Mzlana

Hello all,

I have been friends with my friend for about 7 years and simply friends I stress that, however lately we have not been on the best terms. Everything now seems to end in an argument or some kind of disagreement about something super small. Well, we have been trying to mend our friendship but it is just like pulling the tooth of a sabor tooth tiger. LOL so LISTEN this is the good part. So, lately I had been having nightmares about this dude that has been pulling into my conscious mind from the unconscious whelm. 1st dream, we were at my parents arguing and fussing because he had stolen a dollar from me. I was furious with him over this "dollar" and he wouldn't give it back,...we got into a huge argument and it went outside where I threatened to bust the windows out his car, we got to fighting in the middle of the street and he tried to bust my windows out, it was a mess I don't even know why I let a dollar (in the dream) turn into an all right street battle, he pushed me down in the dream and a car was coming and I woke up crying and crying and cryingggggggggggggg. So toady, I ended up having another dream about him. So in this dream we were again at my parents house, my parents had an elaborate dinner and everyone was dressed up awaiting the festivities. So, my friend was about to make an announcement, he grab my hand as we walked and stood to gain everyones attention, I was like omg is this dude about to propose to me, he did propose...TO HIMSELF in the Dream, I got mad and jumped in the bed to cry and he said don't be mad at me loving myself...LOL I mention again that me and old dude are just friends, we have never been intimate at all, we are just friends so I dunno the purpose behind these dreams i don't even look at him like that! So anyway help! Also, I woke up crying from this dream too...

Hello all,

I have been friends with my friend for about 7 years and simply friends I stress that, however lately we have not been on the best terms. Everything now seems to end in an argument or some kind of disagreement about something super small. Well, we have been trying to mend our friendship but it is just like pulling the tooth of a sabor tooth tiger. LOL so LISTEN this is the good part. So, lately I had been having nightmares about this dude that has been pulling into my conscious mind from the unconscious whelm. 1st dream, we were at my parents arguing and fussing because he had stolen a dollar from me. I was furious with him over this "dollar" and he wouldn't give it back,...we got into a huge argument and it went outside where I threatened to bust the windows out his car, we got to fighting in the middle of the street and he tried to bust my windows out, it was a mess I don't even know why I let a dollar (in the dream) turn into an all right street battle, he pushed me down in the dream and a car was coming and I woke up crying and crying and cryingggggggggggggg. So toady, I ended up having another dream about him. So in this dream we were again at my parents house, my parents had an elaborate dinner and everyone was dressed up awaiting the festivities. So, my friend was about to make an announcement, he grab my hand as we walked and stood to gain everyones attention, I was like omg is this dude about to propose to me, he did propose...TO HIMSELF in the Dream, I got mad and jumped in the bed to cry and he said don't be mad at me loving myself...LOL I mention again that me and old dude are just friends, we have never been intimate at all, we are just friends so I dunno the purpose behind these dreams i don't even look at him like that! So anyway help! Also, I woke up crying from this dream too...

Okay,

I need help, help me....

I been friends with my bestie for everrrrr for literally 7 years. In the past we entertained the idea of a relationship but never really got there or made it official. He and I kinda turned into cuddle buddies in the past but never got physical with one another...SIMPLY Friends I stress.

For about a year now we have started to HATE one another...When I say hate I mean Hater! So I haven't talk to him in like 4 5 months because he argue about everything. He called me about a month ago and said that he would like to talk about this. I still struggled with the idea of why I hated him, I still do til this day. So over dinner we had a conversation he did express to me that truly hold a special place in his heart I thought that was nice. As the dinner convo continued he accused me of being mad at me because we didn't have a family of our own and he said that "if I wanted you I could have had you" and im like hahaha yea and I never kissed you EVERrr in this life yea okay....I then said that how could he think of such a thing, and why would I bless him with a baby and go through pregnancy for a man who I can't even get along with. So, we ended the night sorta kinda on a good note. Later that week we had casual convo on the phone, we use to call one another each night and fall asleep on the phone and we did it again (it took me to a place of peace from the past) but here is why I am kinda sad. He invited me over to the house for movie night and I spent the night as always. I was up for the most part and I remember turning over and I felt him kissing me on the lips, I pretended to be sleep and turned away from him in a "slumber".. So the next morning I said jokingly you kissed me last night what was that all about he got mad and pissed denied denied denied DENIED that and we got into a huge argument and now back not talking to one another :( I mean I told him that it was okay to kiss me just to be a man and admit it...he didn't so im frustrated because I don't understand it my heart hurts because we are constantly arguing about NOTHING help!!!!