Wild Honey

Why would a man, go from, "i love you, lets move in together and get married", to "i dont see a future with you".... in a long term relationship (4-5 year relationship), and then "date" someone who he can't possibly have a future with (because, say she is either 10 years older than him and has 2 kids, or she is say, 10 years younger then him and looks like a 12 year old)?

okay, so every 5-6 months, on average, my boyfriend and i argue over something that is stupid, in my opinion, but a big deal in his eyes. he then breaks up with me for a day or two and then feels bad and we make up and everything is okay--for a while.

when we are arguing, he always blames me for the so called problem and im supposed to be sorry and im supposed to change some aspect of my personality.

in a reverse situation, when he does something that i dont like...and its a big deal to me..and i want to talk about it....he doesnt want to discuss a thing and says stuff like, "i dont want to talk about it, its over"..or"please don start this again".

is this some kind of abuse? the breaking up for no good reason..and for only a few days? if you were in my shoes...would you be willing to take him back every time...or am i just a fool? lol

If so...how was your experience with them? I'm planning on visiting Montreal next weekend and all i got was a vague geographical area i will be thrown into to (for lack of better wording)...hotwire has great prices but they wont tell you what hotel you will be staying at until you book.

...your boyfriend tells you he's not really into making out anymore because you're way past the "cute" phase of your relationship?

(I personally find kissing important in relationships)

...So the summer is quickly approaching and i'd like to look tank-top toned! anybody know any workouts for triceps or for the upper body, that they'd like to share?

A friend of mine is 6 months pregnant. I'd like to throw her a baby shower sometime within the next month, but I'm not quite sure where to start or what's involved. Any suggestions?