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The last 3 weeks our dog keep getting into the trash. We could leave for 10 minutes and you can bet that we when get back the trash is all over the house. We have tried the "bad dog" approach and we also put the trash in a cabinet but he somehow figured out how to get the door open and get into it.

Its not that hes hungry because he could eat a whole bowl of food and still get into the trash right after. Along with getting into the trash he also has been eating the food off the counter, it has got so bad that I cannot run to the bathroom while preparing food or leaving my child eating at the table because he will get it.

We are at the end of our ropes. We knew that Treeing Coonhounds were hard to train and even harder to maintain the "leader of the pack" but we are running out of ideas. We, for now, our kenneling him when we leave or eat but this is something that we don't want to have to do. We would like him to be able to be out like our toy poodle.

Please help! Any ideas are welcome, we've tried everything. Its starting to cause problems in my marriage because I am ready to get rid of him but the husband refuses to accept defeat. We used to have a lot of problems with him but for the few months before this started he was really being a great dog!

Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years have kids and have a house together. We both equally do not trust each other and are always takng too deep of looks into things and coming up with a way the other could cheat.

It is making us fight all the time and neither one of us know how to stop. We both have been in a long term relationship that ended up us being cheated on, lied to constantly, and just treated horribly. Not only that but we also both come from "broken" families where there was no trust at all. I know this has a big part in it but why can we move past it?

neither one if us has given the other person a reasn to be sceptical yet we both keep doing it.

How do we stop this and learn to trust each other before we break up our family for no reason?

I have 1 piece of luggage from world war to with the SGT. D ***** on it, i was woundering if anyone knew the value on such an item? We are not sure if we want to sell it or not but would like to know the Value. It is in incredible shape on the outside, a few tears in the inside.

My daughter is turning 3 next month and her biological father has been part of her life for 2 months maybe and that was a month before she turned 1. it was during a break from his now wife and as soon as they got back together he was out of her life.

since hes really never been part of her life does that award me full custody or do i have to get it court ordered? my only reasoning for this is because she now has a sister and a wonderful man that has been a father to her in every way possible. i do not want her real father to try and pry his way back in and try to get partial custody- then i would be forced to let a stranger (in my daughter eyes) take her

i live in iowa he lives in illinois

Your supposed to turn key to ON position but i cant turn my key at all. We have tried and tried and it will not work...any suggestions?

On very tight turns at low speed, such as going into or out of a parking space, there is a grinding problem with the front end. It refuses to turn tightly and stop to where i can not pull the wheel that direction. Any ideas on what it is?

My boyfriend has a '84 oldsmobile hurst... now i cant even explain how much he is in love with this thing, well men know what i mean. anyways he wanted some oldsmobile things for xmas and his bday, like clocks and signs pretty much anything i can find! But i cant find anything unless i pay over $200 for it. I want to get him alot of different olds things, hes a terrific boyfriend and father to our kids.

Please help me!!! i cant find anything! i have looked at genuine hot rod, ebay, zazzle, and alot more! Does anyone no of other gift sites that i cant find?

Every since meeting my boyfriend and falling in love i have completely switched my view of strip clubs. I used to be ok with them but now i cannot stand the fact of him going someone where a whole bunch of naked girls are jumping on every man that walks in to get money. plus the strip club near us is full of very grimy girsls. my brother has brought home every single one and i no he paid for alot more then a dance while they were in the private area! they didnt charge him when they got home tho!

Here the thing 3 of his friends are engaged and even though they dont even have a date set yet we talk about it and fight about it. his last friend got enagaged this weekend and all my boyfriend could say was whens the bach party it better be at the strip club!!! bot even a congrats!!! hes never been tot he club since weve got together because he only goes for bach parties but he told me he dont care how i feel hes not missing his friends bach partys. plus weve talked about getting married and he said he WILL have a bach party at the strip club no matter what so i said well i guess we are never getting married then. ive told him i have tried to be ok with it but it drives me insane just to think about it! we have 2 kids and a house together but yet neither one of us will budge on this.

Also i have said that the only way id be ok with it is if we went together but he said he never wants me at a girl strip club because they will try to pull my parts out, but its ok for me to go to a male one.

please give me advice because the way i see it if he goes i wont be able to touvh him afterwards ill feel cheated and always wonder what happened. i cant get myself tot rust him around a whole bunch of naked girls trying to get them to pay for dances and other things.

Is it that important for men to go?

its mostly my ring and middle toe but somethings my pointer toe too. it happens everyday!!! i have chondromalacia patella, but i doubt that it would make my toes go numb! any ideas? its not constant nor does it get worse with walking or sitting that ive notcied.

when we met, my boyfriend was still living with his parents, hes had a steady job for 10years and lived with them just so he could spend money on all his toys and have no responsibilty. i have a daughter from a previous relationship the more time wed all spend together the more i thought that me having a kid wouldnt complicate our relationship more. he was ok with it. a couple months after we met though i ended up pregnant and he bought a house for all of us. through the pregnancy he was never home aside from working hed either be at his friends (5nights a week) or in his garage working. now our daughter is 6 months old and he jusrt finally started paying attention to her (hes never had a problem with my oldest and ignoring her) i used to complain that me and our youngest were always ignored andhe got better with her but not me, not we seem to fight all the time and his biggest issue is that he doesnt ever get time to do anything he wants. but he goes to his friends every weekend and on the weekends spends almost all of his time out in the garage, i stopped seeing my friends and getting my time just so he could have more but hes still complaining about it, while im complaining i get all his "leftover" time. when hes not working with friends or in his garage then i get to spend time with him but even then he wont listen to a word i say. i have to say his name 50x just to get him to look at me and in middle of conversation hell just stop and continue to watch tv....i feel abandoned and alone. i also feel that alls he wants back is his old life with no responsibilites but that he thinks hes stuck with me because of the kids, i love him to dealth and hes told me im the one and things like that but why he show it and give me the attention i need? he works monday thru friday all day long so the only time im able to see him is the weekends. i understand he needs time to be himself and do is own thing but so do i and he gets 5x more of that then me. i also have continuosly asked him to include me and the kids in things and do things as a family but he always wants to do thiongs alone. if i cant find a sitter then i cant go to his friends with him. it seems like he wants to do everything by himself and nothing with me or with the family. i dont know what to do anymore. hes a really sweet and good guy and i love him more then anything. weve even talked about getting married but i dont know if i could anymore becuase im not getting what i need from him- his attention and time. i dont want to throw the towel in and ive tried to talk to him a few times about this but it never changes. any advice please?

i hope germ guys responds to this because i am extremely fed up with and tired of dealing with MRSA. my daughter contrated MRSA from daycare 1 and a half years ago since then i have gotten it (i currently have a huge "boil" protruding out of my nose) and my live in boyfriend also has it. when i say has it what i mean is we all keep getting it and are constantly going to the doctor getting the medicines, taking them all properly, and i also disinfect everything in my house trying to get rid of this. we all wash our hands all the time. i am doing everything i am being told to do but it just keeps "coming back" in all of us. my boyfriend recently got one lanced because it was so bad. we all 3 have different doctors and they all are saying different things about MRSA. i asked them to send us to a infectous disease specialist but due to me and my daught having poor insurance they wont except us... will some PLEASE let me no how do i get this under control? we all get it different times and its usually weeks or a month or so before the next person gets it. our families want nothing to do with us because they think we are disease infected and i am terrified my 6 month old will get it do... please help me im desperate and dont know what else to do. ive tried everything i know and everything doctors and CDC have said to do. Any suggestions?