Pookah

Just started a website like this one and would like you to know that you are welcome to go there to post your questions as you post here too.

http://ask.earthbane.com/

Also, some advice on what could be changed about it or added to it, I appreciate it.

I know most people would want to feel pleasure, but are there ways or things I can do so that I don't feel pleasure during s**? I am experimenting with this so I would really like to know what to do for no pleasure.

thank you

When I was a child (very little) I was molested by my sister, not just once but many times. Is it possible that things like that can have an effect on my relationship? Is it possible that I'm acting out upon what happened to me by cheating on my husband?

I cheated on my husband before we married 6 times and held on to them until recently. I felt extremely terrible about my infidelity so I told him about the cheating. I know cheating is cheating, but I really want to work things out with him. He has already talked to a divorce lawyer, but I want to answer the questions he has before it gets to the courts to save the marriage.

Why did I do the cheating? He has asked me this question and cannot provide a good answer. He treats me very well, makes me feel good, and he has always been there for me. The most I have been able to tell him is that I before I met him I had it hard and didn't care about the things I did. How do I explain this to him?

Also, What are things that I can do right now that may help repair the damage? small or big I would like some help, This means a lot to me. I do truly love him, and feel like an a** for this. Please help me.

My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half now. We have been together for about 3 and a half years now. At the beginning of the relationship I cheated on him several times. "6 Times and at times with more than 1 guy". This continued up to about a 2 years into the relationship.

I feel absolutely terrible about cheating on him and since we have been married I have not cheated on him but have just recently as in the last few days told him about the cheating.

Now I don't know what to do. He wants to leave me but I want him to stay. I know that he still loves me as he tells me so but he says he cannot trust me and that he is not sure that he will ever be able to forgive me.

I am looking for advice on how I can make this up to him and what I can do to keep him in my life as I have realized the mistakes I have made but I fear it is to late.

Thank you for any advice and tips you can provide.