Bethany

I had my baby in October, I had a period in November but not December 

My nurse keeps asking are you having contractions... I’ve never had a baby idk what to look for. 

My husband claims I buy food only because I know we have money. It is really starting to get to me hearing him constantly saying this. As a child my family never had food in the house, my mom didn’t believe in snacks, she didn’t cook but 1 meal a day some days you had to fend for yourself. And no one in the house was allowed to use the stove or oven except my parents (my dad never cooked anyways) ... however I spend around $100 every other Friday for the two of us (also I am pregnant with a lot of cravings) ... besides the point he spends 200-300 a month on amo and guns. That doesn’t count in his eyes. The fact of me trying to take care of my house and family is all he sees as money wasted. I am honestly at the point of letting go, giving up, leaving and not returning. It has been like this for going on a year and I am sick and tired of being blamed. I have kept my mouth closed as long as I can, but making me feel bad around his side of the family is pushing my buttons way too far. Should I leave and think about taking care of my soon to be newborn or should I stay so my baby knows her father? I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.

My husband claims I buy food only because I know we have money. It is really starting to get to me hearing him constantly saying this. As a child my family never had food in the house, my mom didn’t believe in snacks, she didn’t cook but 1 meal a day some days you had to fend for yourself. And no one in the house was allowed to use the stove or oven except my parents (my dad never cooked anyways) ... however I spend around $100 every other Friday for the two of us (also I am pregnant with a lot of cravings) ... besides the point he spends 200-300 a month on amo and guns. That doesn’t count in his eyes. The fact of me trying to take care of my house and family is all he sees as money wasted. I am honestly at the point of letting go, giving up, leaving and not returning. It has been like this for going on a year and I am sick and tired of being blamed. I have kept my mouth closed as long as I can, but making me feel bad around his side of the family is pushing my buttons way too far. Should I leave and think about taking care of my soon to be newborn or should I stay so my baby knows her father? I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. 

I’m so lost

I have grown up around younger kids my entire life, I have a brother 9 years younger than me, and all of my cousins are younger than me on both sides of my family. When I was growing up I was 9 before I ever got a brother, then my aunt S had 9 kids all together on my dads side which we all lived near each other within walking distance. My moms side had 3 kids who also 12 years younger 14 years younger and 19 years younger than me.. they also lived within walking distance.... our town consists of less than 400 people. However my husband only had 1 brother and no other kids around on either side his mom and dad were both only child. He has never really seen a baby “grow up” ..... Also I took ECE for learning about children during high school and college for 8 years. 

I am aware babies go through a ton of diapers between birth to 3 years of age. Between diapers and pull ups I have 2 newborn boxes, 1 size1 and 2 size 2... 5 boxes total with 90 in each box. However my husband said I am going way over board.. I say I am preparing because it cost to raise a baby. He gets mad every time I buy anything for the baby. He says everybody is supposed to provide it for us at the baby shower.. would you side with him or myself? 

My has been hurting on and off in the lower parts of my stomach on the right side my husband said it sounds like my bladder. It’s not constant just randomly. Kind of feels like a rock sitting on it. I am just now in my 2nd trimester as of last week. I have never had a child before so it is kind of scaring me. 

I am terrified of needles going in my back and I have been told it is the most painful part, I’m debating to have it or not have it.. if it really helps as much as some say I will but if it isn’t really going to help the pain I’m saying NOoooo

The town I live in is doing a graduation gift for each person and blessing them with what they deserve. I do not personally know the person I received but I know he became a father at a young age, he has a job at a restaurant and he is wanting to open his own business someday. What can I give him I’m completely lost. 

The town I live in is doing a graduation gift for each person and blessing them with what they deserve. I do not personally know the person I received but I know he became a father at a young age, he has a job at a restaurant and he is wanting to open his own business someday. What can I give him I’m completely lost. 

They sent me a paper but no card and I have never been on unemployment so how do I get it? 

My cousin has me terrified! Are they as bad as she is making it out to be? 

She said the epidural goes through the back bone into the side 🤢😰 and the pudendal block hurts 10 times worst going into the vagina!! 😰😰😰😰