Curious Girl

Please Help! I have a friend who became addicted to Heroin/Meth. I haven't seen her in over a year because she stole so much from me and lied abt it. I recently found out that she's homeless and living in a tent. She's in complete denial about her drug use. I can't have her stay w me and my husband because I don't trust her at all. She's constantly making up stories about why she needs money. I know she really wants the money for drugs. I worry that she will die out there. She doesn't know I am aware that she broke into businesses and stole cash and jewelry. She really has a good heart when not on drugs. I love her because she was always like a sister to me. Also, she wants me to take her to get an abortion because she has no car. She's 4 months pregnant! I feel extremely uncomfortable w that but she has no one to take her. Any advice would be extremely appreciated. I can't stop thinking about this situation. She asks me to come visit her and her scary meth addicted way older boyfriend. My intuition tells me no..I don't know if she's so out of her mind on drugs that she'd rob me...It hurts terribly because I know she's such a good person and I love her. She won't go to a shelter because she said they don't allow dogs. I feel so helpless..I don't want her to die..she's addicted to heroin and meth!

I have a sister that's 16 yrs older than me. She flirts with my husband and when he doesn't reciprocate, she gets upset. She's hurt me a lot in my life and others as well. Our father passed away after finding out he had cancer..he only lived a week and 4 days..many miraculous moments happened during that time. I was and am EXTREMELY close with my dad..youngest of 7 and these last few months have been the worst in my life. On the day of my dad's vigil service, my older sister was going crazy toward all my siblings ( there's 7 of us and my parents married 52 yrs ). I had confided a HUGE SECRET to her. It was about a guy I dated before my boyfriend now. He passed away last Sep...I found out in Dec..I'm naturally sensitive and although I love my boyfriend with all my heart, my ex boyfriend's tragic death hurt me DEEPLY. He was only 25. I confided things about him to my sister. On the worst day I can imagine beside the day my dad transitioned, she yelled at me and said she was going to tell everyone at the service that I was a whore ( I've been with 3 guys my entire life and am 28 - she's been with at least 50!, said TERRIBLE sick things abt my ex and me.. and said a bunch of lies about my dad..then said she would tell everyone my "secret" - which was my personal business abt my ex - she pretended to be there for me after I found out he passed away. I confided things in her. She didn't say anything at the vigil, but she said terrible things abt me to my siblings and others. She has mental issues. She recently sued her boss' company..she was sleeping with him and knew he was married. She got a million dollar settlement. DIRTY MONEY..She claimed he beat her - I know she made bruises on herself and she would come to my condo to get rid of her prescription drugs down my trash chute...she didn't need them. I truly can't stand her character..and the disguisting things she said abt me and my ex were the most HURTFUL words anyone has ever said to me. I've heard her on the phone w my other sister calling me names and saying "f*ck her" for not talking to me. She's crazy negative and only talks abt herself. She put my dad thru HELL on Earth while he was here.all my siblings don't get along with her...i think that she couldn't handle the guilt and she lost it. I forgive her, but I never ever want to see her again. She said terrible things abt my ex that passed - SICK SICK things! She drove my dad to pure anxiety and stress most of her life. I feel somewhat bad, but i truly can't imagine speaking to her again..i don't want to know anyone who could say such CRUEL things. Is it a terrible thing if I ignore her indefinitely? My dad always said she had the devil in her cuz she's so selfish and has ruined many family get togethers..probably abt 25 over the course of my life. I def don't want her in my life AT ALL. Is it best to just ignore? I feel like if I tell her, she'll go crazy again. I blocked her number and from my email. I try to b there for my mom as much as possible, and she sais I "kiss up" to my mom..it's ridiculous and I'm tired of a lifetime of stress from her..always talking abt ppl MEANLY behind their back. Life I said, I do forgive her for my sake, but how can I move on without her going crazy on me?