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I know this guy, and he is seriously seriously beautiful... Like he's not typically handsome so not everyone agrees with me that he's drop dead gorgeous - but they'll never give him anything lower than a 7 or 8 out of 10.

But he's so so shy and he never talks to girls except the ones from our community (me) that he's known for a long time. And he's a really nice person but he gets so nervous and he doesn't flirt because he thinks everyone's out of his league and he doesn't want to 'bother them'.

Seriously what the heck? Is this a common thing? He's 18 btw. And he's fit too! He got them muscles! Usually even the plainest guys will btag aobut themselves - especially if they got those muscles!! Who the hell dropped him on the head as a baby...

We were standing around, just his friends, him, me and mine. We heard my crush's friend talking way too loud and close to us, and this is what I heard him say: "She likes you?? This one??" My crush got all embarrassed and annoyed; he litterally facepalmed. They walked off in a hurry.

But my friends started dragging me over to him, all excited, because this is what they heard: "YOU like HER??" etc etc. I think they were just trying to be nice to me. I don't think he likes me, he;s out of my league, he'll never take me seriously, I'm just a sophomore and he's graduating in a month. My friends were just pitying me.

But HE knows I like HIM, probably. Because he looks at me, sits with me and talks to my friends, says when I'm around and says random things to me like he's waiting for my goofy reaction - like it's all a big game.

I'm like the anti-Kristen Stewart. I have a super expressive face. I can't hide what I'm thinking basically. I wouldn't be surprised if he knew - but he doesn't have to lead me on. And make a joke out of it but telling all his friends.

So me and my dramatic face have been giving him the cold shoulder. I ignore him, I don't walk where I know he'll be, I don't leave my seat empty on the bus anymore. He's clearly noticed and it's pretty awkward.

I need to get over him, but him always being around me really hurts and I've started obsessing over it. I feel like their all toying with me. Advice please? Thank you.

We were standing around, just his friends, him, me and mine. We heard my crush's friend talking way too loud and close to us, and this is what I heard him say: "She likes you?? This one??" My crush got all embarrassed and annoyed; he litterally facepalmed. They walked off in a hurry.

But my friends started dragging me over to him, all excited, because this is what they heard: "YOU like HER??" etc etc. I think they were just trying to be nice to me. I don't think he likes me, he;s out of my league, he'll never take me seriously, I'm just a sophomore and he's graduating in a month. My friends were just pitying me.

But HE knows I like HIM, probably. Because he looks at me, sits with me and talks to my friends, says when I'm around and says random things to me like he's waiting for my goofy reaction - like it's all a big game.

I'm like the anti-Kristen Stewart. I have a super expressive face. I can't hide what I'm thinking basically. I wouldn't be surprised if he knew - but he doesn't have to lead me on. And make a joke out of it but telling all his friends.

So me and my dramatic face have been giving him the cold shoulder. I ignore him, I don't walk where I know he'll be, I don't leave my seat empty on the bus anymore. He's clearly noticed and it's pretty awkward. I need to get over him, but him always being around me really hurts and I've started obsessing over it. I feel like their all toying with me. Advice please? Thank you.

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(Still love the movies, don't get me wrong. Some of the only horror movies that actually scare me lol).

Guy 1 - Very tall (6'3) white. British. Short, straight blonde hair and blue eyes. Not the best skin - acne, really blushy. Thin (ut not in a weird way). Has had a lot of girls (girls like him). Likes computer programming. Likes movies and tv shows. Affectionate. Lot's of PDA. Going to Oxford for College. Looks like jamie campbell bower. Very clingy and wants to know all of your personal business. Pushy. Spoiled. Easily offended/sensitive. Likes to brag. Doesn't have many real 'friends'. Compliments you in cute tone of voice. Very flattering/sweet. People call him crazy. Friendly. Makes you ditch your friends (causes drama). Loyal. Psychologically manipulative. Smart, Rich. Flirty. Doesn't get into trouble. Will spoil you.

Guy 2 - Tall (6'0) Tan skinned. Moroccan. Curly/wavy black hair and dark brown eyes. Scar on his cheek (knife fight). Pockmarks/rough skin. Plays soccer and is a boxer. Muscular (not in a weird way) - biceps and abs but still lean. Really genuine smile with a chipped tooth (boxing). Awkward at first. Speaks fluent french and arabic still working on english (but can still carry a convo). Gets into a lot of trouble, even with the law. Looks like cristiano ronaldo. Likes to smoke. Macho. Emotionally unstable/depressed and doesn't talk to you about it. Very funny. No PDA. Serious. Very deep. Sometimes quite. Random. Super Angry. Into sex/very sexy. Family person. 8 brothers and sisters. Poorish - family owns a small restaurant. Will protect you always.

