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I married my wife soon after she found out she was pregnant. I love her and before we were married she showed she loved me.

We have 2 children and she has 2 from another relationship.

I love her with all my heart but she seems to not want any kind of physical relationship.

we went from random love making and lovey doveyness

to where we havent had sex in over a month and she doesnt even want to kiss or hold hands.

My wife has been seperated from her ex for a few years now. They have two kids and I respect the fact to let him be in there lives. The problem isn't that he spends time with them its that he wants too spend time with her and she doesnt object. She gets mad at me for not wanting to be togather with them. I have two children with her myself, She gets togather with him and they talk and talk and talk, during the (togather with the kids) time he does nothing but talk to her. Some of her visits can last hours. And when I say anything about it she gets pissed at me for not understanding that she is doing it for the boys. Yet I still see no connetion to how her spending time with him is for the boys.