Catherine

Im sorry, you are probably done with these lame Here is another boring relationship question, but please please give me your imput! guys?

Long story short: I live in California, he lives in the UK.

I met this guy Ben in 2011 and his family while on holiday in the lake district when I was 13 and he was 16 (Now I am almost 17 and he is 19). I didn’t get to know him then and actually don’t remember much of him at all, but at the time I was not thinking about boys or relationships at all. Anyway I became really good friends with his younger sister who was 11 at the time, and our families became really close. A year Jill (the younger sister) came to visit us in the USA, and we grew even closer. All this time I never really thought of Ben at all.

About a week ago, I came to the UK on spring break and am staying with their family for 2 weeks. We have everything in common and stay up ate talking about everything. We both want to travel the world and talk about all the things on our bucket list. We both love food and animals and have been exchanging card tricks with each other. I have grown really comfortable with him and I can tell he has too. Now, I definitely like him, but I don’t want to do anything to ruin our friendship, especially because we will be living in the same house for the next week and I dont want anything to be awkward. But he seems to be doing things that I want to think are flirty, but im wondering if im just misinterpreting the signs. These are things that make me think he might like me, but I need someone else’s input.

1. He stares into my eyes when we talk.

2. He asks me about me and what I like and what I don’t like.

3. He laughs at my jokes even when they are really bad.

4. He always smiles.

5. He has taken me to his secret hideout. He rings the church bells at the local church every Monday and invited me to come. While we were there and after everyone else had left he took me up to the spire and showed me all of the bells and how they work and we looked at the stars and the city. There was a moment when I thought he was going to make a move, but he was very intent on telling me everything he knew about the church and how the bells work. We were up there for a while, just talking and he told me I was one of the only people he has ever taken up here. But I am just visiting, so maybe he was just being nice and he sees me as a little sister?

6. He taught me how to play the bells.

7. He accidentally touches me. He will sit next t me on the couch and rest his hand on my leg, or put his hand on my back when he walks behind me.

8. We stay up super late in his room talking. He has been showing me different things in his room every night. He has a bubble machine and all of his outdoors stuff is kept under his bed, and he has this awesome map of the lake district. We talk for hours, but every time I think there might be something, he says he should go to bed because he has work the next day. I know he has work, but I would think if he liked me, he wouldn’t be quite as dismissive.

9. He invited me to go skiing with his friends this weekend. Again, maybe he sees me as alittle sister he wants to show around?

10. He ordered the same drink as me when we went out to lunch. (am I being paranoid?)

11. He invited me to play badminton with me and attempted to teach me, even though I suck.

12. He has been introducing me to all of his favorite tv shows.

13. We planted his chile pepper seeds together.

14. He has taken 3 days off from work just to show me around.

15. Etc. etc. etc.

I don’t know wether he really likes me, or hes just nervous because I will be going back to the states soon, or he is just trying to be a good friend and tourguide. What im saying is, if he liked me, I would have expected him to make a move when here has been a chance, not getting distracted by his phone, or going o bed, or whatever. What do you think?

Long story short, four years ago I moved away to a little town in the UK. Over the course of one year, I had become really good friends with a guy (Mike) but I really started to like him. Over the next year I tried really hard to get him to ask me out, but back then I was this nerdy, geeky, awkward 14 year old girl, who was insecure and I was afraid of rejection and a ruined friendship. So I did nothing. after 2 years in the UK. I moved back to my hometown.

Mike was one of the nicest guys I've ever met. he was really sweet, a bit shy, not too popular, but really funny and geeky and crazy like me. We had a lot in common, but I didn't think he could like me. Well the next summer, one of my best friends from the UK came to visit. that's when she told me that mike had had a huge crush on me. apparently everyone knew, except for me. I never knew, an then I felt horrible. I guess we were both to insecure to pick up the signals from each other.

I have liked other guys over the past year, but I always seem to be coming back to Mike, thinking there still might be something. Well Im in the UK for 2 weeks with a friend and I really want to talk with him. I saw him, but we never got the chance, because there was already a lot of people. He seems a lot more shy, and I get the feeling that there is still something between us, but it feels like he might be avoiding me.

I know it might be scary, me coming back, but I really want a chance with this guy, and I cant tell if he is over me. I have never had a boyfriend, gone on a date, or been kissed. to be honest, its exciting. I want romance, even if it is just a fling.

so how t I get his attention? and how to I tell if he likes me? or if he likes me and still distancing himself from me?

thanks

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