Guy 1 - Very tall (6'3) white. British. Short, straight blonde hair and blue eyes. Not the best skin - acne, really blushy. Thin (ut not in a weird way). Has had a lot of girls (girls like him). Likes computer programming. Likes movies and tv shows. Affectionate. Lot's of PDA. Going to Oxford for College. Looks like jamie campbell bower. Very clingy and wants to know all of your persnal business. Pushy. Spoiled. Easily offended/sensitive. Likes to brag. Doesn't have many real 'friends'. Compliments you in cute tone of voice. Very flattering. People call him crazy. Makes you ditch your friends (causes drama). Loyal. Psychologically manipulative. Smart, Rich. Flirty. Doesn't get into trouble. Will spoil you.

Guy 2 - Tall (6'0) Tan skinned. Moroccan. Curly/wavy black hair and dark brown eyes. Scar on his cheek (knife fight). Pockmarks/rough skin. Plays soccer and is a boxer. Muscular (not in a weird way) - biceps and abs but still lean. Really genuine smile with a chipped tooth (boxing). Speaks fluent french and arabic still working on english (but can still carry a convo). Gets into a lot of trouble, even with the law. Looks like cristiano ronaldo. Likes to smoke. Macho. Emotionally unstable/depressed and doesn't talk to you about it. Very funny. No PDA. Serious. Very deep. Sometimes quite. Random. Super Angry/an asshole. Into sex/very sexy. Family person. 8 brothers and sisters. Poorish - family owns a small restaurant. Will protect you always.

Like be a BILLIONAIRE but the sex is horrible and the guy is a jerk, annoying and you're not into his personality or sexually attracted to him. But money wise you can have whatever you want in the whole world.

OR

The SEX is AMAZING. He's beautiful and funny and sweet and smart and interesting. He's loyal and loves you. BUT you guys would be homeless and hungry. He doesn't have a job and you guys are in debt and you can't buy anything u need let alone want.

Which would u choose and why?

(Just generally, if you had to, based off of this info. This is just for fun lol).

Guy 1 - Very tall (6'3) white. British. Short, straight blonde hair and blue eyes. Not the best skin - acne, really blushy. Thin (ut not in a weird way). Has had a lot of girls (girls like him). Likes computer programming. Likes movies and tv shows. Affectionate. Lot's of PDA. Going to Oxford for College. Very clingy and wants to know all of your persnal business. Pushy. Spoiled. Easily offended/sensitive. Blows arguments way out of proportion. Likes to brag. Doesn't have many friends or has a lot of 'friends' that talk about him behind his back. Cute tone of voice. Very flattering. Tries to get these friends to turn against you (causes drama). Psychologically manipulative. Smart, Rich. Flirty. Doesn't get into trouble. Will spoil you.

Guy 2 - Tall (6'0) Tan skinned. Moroccan. Curly/wavy black hair and dark brown eyes. Scar on his cheek (knife fight). Pockmarks/rough skin. Plays soccer and is a boxer. Muscular (not in a weird way) - biceps and abs but still lean. Really cute and genuine smile with a chipped tooth (boxing). Speaks fluent french and arabic still working on english (but can still carry a convo). Gets into a lot of trouble, even with the law. Likes to smoke. Emotionally unstable. No PDA but super affectionate when alone with you. Serious. Sometimes quite. Random. Angry. Into sex. Family person. 8 brothers and sisters. Poorish - family owns a small restaurant. Will protect you.

When I saw him. I nearly fell flat on my a$$ he was so good looking. Or maybe just interesting to look at. He's moroccan.

He smiles at me sometimes, stares/glances/gazes at me a lot. We don't talk much because i'm incredibly shy with him. Like I want to curl up into a ball and disappear so shy.

I avoid him in the halls sometimes because I'm afraid I'll do something and look stupid in front of him, but on good days I show off and be a little louder with my friends when he's around.

We live in the same community, same religious center, same school bus.

His english isn't very good, and my arabic is rusty (my french is great though at least) so we don't really hang out with the same people though we know all the same people.

He has really interesting dark curly hair and a really sort of face proud face. And he has muscles.. like the biceps... and he's tall. He has dark eyes, and he plays soccer and he boxes. He has a really genuine smile with a chipped tooth (from a fight).

I really really like him and i don't even know him that well!! I've just heard about him... When I see him i get butterflies in my tummy and i can't look away. My heart starts beating super fast and when he looks back i get all nervous and turn away. He would never like me - we have a lot of similarites but we're totally different. He seems too good to like a personality like mine.

