wee yin

i have lived with my boyfriend for over a year, and we have been togeather a year and a half, really fast i know!

we have always been a bit fiery with oneanother, we look at arguing as a release of things that are bothering us rather than a bad thing,

we are both quite dominant, but usually in an argument i won;t shout or call names as i feel there is no need, he likes to and sometimes he really upsets me with the name calling!

we both struggle financially and so we hardly ever go out to the cinema or even a drive ot clear our heads,

we live with one of his parents, who never gives us any space and seems to be a contributing factor to our arguments. this person likes to stick their oar in and it is not wanted

recently we did get the chance to go out, and it was amazing, we both had a drink and this can sometimes be a bad thing for us as we can argue when drunk!

we did end up arguing, i was so frustrated i slapped him, he grabbed my throat and hit me off a wall, it turned into a small fight.

i have never hit him before, i hardly even shout at him, but recently he has threatened me and thrown me about the house to the point i just lost it.

i am hurt because i know it should never have gone that far, and we were told to move out!

i want to fix things and get back to the way they were before all of this

but i think he is abusing the fact i dont tell my family about his agressive behavior and i worry it will get worse!

im not silly enough to stay if it does but i worry because i love him and i dont want to end the relationship

pleas help if you can appreciate my situation not just someone who will say," split up" or something cheers xxx

i am 20 and in a loving relationship, only a year but we have lived togeather the whole time, we are both ready for a baby and have thought about it in great detail, only problem is im in college and i am unsure if i will go to uni or straight into work after i finish this last year, also i am getting really emotional when i see kids as my heart is telling me to have a child now, im just worried it may jeprodise a career if i leave college now and fall pregnant, please help!!!!!!!!!!