating her so their is no stipulations. what would you suggest??

i want know what colleges and what programs i would have to go through to get involved in that type of career. any guidance is appreciated