This has been going on for 5 MONTHS now... I need to get over him... I'm not normal am I? What the heck do I do...

So this guy super likes me - I had a tiny crush on him but NOTHING serious. I know I sound like a horrible person but yes, I like to flirt and play around. I'm never serious. NEVER.

This guy is TOO serious:

- I've known him for a month and he says he loves me and he's thinking aobut us moving in together after highschool

- He wants to know all of my problems and about my past etc. he says he can help - but he doesn't even KNOW me... wtf.

- I've already explained that i just have/had a itty bitty crush on him, that alomst every girl has for a second because he's very flattering. But he seems to think I love him back (my fault? darn...)

- It's the smallest of crushes ever because I'm still super attracted to other guys (and girls! ayyy) (and I'll say so in front of him) so no, it's not me having trust issues like he says.

-I'm just not in the mood to put effort into a relationship with a guy I'm not really that interested in - I don't care if he's rich or popular.

-We are soo different.

- I don't HAVE to try. you don't HAVE to date in highschool.

- And I dob't one to be one of thosr girls who dates the first guy that shows interest just so she can fit in.

Here's where I suck - I'm super flirty and i hug and hold hands and yes fcuk me i've kissed him (nothing serious tho!!) - I'm just naturally like that.

How do I UN DO THIS?? There has to be a way.. I also don't want to make him mad because I'm trying to avoid drama this year (says the btch that goes around kissing guys).

1 - tall (6'3) ,short blond hair , blue eyes. British (new castle). Sort of thin. into history and psychology. super smart, sarcastically funny. goes after a lot of girls but still a gentleman. a little clingy

2 - short (5'6) dark afro curly hair. pale with not the best skin. half mexican. Into wrestling and video games. Hyper and fun to be around personality. loyal and sticks up for his friends. moody at times.

3 - sort of tall? (5'10), dark curly hair, tan skin, very muscualr. moroccan. speaks french. plays soccer. comes from a religious back ground. a bit of a player. very flirty. willling to fight for who he wants. kind of quiet at times.

4 - sort of tall? (5'11), american. brown hair, pale skin, brown eyes. kind slim. sarcastic. crude. very open/open-minded. helpful. flirty. very experienced in relationships. skateboards. has been heart broken before. older than you my 2 or 3 years.

5 - Tall (6'1), jamaican puerto rican. dark skin, short dreads. smokes weed. has a job. very forward. not too good with conversations. Talks about sex a lot. drives a really cool car. very persistant. compliments you a lot.

6 - tall (6'0). saudi. shory dark wavy hair. dark skin. slim. nice smile. immature. plays basket ball. flirty. sometimes annoying. none of your friends like him. he's very funny and talkative.

7 - short (5'5) older than you by 3-4 years. has a job. polite and nice. not fit at all (chubby?). wears glasses. likes rap music. short hair and a trimmed beard. very clingy.

Okay I've been trying to get over this one guy at my school who is attractive and smart and lives near me and is generally breath taking. But I;m pretty sure he is a player and a jerk, and my friends have warned me about him and I think he's way out of my league anyway...

But there's this other guy that I do really like but more for his personality and I'm fine iwht him just beign a friend but I cant deny there's something there. But he has a bad past (so do I) and my friends have warned me that getting him too attached will cause a lot of unwanted drama.

and that's the last thing i want! I promised myself no drama this year.

But he asked me if i like him and we talked a long time and i couldn't lie.

i just said "I like you a lot in a way that's hard to explain but I'm not up for trusting anyone and I just want to fix my old mistakes instead of make new ones. I just want a friend that wont' pressure me and will have my back for now.. if there's ever going to be anything more I'm sorry but you're going to have to please be patient with me."

I'm a really bad person for leading him on when I am stupidly attracted to someone else - who is bad news! I just know I'm in for a lot of drama, i really didn't want to hurt this guy..

how do i get out of this and still keep a friend? i had relationships.. please don't judge me - I know I'm acting dumb and I deserve what I get but I just need so straight forward answers, thanks.

I've been struggling with eating disorders for the past 4 years. It's constant recover and relapse.

I've recently relapsed again and the effects are all too familiar - my family is fed up, my friends are drifting away and I'm getting physically sick.

I've been trying pretty hard but baby steps is what it's going to take.

The past 2 weeks I've been having 80-300 calories per day - and two days of exercise

- I tried to eat today - 575 calories. I actually had lunch!! but I feel horrible about it and I'm going to go exercise even though I got injured the last time I exercised.

>>>>But the point is: That horrbile as fcuk feeling when I actually eat is ruining my 'baby steps'. I feel like hell and I cut up my whole leg. I feel really out of control.

How to I make the bad feeling stop?

