Ben

I am 21, almost 22 and I have done some crazy **** in the bedroom that a lot of men would love to do but never will. I've been with a fair share of women. But I recently got a girlfriend but we have been best friends for years and I took her to a ball. I had the slowest sex with her that I have ever had and it was really deep/passionate and both of our minds were blown. How did that blow every other sexual excursion I've had out of the water? Am I in love? This is probably a really dumb question.

So I had this girlfriend who whenever we would get into an argument, she would cry and I would either hang up the phone or leave. I don't want to hear that because it accomplishes nothing and I think it is a cheap way to try and gain back sympathy. I really am not a dick either. I am always nice to women and I do a lot for them and enjoy it. But I just can't stand a woman trying to talk to me crying her eyes out. It is barely understandable and just so annoying.

I am a registered voter, 21 years old. I have served in the military for almost 4 years and I am just wondering why people can't think for themselves when issues come up. Every time I have voted for something, no party has influenced my decision but I voted based on rational thought. Why do the parties control the way that people think and have such a great influence on the way they vote?