Ramona

I'm thinking about dating a guy who's Saturn conjuncts my sun, mars, and opposes my moon, all 3 degree orbs. The last time I was in a relationship with someone who's Saturn made those same aspects, we were VERY bonded, we became close fast, she had a really strong hold over me. It took me years to get over it because we were like family. I miss the type of relationship that Saturn aspects cause... but in a dating situation could that create hell because he will be trying to control me ALL THE TIME? That's certainly how it was before. On top of that, since he's got a lot of planets in Capricorn and I have many in Pisces and Cancer, he's going to be the dominant one for sure.

How would it be in bed? Especially when the sextile is a close one ;P Each has one major natal to their mars: his mars is conjunct his Mercury and hers conjuncts her sun.

Our moons were squared by an EXACT orb. We used to get soooooo irritated with each other. We were best friends too, I've rarely been so close to someone in my life. We would spend 5-7 days together on end during summers, sleeping at each other's homes until our parents forced us to go home. In the end she stung me very cruelly and I told her off. But how did we stay best friends for over three years?

her

Capricorn rising 21

Libra sun 25

Gemini moon 21

Libra mercury 8

Scorpio venus 4

Scorpio mars 25

Saggitarius jupiter 13

Pisces saturn 18

Capricorn neptune 21

me

Cancer asc 25

Pisces sun 15

Virgo moon 21

Aquarius mercury 27

Aries Venus 29

Pisces mars 15

Pisces saturn 26

especially if you have venus in an earth sign. enlighten me.

"I almost got shot here. The bullet went over my head and in that window"

"there is no other place you can get this"

"it is cheaper than the dollar store"

"I would rather live here than there"

I already know what the crappy bing and google translate versions are so don't play me :P

Aspects like saturn conjunct moon, saturn conjunct sun, saturn opposite ascendant, saturn square venus etc. I read there may be some kind of separation between the two individuals with some saturn aspects, why? I'm also wondering what makes people stick it out so long when saturn is such a downer. saturn can be so parental, controlling, critical, cold, and they want to limit your growth sometimes so they can possess you :( when you try to break free they won't let you because they make you feel like you "owe" them something. It seems like you can dish out a lot of harsh things to each other, say some pretty cruel stuff, and you keep coming back to each other. Is it that saturn aspects like these make people consciously or subconsciously feel like they "need" each other?

And once the relationship ends, the bond takes a long time to completely break. I don't think saturn misses the other person very much, but the planet person misses saturn like hell.... why? why do saturn aspects create such a strong bond? Is the bond only strong and difficult to break when you have 2 or more "hard" aspects to the sun, moon, venus, or ascendant, or can one saturn aspect act as super glue? Thanks a ton.

When theres a hard saturn aspect to another's venus, sun, ascendant, moon, etc why does the personal planet put up with how saturn treats them? How deep does the bond go on the part of the one with the personal planet? And with saturn in return?

did it force you both to mature? did you experience:

feeling like you need each other (for security)

saturn brings duties, responsibility, burden to the moon

binding attachment

age difference

saturn is protective of moon

saturn helps moon plan and build

moon is flexible with saturn

saturn is demanding, cool, indifferent at times

a physical separation of some kind

saturn is critical of the moon person

moon feels like they owe saturn something

you sense you can have a committed relationship from the start (not so casual)

saturn looks to moon for sympathy

guy:

pisces sun 18

pisces moon 22

pisces mercury 16

pisces venus 12

virgo mars 29

girl:

pisces sun 15

virgo moon 21

aquarius mercury 27

aries venus 29

pisces mars 15

pisces saturn 26

What do they do when they're really mad? I know not all of them do the same things, I just want to see if there will be a common method. Thank you.

my friend told me he shuts down, dwells on things that anger him, gets even angrier, tears up, and snaps at everyone. and since he likes being mad, it takes him a long time to cool down. i'm just curious about what the other ones do :3

just curious and eager to hear about any personal experiences with this aspect. I share this aspect with a friend and we can't help talking about the other's looks, likes, and how we liked each other a few years ago.

ruler of the 10th house is mars (aries) and venus is the only planet in that house. Mars and sun are conjunct in pisces, placed in the 9th house.