Gotten into the habit of listening to audio books before bed.

And also I keep finding awesome books but I can't find them in stores and I don't want to bug my brother, asking him to use his account to buy them online.

Have you guys read anything new/interesting?

I've found a lot fo classics already and read/listened to most of them so please none of those :P

This guy started randomly sitting next to me a lot in history class. we talk sometimes.

He said he was into this girl (that every guy was) cause she was hot. and he was with her for 3 months before he realized she was nuts and he left her, then she moved. - it was a pretty crazy story so i asked like "wow she must've been super hot" and he was like you're prettier though."

whats that supposed to mean? a compliment or was he trying to say that girls hotness was not the main thing that made guys like her (cause there's prettier people out there)

idk. :P

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1 - tall (6'3) ,short blond hair , blue eyes. British (new castle). Sort of thin. into history and psychology. super smart, sarcastically funny. goes after a lot of girls but still a gentleman. a little clingy.

2 - short (5'6) dark afro curly hair. pale with not the best skin. half mexican. Into wrestling and video games. Hyper and fun to be around personality. loyal and sticks up for his friends. moody at times.

3 - sort of tall? (5'10), dark curly hair, tan skin, very muscualr. moroccan. speaks french. plays soccer. comes from a religious back ground. a bit of a player. very flirty. willling to fight for who he wants. kind of quiet at times.

4 - sort of tall? (5'11), american. brown hair, pale skin, brown eyes. kind slim. sarcastic. crude. very open/open-minded. helpful. flirty. very experienced in relationships. skateboards. has been heart broken before. older than you my 2 or 3 years.

5 - Tall (6'1), jamaican puerto rican. dark skin, short dreads. smokes weed. has a job. very forward. not too good with conversations. Talks about sex a lot. drives a really cool car. very persistant. compliments you a lot.

6 - tall (6'0). saudi. shory dark wavy hair. dark skin. slim. nice smile. immature. plays basket ball. flirty. sometimes annoying. none of your friends like him. he's very funny and talkative.

7 - short (5'5) older than you by 3-4 years. has a job. polite and nice. not fit at all (chubby?). wears glasses. likes rap music. short hair and a trimmed beard. very clingy.

So several guys have been trying to talk to me and get me to go out with them - and a lot of my girl friends have been trying to set me up with different guys.

They guys always are always showing off their cars/brand named clothes etc. And they use lines like "I got a job." "I'd work hard to buy you nice things If you were my girl." "I'd take you out to eat on the regular." ""I make good money/I'm getting promoted/I got a job interview." etc

...Okay that's great. Like being independent and having a steady income to support yourself and your family with. But how is this meant to be attractive? I can respect anyone for hard work - but I won't sleep with the person the bigger sallary...

What about personality? Or atleast physical attraction lol :P Like some of these guys^ talk about 2 things to try and get a girl - i got a job and I have a big d*ck. And then if you want to talk about something funny or something weird they run out of fuel.

But the people I know are like "Why don't you just go out with him for a couple of dates? He's got money and a car - you could have so much fun."And these girls are dating 20-25 year olds while they're still in highschool just so they can drive places and get gifts?!

I like guys who make me laugh and get me and can actually TALK. These girls say I need to grow up and realize what's really important - whether he can support you or not. I'm like... If it's just dating I don't really need half of all his money xP

Am I being a baby? :L

Alrighty,

I'm biracial - arab/desi + Italian. I've had a lot of flack thrown at me by people (you'd be surprised how many people hate interracial marriages.

All the cultures in my family have had a big impact on me so I'm all mixed up and maybe a little confused. I don't wear hijab, I've had problems with gang violence and drugs, I swear and I'm very loud and rude and I joke too much.

- many people from my islamic home country disapprove of my personality.

Only recently has my imam started counciling me and helping me adapt to america.

>>I'm pretty messed up basically. astaghfirullah<<

There is this smart, athletic, good-looking, popular MUSLIM guy in my community (and in my school). He has shown a lot of interst in me. He signed up for all the charity events I did, he always smiles at me and asks about me and defends me etc. My friends say he's never acted so nervous and nice around a girl. That the american girls that go after him get played or ignored.

I really doubt my kind of personality is very attractive to anyone - ESPECIALLY not a proud (moroccan) rich, calm guy we prays salat 5 times a day etc etc etc

(.. eeeeah ele be7sal) - is he crazy. whats the problem?

My mother is pure italian (Abruzzese + Sicilian if that's important..)

and my father is Pakistani (and mameti-grandma is from tunis) - Muslim basically.

And all 3 sides of me have a large number of people in the family to back up - I speak all 3 languages.

So what would they think of me just generally/stereotypically..?